Alex Light

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Her weight loss over recent months is really quite staggering.
I wouldn't believe everything she posts (I posted the below a couple months ago - filters/editing/super slimming mirror?)
 
I wouldn't believe everything she posts (I posted the below a couple months ago - filters/editing/super slimming mirror?)
She definitely poses to make herself look slimmer
 
As much as I think she's fake, super needy and triggering with her content, I don't think she needs to remain one weight forever because she's an "influencer". She's incredibly self obsessed and completely lacks self awareness, but losing weight is fine and I agree fundamentally that people's weights change for a variety of reasons, and it's not hugely interesting. The only thing she's been kind of ok doing, I think, is recognising her privilege for being in a normal sized body and quick to say how she benefits from that recently.

She's still incredibly irritating though! If she's a 12 now instead of 14/16 I don't think it means much really. The body positive movement is not really about weight as such.
 
Does anyone have a good before and after? I feel like it’s difficult to tell because she drowns her body in oversized stuff and does careful poses.
here are a few comparisons between her most recent photo and photos from around this time last year. they aren't brilliant in terms of seeing the true extent of her recent weight loss, as obviously she poses purposefully to slim her body and uses angles and lighting to her advantage etc, so it's harder to compare, but the loss is very clear - especially in the contrast between the two photos of her wearing the same leopard print bikini top, and even in that last photo where the editing is obvious in terms of smoothed skin etc.

recently she has definitely been hiding her body in huge, baggy clothes presumably to conceal how much weight she's lost, and potentially to hide her body because she is feeling self conscious and struggling with her body image, but the dramatic weight loss is hardly surprising given her recent pro ana content, and the way she's obviously been spending hours looking back at photos of herself at a low weight, which has undoubtedly triggered her. guaranteed that after sharing that photo of herself wearing her bikini, she will undoubtedly be in her stories later complain that she has received messages commenting in her body/weight and how inappropriate it is etc - likely blaming it on withdrawal from her anti-depressants, rather than being honest and admitting she has relapsed with her eating disorder.

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As much as I think she's fake, super needy and triggering with her content, I don't think she needs to remain one weight forever because she's an "influencer". She's incredibly self obsessed and completely lacks self awareness, but losing weight is fine and I agree fundamentally that people's weights change for a variety of reasons, and it's not hugely interesting. The only thing she's been kind of ok doing, I think, is recognising her privilege for being in a normal sized body and quick to say how she benefits from that recently.

She's still incredibly irritating though! If she's a 12 now instead of 14/16 I don't think it means much really. The body positive movement is not really about weight as such.
it's not about her being an influencer though. it's the way that she labels her account as promoting "body confidence" and then conceals her body in huge, baggy, oversized clothing during a heatwave because she's feeling self-conscious, but predominantly because she has built her following on the concept of being anti diet culture and body acceptance etc, thus the majority of her followers have/are recovering from an eating disorder or a disordered relationship with food, or struggle with body image issues etc, sharing messages about how it's fine to gain weight, and how you shouldn't compare your body now with how it looked ten years ago - yet recently she's been using those messages as a way to share comparison photos between her body now and photos of herself when she was in the depths of her eating disorder and at a low weight - which is obviously going to be triggering for many of her followers! she is using her platform, which supposedly promotes "body confidence" to share pro ana content - both images of herself at a low weight, and images of emaciated celebrities lik Mary-Kate and Ashley back in the 90s when heroin-chic and emaciation was the body ideal - which she is fully aware places her vulnerable followers at risk, especially because the photos of low weight celebrities she shares are photos she specifies that she found triggering when she was younger!

it has nothing to do with the fact she has lost weight - it's her behaviour and the way she is using her relapse as an opportunity to drag other people down with her, which is disgusting in itself, but more so when the people she's placing at risk are those who have supported her over the years, and essentially built her successful career as an influencer! her behaviour is totally inexcusable and she is taking advantage of people she knows are vulnerable. i don't care if she loses, gains or maintains her weight - i care about the fact she is regularly sharing content which promotes eating disorders, because there is absolutely no excuse for that. 😡😡
 
I said my issue with her was her triggering content - I just personally can't see what comparing numerous photos of the same women is where in some of them she's lost a few pounds. I just don't see the link to that and the blatant triggering content.

She can wear whatever she wants, baggy or not. She's not hiding her body if she's posting bikini pics which you've used above 🤷
 
I said my issue with her was her triggering content - I just personally can't see what comparing numerous photos of the same women is where in some of them she's lost a few pounds. I just don't see the link to that and the blatant triggering content.

