Ashleigh McNab

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I think she should be over the moon that the step mum has stepped up and makes Mason feel included. The step mum is the only reason my bairn goes to his dad's as she's no a riot like him and social work insist that because she's there he can go. She's clearly clinging for dear life and bitter about the break up. Life's so bleeping short let people be happy and live and if her wee boy is happy that's all that matters. I wish people would just put the kids first and not their feelings.
 
ZedsDead said:
The fact that she has a video of wedding photos etc pinned to her profile says it all, if he's that much of a prick as she paints him then why would you have that as pinned content? Certainly widnae be me.
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And not that long ago she posted a video saying it was the best day ever, when they both took Mason out for the day. She said there was still so much love between them and was so sad it didn’t work….he must have then met the new partner and she’s lost the plot. In the wedding pics, he looks utterly miserable.
 
Well said the issue is she is so self absorbed and deluded that she cant see past her son forming relationships with anyone else other than her far less another female. Her view point and behaviours will be damaging to Mason thriving in life. Tho she thinks all this taking him holidays and trips make her the better parent no regard for his mental health. Again she thinks she has more rights than his Dad not equal rights. That poor school Mum pal will be regretting getting in tow with her yapping on and on and on about it all. Tho with these people all it takes is one person to agree with them or even a stranger on the internet to agree and this reaffirms to them that their toxic behaviours are perfectly reasonable and acceptable.

The poor Dad cant stand being near her or even having to break breath to her she ruined any chance of the weird set up she wanted and the joint outings. He was probably emotionally controlled and abused like Mason is then he met Sarah and thought rights this has not been okay. Does she not have friends or family who can tell her to stop this nonsense maybe this is all they hear and probably have to agree or they wont see Mason either.
OriginalAntiInfluencer said:
I think she should be over the moon that the step mum has stepped up and makes Mason feel included. The step mum is the only reason my bairn goes to his dad's as she's no a riot like him and social work insist that because she's there he can go. She's clearly clinging for dear life and bitter about the break up. Life's so bleeping short let people be happy and live and if her wee boy is happy that's all that matters. I wish people would just put the kids first and not their feelings.
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I have experience with an Ashley, I was the wicked step mum for years when all I done was love and treat my step child the same as my own, why would I treat a child living in my home different but more importantly why would their mother want me to? More should be done about mothers who emotionally abuse and manipulate their own children but it can be such a hard thing to prove.
It's a bit of a shock to these parents when their children start speaking their OWN minds and not the poison they have tried to tarnish their little minds with! My step child has been with us full time for 7 years now, Tread carefully Ashleigh, you could really be doing the opposite of what your trying to do!!
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Ell87 said:
I have experience with an Ashley, I was the wicked step mum for years when all I done was love and treat my step child the same as my own, why would I treat a child living in my home different but more importantly why would their mother want me to? More should be done about mothers who emotionally abuse and manipulate their own children but it can be such a hard thing to prove.
It's a bit of a shock to these parents when their children start speaking their OWN minds and not the poison they have tried to tarnish their little minds with! My step child has been with us full time for 7 years now, Tread carefully Ashleigh, you could really be doing the opposite of what your trying to do!!
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ETA I should have said more should be done about *parents not just mothers 😂
 
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Happy in her own skin guys.....
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I could not care I am not bothered ... tho am that bothered ... will do a full video. It was not an insult re saying Sarah is more attractive it was an observation. Ashleys personality really inhibits her looks too as it shines thru as unattractive. Happy in her own skin with a filter … maybe be happy within your own life too instead of this petty bitter vendetta consuming you on a daily basis.

Yes Ash you are not a perfect parent tho neither are you a better parent than the other parent. Maybe you think you are and you think time or quantity of time makes you a better parent tho this is just your opinion not factual.

A good parent does not expose their son’s personal feelings, his private life and his vunerabilities on a social media platform to 000s of strangers. Its not consensual its intrusive, shameful and undignified. Thats not a good parent. Deal with it not a good parent!
 
YouAreHiding said:
I could not care I am not bothered ... tho am that bothered ... will do a full video. It was not an insult re saying Sarah is more attractive it was an observation. Ashleys personality really inhibits her looks too as it shines thru as unattractive. Happy in her own skin with a filter … maybe be happy within your own life too instead of this petty bitter vendetta consuming you on a daily basis.

