Ashley James #38 My family One I regret (Alf), One I love (Ada), one I'm indifferent about (TNB)

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She is the least maternal person ever. She has no idea how to talk to her children, what to say, what tone of voice to use. First get that bloody phone out of his face - of course he doesnt want to communicate with a phone. Second try viewing your kids as actual people and talking to them as such. But she wont, and she cant.
 
littlepup said:
I wonder if Alfie refuses the foot gauge.
Or Is she baiting as she knows she gets engagement from leaving Alf out?

Wonder why she cut at him getting off the little car too because surely his answer would have been butter then her “Alfieeeeeee”?
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He might refuse the gauge but they could be creative. In lockdown I printed a thing from Startrite’s website which was basically a paper ruler so you could quickly mark heel and toe, and a bit that detached for width. They could surely do that when he’s staring at Uncle iPad or Aunty iPhone.

ETA link

Paper Measuring Gauge - Printable Shoe Size Chart - Start-Rite

Start-Rite offers a FREE, hassle-free experience with the Printable Shoe Size Chart and Paper Measuring Gauge. Discover accurate sizing at your fingertips.
www.startriteshoes.com www.startriteshoes.com

They also have this now which looks great

Measure - How to measure at home - Measure with your phone - Start-Rite Shoes Limited

www.startriteshoes.com www.startriteshoes.com
 
Well if she’d got him properly fitted in the first place and tried to keep up with it it wouldn’t be a problem! Don’t need to be a genius to realise your child has gone up another 1/2 size or so and buy accordingly. I mean his feet aren’t shrinking are they, it’s only going one way! If I’m doing this I stick to the same brand as my child’s last shoe as I know they’ll be a similar fit. And yes I do buy second hand shoes if they’re in good condition, I’m not made of money and quality shoes are important. I know people get sniffy about secondhand shoes but many have no choice and in most cases they’re hardly worn.

She just doesn’t care.
 
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InTheDollsHouse said:
He might refuse the gauge but they could be creative.
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Absolutely we did exactly the same until we bought a gauge, but this is Ashley 😂 I don't think creative solutions are her forte.
Remember her wacky, artistically creative idea that she needed the assistant 'bring to life' and turned out to be a handful of disco balls and a tinsel curtain off Amazon.
Honestly, you wonder how she's made it this far!!
 
Anyone else filled with fear at the sight of an unrestrained infant under the control of a toddler 🫣

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Ss-ldn said:
Sorry if I've missed it but when did this appear in her bio?

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She wants women to thrive my arse. Surprised she didn't mention something about us lovely trolls since we clearly occupy so much of her headspace 🤣
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Last week I think it was. Ironic isn’t it.

I see her latest grid post - they’ve had a weekend at home (hi Ashley). To be honest, I’m not surprised she doesn’t do it often or enjoy it much - being confined in one room with your children when at home must make the day really drag. Why can’t they let the kids, especially Alfie, in other rooms in the house?! Always confined and someone’s always got their shoes in. Such a horrible home life!
 
Urghhhhh here we go yet again on the merry-go-round of ‘look Alf loves his pram & dolls house’ etc. Absolutely no big deal that your boy likes these toys Ash, but what is strange is that you made such a fuss about never putting Alf in “boys” clothing yet Ada is dressed up in all the pink, frills, dresses and gender stereotypes you can imagine.
It’s only gender equality if you apply the same for both genders, where are Ada’s gender neutral clothes just like Alfie?

One of my main gripes with her is that she paints herself as a feminist, but this is a poor disguise for her misandry.

Also, her grammar is appalling.
 
No she’s saying Miss Rachel was their babysitter. Of course. Both kids wanted her so of course she had to rely on the TV to pacify them both rather than actually just parent. Strange that TNB walked in and just happened to film them sitting watching the TV. If I asked my husband to film me watching the tv with my son he’d think I was drunk. Also why is Tommy always tickling those kids? It’s weird af, learn to interact or make him laugh another way, he’s either miserable and exhausted / zombies watching the TV or being tickled in to a frenzy. I honestly feel more sorry for those kids every time she posts.
 
SavvyBee said:
No she’s saying Miss Rachel was their babysitter. Of course. Both kids wanted her so of course she had to rely on the TV to pacify them both rather than actually just parent. Strange that TNB walked in and just happened to film them sitting watching the TV. If I asked my husband to film me watching the tv with my son he’d think I was drunk. Also why is Tommy always tickling those kids? It’s weird af, learn to interact or make him laugh another way, he’s either miserable and exhausted / zombies watching the TV or being tickled in to a frenzy. I honestly feel more sorry for those kids every time she posts.
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Ah, gotcha! 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️Apologies, it doesn't take much for her to infuriate me 😂😂😂
 
omg UNSCREW THE BLOODY SCREWS and take it apart and do it again!!! you do it wrong, you start again so your beautiful angelic son actually gets some effort on his birthday. I'm sickened by her moaning about how expensive it is and envisaging Ada playing with it, now Alf has to share his gift with his sister before he's even got it for his own birthday. The resentment is seeping out of every pore. got i particularly dislike her today shes a cruel hag
 
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