She can wear whatever she wants, baggy or not. She's not hiding her body if she's posting bikini pics which you've used above 🤷

I posted it because I do find it surprising that she has lost so much weight when she constantly promotes anti diet culture. It’s just at odds with everything she says she is about. You only lose weight one way and that’s by being in a calorie deficit. No idea of the reasons behind her weight loss, but I can’t help but notice every time I see her that she’s shrinking.
 
I posted it because I do find it surprising that she has lost so much weight when she constantly promotes anti diet culture. It’s just at odds with everything she says she is about. You only lose weight one way and that’s by being in a calorie deficit. No idea of the reasons behind her weight loss, but I can’t help but notice every time I see her that she’s shrinking.

But diet culture and weight loss are different things. Diet culture is the idea that thinner = better and that your worth is tied to your weight. Weight loss can be influenced by so many things, yes ultimately it’s calorie deficit but that isn’t necessarily deliberate.
 
But diet culture and weight loss are different things. Diet culture is the idea that thinner = better and that your worth is tied to your weight. Weight loss can be influenced by so many things, yes ultimately it’s calorie deficit but that isn’t necessarily deliberate.
Yes I did say I don’t know the reasons behind her weight loss. Like others I have observed strange behaviour from her recently, beyond the weight loss. I used to have an eating disorder, so maybe I am more observant of the signs.
 
Yes I did say I don’t know the reasons behind her weight loss. Like others I have observed strange behaviour from her recently, beyond the weight loss. I used to have an eating disorder, so maybe I am more observant of the signs.
same, and i have definitely made a connection between the dramatic increase in the photos she's sharing of herself at a low weight etc and her constantly wearing huge, baggy clothes despite the heatwave with the sudden weight loss. the fact she is spending hours looking back at photos of herself when she was underweight and constantly sharing messages about how your weight doesn't define your worth and that it's okay to gain weight - yet accompanied with triggering low weight images of herself - screams that she is trying to convince herself more than anyone else that losing weight won't make her happy. perhaps i am more aware of the signs of relapse, but from her behaviour it is very obvious what's happening. it's sad, because eating disorders are an awful illness, but equally, when she has such a large platform, with such a vulnerable audience, she needs to be taking responsibility for her behaviour and the content she's posting. a relapse is absolutely no excuse to place others at risk.
 
Interested to know if anyone else follows her and what they think…

She was actually one of my favourite body image/anti diet accounts but lately she’s been grating on me a bit - constantly going on about how stressed and busy she is, hyping up ‘secret’ projects that she can’t talk about etc.

Not sure if it’s just me being a grumpy witch 😂
I couldn’t put it better myself
 
Just incase anyone hadn't noticed her expenny jacket in previous posts, she's done one all about it.
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Also it has absolutely not been a year - she posted it in February on grid, and the story where she says she's returning it is also still saved in her highlights '31 weeks ago'... so perhaps she saved it up for it a little, but not for a year, soo...
 
Just incase anyone hadn't noticed her expenny jacket in previous posts, she's done one all about it.
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she "forgot" and shared photos of herself wearing it, despite not wanting to show it off because it was so "spenny" and she knows people are struggling financially and didn't wanna rub in how provilidged she is? 🤦🏻‍♀️ bullshit. because if that's the case, she managed to "forget" pretty damn quickly, since she was sharing photos of herself wearing the jacket within weeks of her stories saying she was looking for one! she ahs absolutely no shame. she has been sharing multiple photos - and reels! - of herself wearing that prada jacket for weeks, happily showing it off and rubbing it everyone's faces, just without ever actually mentioning it in words. she's now obviously decided that people have noticed her designer jacket, so decided to draw attention to it by suddenly being overwhelmed with the urge to justify the way she's been intentionally showing off in the hope her audience would notice and comment, but claiming she "forgot" she was going to keep it a secret. sure, Alex. 🤦🏻‍♀️

and ofc, braggy Alex couldn't resist dropping in the words "expensive" and "designer" into ehr explanation, but she definitely is not flaunting her wealth and lack of financial struggles. the whole story screams "look at me and my "spenny", designer jacket that I had no trouble affording! just highlighting it cos I need you all to send me compliments and tell me how much it suits me, to boost my dwindling self esteem! " SO insensitive, and so bleeping obvious! 😡
 
Just seen pics of her on Hayley Madigan’s Instagram as they were both at some event. She looks so much bigger in photos other people have taken vs those she posts of herself. So, she preaches acceptance of her body but still only posts photos where she appears slimmer than she is.
I also think the clothes Alex wears don’t do her figure any favours. That dress on Hayley’s post is not flattering to her. I suppose at the same time if that’s what she is comfortable in go for it.
 
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