Here is one of the app's users who keeps DMing me her opinion, defending Anna.
"Huh? Who ever said anything about escorting? Many people who travel often will work from hotels. Many people often frequent hotels for their spas, restaurants or other amenities. (...) Every time I open the app, another women is asking that same question. She simply was just saying that hotel lounges are good spots
"
I will explain as if this was meant to be understood by a 20 years old single girl that grew up in low class / a farm - as I stated before, I was that girl.
If your A-list friends are actually professional woman that are trying to encounter her femininity and find a partner, they should understand all my examples quite well and they should grab a coffee and dig deeper the Tattle old threads.
In Spanish we have an old proveb that says
"Crea fama y échate a dormir”. This translates to
"Build up your reputation and go to sleep". Usually grandmothers use this phrase with 2 different meanings. In one hand, if you work hard, study and follow certain careers, people will respect you and you don't even need to do anything in particular for it. The "boca en boca" -
"word of mouth" will do it for you. People will know who you are.
The opposite example: if you have been escorting in London for several months in a row in certain circles, everyone will know about it!
Sometimes big cities like London are seen in the imaginary as places where people don't know each other pretty well. In my experience, that's far from reality. I've been in the situation of finding the same groups of people in different places, you can make friends easily - as we are all frecuents of the same restaurants/galleries/parties - eventually you just realise that the
"smal town vibes" still there. Mostly in the upper media class or high class society, where the amount of people able to afford it decrease, it's not that weird that the gossiping goes fast and grows to a new whole level.
That's why in Geneve it looks like nobody
(yes, nobody) wants to hang out with Anna. She has no invitations to anywhere. She has a few "friends" that have been trying to avoid her like plague.
As far as I know, nobody thinks that Anna going to Hotels was the only one proof pointing out that she is/was an escort. That "rumor" started during her Ibiza - London - Jetsetbabe days. It's not rare for Go-Go Dancers to make some extra money escorting themselves.
Anna spent years braging how her goal was to bag a wealthy husband while dancing naked for a living. Then she wonders where the "rumor" started?
Dear lord, the "rumor" spiraled out when she started to gain some popularity as she started selling that she is somebody that she's not and some of her old acquaintances speak out about it.
Now - about hotel lobbies/restaurants as "good spots".
We need to discuss a difference here. I've been in the situation (three times
) where a man
"spotted me" in some well known restaurant/cafeteria and invited me to join him.
Was I having a meal there looking for men to come to me and "invite me" things? Absolutely not. I was there, chilling, having a good time with myself, when eventually they decided to play their chances to see if I was single.
This situation is as old and common as the history of humanity.
(Let's confirm for the sake of the thread, none of those men ended up being my current husband 
but that's another story)
Now, would I've had those "opportunities" if I'd been there only trying to "bag a man"? I honestly don't think so.
I was there because I can pay for it - my examples go from chilling during holidays to my local cafeteria. You can easily read my social status (and I don't wear massive flashy logos or
hermessas)
My advice: One must be
extremely careful while going - as a young woman - to a restaurant or cafeteria by herself or with her girlfriends. In South America, I know a few
"luxury spots" where we all know that escorts go there to pick up clients. You could easily be mistaken as an escort.
Anna is sending you as sheeples to a wolfs pit.
Anna knows this difference pretty well, as I assume those London rumors haven't arise from nowhere
. But she is not honest with her audience. Otherwise, she should advice young woman to avoid certain places if they are not sure about them being a escorts spot or not.
Gosh, even going to those
"business man" places it's cringy. I know those places quite well and I usually only go there when I honestly have a business meeting. I would feel super anxious being there just to gain attention from some random horny business man.
It can lead you to the wrong type of guy.
When you go to relax to a luxurious spot with yourself, usually means that you can pay for it, your social status is somewhere near the people that frecuents that place and man know how to spot the difference between the
"Jetsetbabe look" VS
"Professional woman" a mile away. None of the encounters with man that I mentioned have ended up with them asking me how much I charge
it's quite obvious that I was by myself reading a good book enjoying my coffee - for example.
Anna's classic habit of "Having a drink without a meal at 3pm in the lobby" is EXACTLY escort behaviour and you shouldn't do so. I would only have a drink with myself if I'm at an all inclusive with my husband, otherwise, you are sending all the wrong signals out there.
Anna is not teaching you how to be feminine & elegant in a way that man will spot you as "girlfriend / wife material". Her advice it's actually quite dangerous to vulnerable young woman that could see getting into debt to eat at places they can't afford - in vain!
Again and again, we have pointed out how trying to emulate something that you are not will lead you to be read as a poser in a minute.
What’s the big deal with filming with a set in a hotel? Most big YouTubers have a filming set or studio of some sort and don’t use their actual homes. But anyways, I see where you’re coming from and why you’re upset with her. But I’m not going to have someone I don’t even know calling me an escort for visiting luxury hotel in my city with my friends
Maybe try visiting some nice hotels and you will change your mind
I hope you can get your account back
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The big deal, my darling, is that
she PRETENDS that those hotel rooms are part of her flat! Haven't they seen the pictures where we showed the proof of it?
If she started her videos with
"Today I am filming in the Four Seasons" well, that could be an almost acceptable scenario. This is not what she does. She's basically displaying her bags and frames at an hotel room pretending is her flat
.
That's part of her charade, trying to sell to her audience that she has a luxury flat or luxury office when she doesn't. That's why we call her out.
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Lauren, if you're reading this, whatever 'gossip' Anna has on you, nobody will believe her after Tattle exposed her. Please, darling, it's not healthy for you to associate with this leech. And leech she is and tries to wiggle her 'XS hourglass' figure into your circle. Just because she bought and defamed one of your dresses, doesn't mean you own her more than a 'Thank you!' Remember, she never showed support of your previous collection. Only after your hard work, promotion and followers buying, did the Rat pretended to be a 'loyal friend'. Rat has no concept of what those two words mean. And in the circle you are, Lauren, both are very important.
, in my youth - I am around 40 now- I was just looking for myself with very short relationships like many women in the Western world did). I've always been very discreet because what you've just said it's true. I think we can't change mentalities because this aspect touches the deep archetypes of Humanity and I am not sure if the actual discourse about "gender roles" will change something. I don't bother myself anymore with that, I decided to accept that thus the World was made. In the same vein, so I wouldn't be bothered with French political points of view, I decided to become monarchist. I am still voting but I hope for the return of a king (in my case, Louis de Bourbon, duc d'Anjou, I am légitimiste not orléaniste).
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Hotel Caesar Augustus, Hotel Quisisana, Casa Morgano (5-star Capri hotels)
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