Ashley James #37 Captions full of bollox, forehead full of Botox.

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Does Alf not have a little scooter or even one of those little balance board things to go on the back of Ada’s pushchair? My 1 year old can’t bear to be in the pushchair anymore so I’m sure Alf would love to be out of it too
I’m fairly certain he’s been gifted 1 if not more! He has a personalised bike/ scooter that I’m sure Ashley hasn’t taken off the seat yet and converted it to a scooter.
 
What was the point of her on this show? She just sits there snarling.

She made a joke of Gyles having a whole wardrobe of knitted jumpers… he does, and he’s well known for it.
Bringing up boarding school like it’s relatable and coded messages from her dad that she couldn’t elaborate on cos it’s probably not true 🥴

I don’t think she said two words on the Im a celeb segment, but the green light on her boots with a purple dress and giant pointy chin made her look like a witch.

She’s just so dull.
 
I ask in all seriousness; does Ms James really not care if Alf’s mobility is stunted and curtailed for life?
Is she indifferent to the fact that, if she carries on ignoring his mobility issues, he will never be able to run for a train, ride a horse, play cricket, enter into school sports competitions, and may end up with arthritis (which is extremely, extremely painful)?
Does she care so little for him that she is prepared to make his world a small, linited one covered in obstacles that ‘normal’ bodied peoplr - like herself - can navigate with ease?
Does she care so little that she can watch, unmoved, as other children rip him to pieces with their cruel words and mockery, and may physically harm him because of his relative immobility?
Is she so oblivious to his suffering that she thinks it normal for a child of his age to be unable to run 100 yards, descend stairs, jump on a trampoline wirh both feet and even walk a few feet to the childminder’s?
His developmental issues aside*, she surely has to see how badly this reflects on her as a mother. As a person. As a ‘celebrity’. These threads would be infinitely slower, and vastly fewer in number, if only her attention-seeking were called out. But it is her treatment of Alf, and his unhappiness, that spurs us on - whether we are parents or childfree. And what we condemn her for is bleeding into the real world - her world, her career - because others are seeing what we see: that that little boy has serious mobility problems that could affect the whole of his life. If she’s not careful, he will detach from her altogether by the time he is eighteen. He may write a book about her, exposing her neglect of him to the world. And I can’t imagine that her vanity could permit her to be seen with a struggling, unnecessarily disabled child or young adult. Her career is her motherhood. If she continues to neglect the child, others will condemn and neglect her. It’s that simple.

*The jury is out on whether Alf is developmentally delayed, infantilised and under-stimulated, or autistic. As an autistic woman myself, I have been very wary of ‘diagnosing’ him via what we’ve seen on her social media. However, there are three ‘tells’ that have caught my eye: inability to make eye contact and when he does so, he seems distressed; hand-flapping and squawking, with disproportionate responses to minor situations; and lining up objects in neat rows. He should be assessed after his first year at school if more tells present themselves. I’m sure Ms James could monetise having a neurodivergent child: being an ‘autie’ mum and going through the official process re: diagnosis, treatment and so on. At least Alf might get sufficient attention then, albeit having a camera pointed in his face even more than he does already.
Oh - and cut and brush his hair. Letting your child look like a Dickensian urchin smacks of neglect (again).
 
We've been living our worst nightmare the past two weeks with our nearly 9 months old in PICU. Been utterly utterly horrific, and yet as a family we've been completely swept up in love and support by those around us and those far away. I guess that's because we're not cunts. Be grateful trash for your two beautiful healthy children. You have no idea what's around the corner.
Your darling little one, you and your family are all in my prayers. Xx
 
Sending you so much love. I really hope your little one is on the road to recovery.
Be kind to yourself with the mix of emotions that might come 💗
thank you guys for your messages 💗. Ohh ITDH what a ride it's been with emotions! Today is a great day though, we were moved to the childens ward last night and she is getting better and stronger everyday 🙏.
 
thank you guys for your messages 💗. Ohh ITDH what a ride it's been with emotions! Today is a great day though, we were moved to the childens ward last night and she is getting better and stronger everyday 🙏.

Wonderful news!

I know this is easier said than done but look after yourself, too. You’ve been running on adrenaline to get you through xx
 
As an autistic woman myself, I have been very wary of ‘diagnosing’ him via what we’ve seen on her social media. However, there are three ‘tells’ that have caught my eye: inability to make eye contact and when he does so, he seems distressed; hand-flapping and squawking, with disproportionate responses to minor situations; and lining up objects in neat rows.
I thought when he came home the other day (ignoring her and talking about kids club, the kid with a 50 word vocab and knows that phrase ) he was saying something about lining up? Did anyone catch that too?

Incidentally, looking at some old posts yesterday of the garden, they have a pizza oven. She wrote a caption about big parties and the kids choosing their own toppings. Obviously all preformative. In the region of £10,000 that outdoor kitchen too.
 
Just catching up with Trash on TM.
when they talk about beards… Giles mentions how Prince Harry had to ask permission from the Queen to have a beard on his wedding day…
Trash says…
“I know a few people in the army that were quite cross with it because it felt like they weren’t allowed and he was, so it was one rule for them and one rule for him.”

She really doesn’t know EVERYONE doesn’t she!?
 
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