Yes Ash you are not a perfect parent tho neither are you a better parent than the other parent. Maybe you think you are and you think time or quantity of time makes you a better parent tho this is just your opinion not factual.

A good parent does not expose their son’s personal feelings, his private life and his vunerabilities on a social media platform to 000s of strangers. Its not consensual its intrusive, shameful and undignified. Thats not a good parent. Deal with it not a good parent!
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I love your posts you always hit the nail on the head and I think you are someone on the receiving end of all her tit. I hope you all including Mason have a fabulous Christmas ❤️
 
Oh dearie me dearie me - love the I would never introduce my son to random people after 5 minutes. Instead I will plaster my son’s face, thoughts and feelings to random people and strangers on the internet. She is thick as two short planks eh!

Now its a competition re who is best ..wow that poor little boy Pararall Parenting Mason’s Dad its the only way to get away from the clutches of this ego driven self absorbed individual. Lies lies lies you put your needs above your sons all the time … your feelings and bitterness are at the forefront of your decisions preventing Mason having a well adjusted and well balanced life with both of his parents. Emotional abuser, Control freak and downright warped female.

No amount of ice skating trips and afternoon tea’s will disguise your failings towards Mason as an individual. Nothing worse than being torn between two parents well there is something worse - it being played out for everyone to see and know about.

Bet Mason’s wee pals Mum cancelled on her last night. I get that you just would not encourage friendships with other kids whose Mum is the way she is.
 
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Appears to be tho well why not call the police re the physical violence? No wait instead I will just put photos up of Mason alongside the allegations and tell the whole internet. This poor child he will be in therapy come his teen’s.
Exactly the Dad is this terrible parent yet she takes tantrums over him not seeing his son more and not actively participating in stuff with him. Make it make sense McNab! The poor Stepmum now been slated by her on her page. Jealousy is ooozing out her ratty featured face. She cant even hold a dignified silence re any of this the rants and the body language give her away even when she tries to be calm and articulate for all of the 3 seconds she manages it for.

If there are genuine welfare or safeguarding issues over Mason when he is away then broadcasting them on a photo of Mason … on the internet is how you handle it NOT! Aye tho thats what a GOOD parent does. No interest in Masons emotional wellbeing again lets just get at the ex at the expense of her own child. Tell us again McNab how you are a good parent your actions say otherwise.
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So is all the written text when the ex apparently does? Why send him then?! Why is she desperate for him to be on his life if that's how he treats him?
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YouAreHiding said:
Oh dearie me dearie me - love the I would never introduce my son to random people after 5 minutes. Instead I will plaster my son’s face, thoughts and feelings to random people and strangers on the internet. She is thick as two short planks eh!

Now its a competition re who is best ..wow that poor little boy Pararall Parenting Mason’s Dad its the only way to get away from the clutches of this ego driven self absorbed individual. Lies lies lies you put your needs above your sons all the time … your feelings and bitterness are at the forefront of your decisions preventing Mason having a well adjusted and well balanced life with both of his parents. Emotional abuser, Control freak and downright warped female.

No amount of ice skating trips and afternoon tea’s will disguise your failings towards Mason as an individual. Nothing worse than being torn between two parents well there is something worse - it being played out for everyone to see and know about.

Bet Mason’s wee pals Mum cancelled on her last night. I get that you just would not encourage friendships with other kids whose Mum is the way she is.
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She'd do anything for the wee guy EXCEPT AFFORD HIM ANY bleeping PRIVACY! I'm absolutely pig sick of idiots who can't see the bigger picture when they post their kids online, all for their own selfish needs.
 
ZedsDead said:
She'd do anything for the wee guy EXCEPT AFFORD HIM ANY bleeping PRIVACY! I'm absolutely pig sick of idiots who can't see the bigger picture when they post their kids online, all for their own selfish needs.
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Its the exposing of his feelings too things he has said to her or shared with her and his Mum blab’s it over the internet to randoms.

Women is sick in the head hope the Dad records and screen shots all the examples of her erratic behaviours and how she exposes Mason and his personal life. Looks like he has so much fun at his Dads tho yes wee lad will be a nervous wreck to even say that. Good Mum eh yeh an emotional abuser thats what you are.
 
