The issue for most people isn't just the age gap but the circumstances in which they got together. She was a family friend and had known him since he was 11. He had issues at home . She then directed him so was in a position of power over him and then bam once he turns 18 they are in a relationship and before you can say Bond they are married with 2 kids.My grandmother was 21 when she married my grandfather at 37.. He treated her like a queen and there was nine in the family… the marriage last 50 years.. So some gaps do work.. she is was very happy and not groomed….