Ashley James #39 Fighting the patriarchy one breast out at a time.

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Lurker121 said:
Anyone find her story strange where she was moaning about Ada’s sleep then felt the need to caveat it with “she is a lovely girl”. Seemed such a strange comment to make about your own baby daughter.
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Yes this was bizarre wasn’t it! Like Ada’s doing it out of spite or to be naughty 🙄 Alf, you’re a sweetheart mate but I think she’s terrified of having a kid who actually might have a bit of life in them.
 
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When she says "work", do you think she means a shift at the bakery?

Lovely girl x
 
I think that the only reason she doesn’t get Ada into a bedtime routine is because it’s the only actual parenting she does. If Ada went to bed at 7.30pm and woke at 6.30am, she would be doing one hour in the morning and one at night and she wouldn’t be able to complain about the juggle. She feels it makes her relatable.
When Alf started biting her and she stopped breastfeeding, she then took advice on gentle sleep training. Why doesn’t she implement those things for Ada now? Because it doesn’t suit her narrative of being a knackered mum.
 
What happened to the meal planning and weekly shop?
Why is she complaining she has to eat and tidy when the kids are in bed? Why not eat together and engage the kids with some household jobs? She claims TNB does them anyway.
How much mess is there when the kids have been out all day, home at 6.30 to be fed and bathed before a 7-30/8 bed. She and TNB allegedly worked all day and dinner was a one plate microwave meal? What is she cleaning up?
We know from her pyjamas she’s not doing load after load of laundry and she has a bloody cleaner.
It’s just all total bollocks! She wants to watch TV and look for bullshit on her phone to whinge about after, in her words, “playing” dress up all day.
Oh and the comments on Pammy were generally nice, does she rely on the fact that no one checks?!
 
Ada seems to be poorly, exhausted and missing her mum from being with the childminder for 11hrs 😞😥 it's totally understandable she would be waking up seeking comfort, I think perhaps Ash should consider taking her out of childcare for a few days and let her have a nice routine and decent rest at home (no naps in the pram) and see how much of a difference it makes to her overall wellbeing and sleep. It's cruel that she dumps her in continuous childcare just so she can try on hideous outfits and post reels that no one asked for. There is no reason Ada couldn't be at home for her first long nap of the day, when Ash is just swanning about the house with tattle londonshopper anyway!

Hearing her little cry made me so upset, and here Trash is rolling her eyes about her spray tan being delayed wtf 😔

Ashley also harping on about how good Alfie's sleep is at the moment, the poor kid is probably shattered after never being permitted to nap at home for 3 years!! He probably loves and appreciates the peace and security of his own bed.
 
ToolaRoola said:
I don't know why she doesn't get her bunny lines treated as they stand out so much with her smooth forehead.
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I think these have been created by Botox. You usually see when the forehead is so frozen that wrinkles appear in weird places after because the face movement changes. It’s like all the movement has to go somewhere so you end up with excessive wrinkles somewhere else.
 
Larahk said:
Ada seems to be poorly, exhausted and missing her mum from being with the childminder for 11hrs 😞😥 it's totally understandable she would be waking up seeking comfort, I think perhaps Ash should consider taking her out of childcare for a few days and let her have a nice routine and decent rest at home (no naps in the pram) and see how much of a difference it makes to her overall wellbeing and sleep. It's cruel that she dumps her in continuous childcare just so she can try on hideous outfits and post reels that no one asked for. There is no reason Ada couldn't be at home for her first long nap of the day, when Ash is just swanning about the house with tattle londonshopper anyway!

Hearing her little cry made me so upset, and here Trash is rolling her eyes about her spray tan being delayed wtf 😔

Ashley also harping on about how good Alfie's sleep is at the moment, the poor kid is probably shattered after never being permitted to nap at home for 3 years!! He probably loves and appreciates the peace and security of his own bed.
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I don't think Ada naps much, there is no routine for these poor babies. Certainly no bedtime routine, she brings them home from daycare and shoves them in the playroom in front of the TV until 8pm when she expects them to magically fall asleep on command. Did nobody tell her babies love routine? 🤪

What happens to babies sleep when they feel secure 😂😂
 
Fuzzyslippers22 said:
I don't think Ada naps much, there is no routine for these poor babies. Certainly no bedtime routine, she brings them home from daycare and shoves them in the playroom in front of the TV until 8pm when she expects them to magically fall asleep on command. Did nobody tell her babies love routine? 🤪

What happens to babies sleep when they feel secure 😂😂
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She has always said she doesn’t believe children need a routine and they should fit in with what adults want to do. She trusts her instinct!!
 
okdo2022 said:
She has always said she doesn’t believe children need a routine and they should fit in with what adults want to do. She trusts her instinct!!
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Alf is so resigned to this, but I hope Ada acts out and causes hell because of this lack of structure and ironically safety that routine gives (ironic because she spouts her babies feel secure because she responds to them)
 
anotherday07 said:
Didn’t she say TNB was at football last night? Sure she ups the drama to prove a point to him when he’s not there
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100%! I have a friend who does this, the baby magically sleeps really well but then wakes up 10000 times the night her partner dares to go out 😂

If it’s even half true that Ada is less docile and more physical than Alf she probably needs energy burned off. Wonder if they will go back to the desperate soft okay every evening.
Ashley will be dressing a structured bedtime for Ada though, she won’t be able to hide upstairs on Instagram claiming she’s cluster feeding her 1 year old!
 
sasbeep said:
I think these have been created by Botox. You usually see when the forehead is so frozen that wrinkles appear in weird places after because the face movement changes. It’s like all the movement has to go somewhere so you end up with excessive wrinkles somewhere else.
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She’s definitely had Botox

Ada loves a bit of Botox in her breastmilk. It goes nicely with her weekly spray tan transfer
 
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