Ashley James #13 Nothing of substance

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willowtree2 said:
Basically it’s tit but not too tit that you should still order it via my link so I can earn more money out of you all.

Alfs face - ‘Dad, why is she still here?’ 😂

Guessing they left Snoop at home for the day again!
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Why has she got a single buggy and not a double? Alf isn’t even 2 yet is he? Is that how she’ll get out of taking them both out together or is she planning on using a sling for the first year on every walk until Alf is out of a buggy? 🤔
* edited to add- sorry all the ? Marks I almost want her to answer via her stories 😂
 
Ro98 said:
Why has she got a single buggy and not a double? Alf isn’t even 2 yet is he? Is that how she’ll get out of taking them both out together or is she planning on using a sling for the first year on every walk until Alf is out of a buggy? 🤔
* edited to add- sorry all the ? Marks I almost want her to answer via her stories 😂
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She’s on the beg for a bugaboo donkey like her mate Lucy Meck got!
 
Mightbeasharpscratch said:
Oh this is new and interesting content.!!! 🙄🙄🙄🙄 Don’t worry if you’re single at 30 girls… 🙈🙈🙈🙈
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I'd forgotten she was single and led a great life. I really needed another reel of her glamorous holidays to make myself feel better 🙃

Of course she had a great time being single - just look at her pictures. Her own flat, holidays to South Africa, Mexico and Maldives, going to events (for free or paid as DJ Bean) and childfree.

Life is hard for the normal single person, particularly if you haven't got money, and not because you might be lonely but because of all the responsibilities that come with, it's even harder if you're a single parent.

Who is this reel aimed at? Surely her target audience is mum's and pregnant women? I doubt many single, carefree 30 year olds follow her for inspiration these days.
 
Here we go again, this is what single at 30 looks like… no Ashley, that’s what single at 30 looked like for you!! We are all very different and some aren’t as privileged as you. Also please stop giving unsolicited advice to single women! Quite frankly it’s embarrassing considering how quickly you settled down, had a baby and now base your entire personality on being a mum 🥴
 
ToolaRoola said:
I'd forgotten she was single and led a great life. I really needed another reel of her glamorous holidays to make myself feel better 🙃

Of course she had a great time being single - just look at her pictures. Her own flat, holidays to South Africa, Mexico and Maldives, going to events (for free or paid as DJ Bean) and childfree.

Life is hard for the normal single person, particularly if you haven't got money, and not because you might be lonely but because of all the responsibilities that come with, it's even harder if you're a single parent.

Who is this reel aimed at? Surely her target audience is mum's and pregnant women? I doubt many single, carefree 30 year olds follow her for inspiration these days.
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i wasn’t struggling to get by when I was single, but it really does feel like the U.K. is only made for stable couples. It’s more expensive to rent, groceries work out as more expensive, going to evens without a plus 1 is more expensive… it’s nigh on impossible to buy a house or flat as a singleton.

I worked out that I’d only be able to buy a place on my own on my 40s while I was single, so I was stuck in shared accommodation.

when I became serious with my OH, materially my life improved exponentially. We could afford a house. Expenses for the most part, became shared.

there’s a ton of stigma attached to be single too, it’s very subtle but … it’s there. And then there’s the physical and emotional support you get form a partner. The world is a lot scarier when you have someone you love to go through life with.

being single had lots of perks and I get what Ashley is trying to say.. but her singleness probably looked very different to the majority of peoples’. And what I really can’t stand is coupled up people smugly telling others they’ll find the right one some day, to enjoy being single whilst they enjoy all the perks of a relationship.

just leave the advocacy for singlehood to, yano, actual single people who didn’t settle down and have a baby within a few minutes of meeting someone.
 
cee-bee said:
i wasn’t struggling to get by when I was single, but it really does feel like the U.K. is only made for stable couples. It’s more expensive to rent, groceries work out as more expensive, going to evens without a plus 1 is more expensive… it’s nigh on impossible to buy a house or flat as a singleton.

I worked out that I’d only be able to buy a place on my own on my 40s while I was single, so I was stuck in shared accommodation.

when I became serious with my OH, materially my life improved exponentially. We could afford a house. Expenses for the most part, became shared.

there’s a ton of stigma attached to be single too, it’s very subtle but … it’s there. And then there’s the physical and emotional support you get form a partner. The world is a lot scarier when you have someone you love to go through life with.

being single had lots of perks and I get what Ashley is trying to say.. but her singleness probably looked very different to the majority of peoples’. And what I really can’t stand is coupled up people smugly telling others they’ll find the right one some day, to enjoy being single whilst they enjoy all the perks of a relationship.

just leave the advocacy for singlehood to, yano, actual single people who didn’t settle down and have a baby within a few minutes of meeting someone.
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Steady on… you’re giving her some content tips here. Next thing we know she’ll be wanging on about the stigma of single life.
 
I find it bizarre that she says try to enjoy every stage (unsolicited advice there Ashley) while publicly admitting she’s hated many stages of her child’s life and is clearly lusting for her past life. I’m not even convinced she enjoys being in a relationship because she’s so focused on herself, it’s just handy to have Tommy around to parent Alf.
If SS are monitoring her social media, surely they can see a contrast between her stuff before and after they have intervened? Like this whole ‘we always do things as a family woo love family time all about Alf’ is very very new and imo very transparent? At almost 2, he’s never been to most local places incl. a library when he’s allegedly mad about books, he still looks vacant and unattached around his mother and doesn’t seem to get the interaction with her that most kids his age crave??
 
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Ashley has ‘lots of friends’ considering egg donation, and ‘so many’ of her friends have had ‘long fertility journeys’. These things are serious but not super common. To have shed loads of friends who fall into one of these categories must be super rare (or a lie). And, wow, all of those friends are so close to her that they’ve confided these very personal matters to her. Absolute bullshit. Again.
 
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