Ashley James #31 family of four; me, ADaline and my boobs

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ItsRebekahVardysAccount said:
You know what I find crazy and so odd. I know they get AllPlants and must get other food delivered, but she never does a story just popping to the shop, or going on a walk round the block, in a local park…just nothing that builds the fundamental building blocks of having kids. It might be a bit dull but it’s so normal…! Not sure I’ve ever seen Alf in a trolley? My kid loves the SmartShop and helps me with that, scanning stuff for me at not even 2. We do it together. Even a drink in a local cafe, she doesn’t do. So strange.
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Oh he’s been in a trolley with TNB, accompanied by uncle iPad
 
ItsRebekahVardysAccount said:
You know what I find crazy and so odd. I know they get AllPlants and must get other food delivered, but she never does a story just popping to the shop, or going on a walk round the block, in a local park…just nothing that builds the fundamental building blocks of having kids. It might be a bit dull but it’s so normal…! Not sure I’ve ever seen Alf in a trolley? My kid loves the SmartShop and helps me with that, scanning stuff for me at not even 2. We do it together. Even a drink in a local cafe, she doesn’t do. So strange.
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Oh she does it, but only for content.

He’s been in a Sainsbury’s trolley with his iPad while she advertised TU

She pretended to go for a local walk while advertising the Out n About double buggy (and pushed an empty pram around while advertising the Google Watch)

She took Alfie to the park to advertise a vaccine (and turned off comments)

They all went out to eat and Alf was put on a table by himself with his iPad while Ash, Tommy and Ada were at a different table


She has no idea how to parent unless she’s being paid for it.
 
InTheDollsHouse said:
Oh she does it, but only for content.

He’s been in a Sainsbury’s trolley with his iPad while she advertised TU

She pretended to go for a local walk while advertising the Out n About double buggy (and pushed an empty pram around while advertising the Google Watch)

She took Alfie to the park to advertise a vaccine (and turned off comments)

They all went out to eat and Alf was put on a table by himself with his iPad while Ash, Tommy and Ada were at a different table


She has no idea how to parent unless she’s being paid for it.
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Tommy also takes Alf to Gail’s while she lounges in bed with the golden child occasionally.

She talks about dreaming of sushi dates and coffee shop with them, why not start now?! My little one was at the revolving sushi conveyer gnawing bits of avocado or fruit enthralled from weaning.
In my experience they love being ‘grown up’ and doing what Mummy does (hello free babycinnos) but Ash wouldn’t give Alf a chance.
She finds it all too stressful, it can be, but he’ll never learn how to interact in a more adult environment if she keeps him strapped in a highchair with an iPad.
 
InTheDollsHouse said:
Oh she does it, but only for content.

He’s been in a Sainsbury’s trolley with his iPad while she advertised TU

She pretended to go for a local walk while advertising the Out n About double buggy (and pushed an empty pram around while advertising the Google Watch)

She took Alfie to the park to advertise a vaccine (and turned off comments)

They all went out to eat and Alf was put on a table by himself with his iPad while Ash, Tommy and Ada were at a different table


She has no idea how to parent unless she’s being paid for it.
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What!! When was this 😩
 
‘Food diary for Ada: she really enjoyed the lunchable with her 50 sets of incoming teeth. Almost choked from lack of core strength. Snacks were watermelon and pre-grated cheese finished with a banana purée pouch.

She wouldn’t be put down nor take a bottle.

Food for Alf: pre grated cheese with a side of Ipad.

Mare of a day. Don’t come back x’
 
So she (or more like Tommy) has taken Alf to nursery at 7.30, then brought Ada home to take back in later?

Cos god forbid she should have two children at once.
 

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So Alf goes to the childminder from 7.30 because his primary care giver leaves for work then! Heaven forbid his MOTHER would look after him for an hour or two, rather than sit around being pampered.
Poor Ada if she's not taking a bottle. It's a bloody hot day today. She won't be used to drinking water. I hope she's not dehydrated.
And yes, she'll definitely be reverse cycling tonight!
Mine went to childcare at 12m so was eating 3 meals a day but still fed like a maniac overnight for the first few months when she got home
 
She’s a bare faced liar. She is taking a bottle, she’s filmed it before! Why would you pump that much milk if you know she doesn’t take a bottle? How can you put a 6mo into childcare when you don’t HAVE to, knowing they’re refusing nutrition and hydration on a 30c day?

“Emotional knowing the period of it just being us is coming to an end’

DONT WORRY ABOUT YOUR OTHER CHILD.
Just proves the travelling reels was all for show and content as she’s already forgotten about Alf.

Dick’ead 🤬
 
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I cannot believe Alf is banished to the church hall at 7.30 just because that’s when Tommy goes to work! bleeping hell. I’ve been the parent who had to do early drop offs because of a killer commute, and I felt horrendous guilt because of it. I was a single parent and there was no choice. As soon as I was able, I actively searched for - and moved to - a new job to give my child a better balance.

I wouldn’t dump my child the moment they open if I was at home.

Oh and Ash - your hair looks tit.
 

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Jesus poor Alf must get turfed out of bed, lobbed into some clothes and then shunted down the road to the childminder’s quick-march to be there that early. And I do often have to drop mine at 7:50 to make my train on the days I’m in work, and I often feel tit about it especially in the winter as it’s not even light! I always try to make sure I’m ready before he’s even awake to maximise our time together and then we always chat and eat toast all the way to nursery. It’s not ideal but needs must because I actually have specific train to catch and a job to get to. If I didn’t, I cannot fathom doing it like that.
 
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JarvisCockerSpaniel said:
Jesus poor Alf must get turfed out of bed, lobbed into some clothes and then shunted down the road to the childminder’s quick-march to be there that early.
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It’s prob his punishment for waking them up really early. Remember he has Tommy up from 5am doesn’t he? If he’s in from 7.30am does he even see Trash in the morning? Cos she’s definitely not out of bed at that time?

If she’s genuinely not taking a bottle how is she drinking the milk? I don’t get it?
 
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