YouAreHiding said:
Its the exposing of his feelings too things he has said to her or shared with her and his Mum blab’s it over the internet to randoms.

Women is sick in the head hope the Dad records and screen shots all the examples of her erratic behaviours and how she exposes Mason and his personal life. Looks like he has so much fun at his Dads tho yes wee lad will be a nervous wreck to even say that. Good Mum eh yeh an emotional abuser thats what you are.
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If the ex has any gumption about him he should be keeping a dossier of all her nonsense, two sides to every story but the only one being publicly shared is her version and I ain't buying that he's this horrible bastard when there's wedding pictures on show, lamenting the fact that it didn't work out.
 
ZedsDead said:
If the ex has any gumption about him he should be keeping a dossier of all her nonsense, two sides to every story but the only one being publicly shared is her version and I ain't buying that he's this horrible bastard when there's wedding pictures on show, lamenting the fact that it didn't work out.
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The only child protection issue I am seeing is at her end. Solicitor would say keep son, his feelings and what goes on in his life with his DAD or re his Dad off social media. He got rid of McDrab he needs an injunction out against the obsessed women.

If you are not bitter or jealous you would act indifferently to all this. Say it again Ash you can bleat on till the cows come home you are not obsessed you are not jealous and you are a good Mum or the better parent. Tho we can all see and hear what you do and say and we all beg to differ.
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Its like she thinks as she meets her sons basic needs and takes him trips and holidays this is all thats solely required to be the good or better parent. The sheer blatent disregard she has for Mason not to mention the disrepect is mindblowing. Never once have I seen her stop and think that what she is doing and saying affects him albeit sometimes indirectly. Tho she cant see past her feelings and whats happened to her and how this and that re Mason being away upsets her. Is the most self serving of mothers when it comes to the emotional and mental wellbeing of Mason its so uncomfortable to actually watch her in action.
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I sent a former work colleague over to her page just for her professional opinion too she has worked in family courts for 20 plus years. An hour later she had sent me 43 examples of her exploiting her son, his privacy and his feelings to 000s of people on a public forum.

Not to mention the unhealthy infatuation with her ex and his new partner. I never said a word …. its morbidly fascinating to watch and listen to her were her words.

She cant take criticism in any form its deflect deflect deflect this is a prime case of why you need solicitors and the law to intervene as she will not take herself and her feelings out of the equation her resentments constantly spill out. I dont even know what her page is about … well the fat pills and her trying to sell herself as a solo parent that others should aspire too. In terms of holistic parenting she is not someone that should be modelled or someone you should take advice from.

Can you imagine what friends and family have to listen to behind closed doors if this is what she says and shows to strangers on the net. My friends parting shot was she needs therapy she needs to be able to manage her emotions or find a healthier outlet for them. Her actions or lack of actions will play out later in Masons adolescent years and its all on the internet for him to see and hear too.
 
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And the truth is she wanted to be living the perfect ‘Insta mum’ life. Big dream house, perfect marriage, happy family, holidays etc. she would be looking down her nose at the exact person she is if Scott hadn’t left. As the mother of boys, I’m so glad he got away from her, he seems to have support in place which he will need.
 
Exactly this screams out from her constantly again the resentment too. She is marketing herself very poorly as this Solo Mum its like a guide on how not to be and how not to do it. Am glad the Dad has a support system its clearly psychological warfare having to parent with her or near her.
Spanor511 said:
And the truth is she wanted to be living the perfect ‘Insta mum’ life. Big dream house, perfect marriage, happy family, holidays etc. she would be looking down her nose at the exact person she is if Scott hadn’t left. As the mother of boys, I’m so glad he got away from her, he seems to have support in place which he will need.
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Its actually gut wrenching her son has an obvious bond with his stepmums daughter too. Ashley plays havoc and wants to wreck all that so as to get her own way again the sheer disregard for Mason.

Its upsetting as its so obvious Mason cannot be himself or verbalise anything to his Mum without it being twisted or broadcast to all online. She really has no clue how lucky she is with the dynamics of it all. A vengeful spiteful women the only saving grace is Mason will have other outside influences.
 
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