Youpenga #2 Devotionals in bed, Bubzzz would rather have head, but our Little Miss Prude doesn't do rude

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Sarlis said:
Probably did, why someone would is odd - was she angry or embarrassed who knows… Dunno what the deal was there I heard something about Em getting some modelling at the wedding shop or something
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I seem to remember (if i’m not mistaken) em had muscled in on one candy’s wedding dress appointments started trying on dresses and bagged herself a modelling gig as well! 😨 hardly surprising they’re not friends anymore
 
It was bad. I mean Em is no oil painting and Candy is way better looking than her so it was weird… Em got this bridal photo shoot job at the same place and seemingly the same time as Candy’s dress fitting. Pretty bad if you ask me. But yeah Candy was probably a nightmare bride at the same time lol
 
At the time I think Candy said she was ok with it and it was all totally fine (Em trying on dresses at her fitting) and she really may have been. Personally, even as someone who has never had the lifelong 'wedding princess/dream wedding experience' expectations, I would never agree with a company to combine my business deal on the same day as my 'best friend' was having her bridal fitting.

I wouldn't feel comfortable, even if they said 'its ok'. Even if it was really far to travel. I couldn't do it because I'd be thinking too much about how they really feel or that it was just plain selfish. Em could have gone a day either side if it was that important to her.

I think Candy is weird af and probably over reacted, but I do kind of understand that then when her other bridesmaid then met up with Em without her that it probably triggered something. That element of it also being linked to her wedding probably made the reaction stronger and her brain scramble and think 'is this person taking the piss/do they care for my feelings?'. If it was a separate incident I would simply think, don't be crazy, there's nothing wrong with friends meeting separately, I do it, friends do it. You don't own a friend.

Em has also made out that Candy's reaction was terrible and out of line, that she was a victim in this. And it could well have been. But I can still see the cause behind it somewhat much as I don't like the brat.
 
Mushy said:
At the time I think Candy said she was ok with it and it was all totally fine (Em trying on dresses at her fitting) and she really may have been. Personally, even as someone who has never had the lifelong 'wedding princess/dream wedding experience' expectations, I would never agree with a company to combine my business deal on the same day as my 'best friend' was having her bridal fitting.

I wouldn't feel comfortable, even if they said 'its ok'. Even if it was really far to travel. I couldn't do it because I'd be thinking too much about how they really feel or that it was just plain selfish. Em could have gone a day either side if it was that important to her.

I think Candy is weird af and probably over reacted, but I do kind of understand that then when her other bridesmaid then met up with Em without her that it probably triggered something. That element of it also being linked to her wedding probably made the reaction stronger and her brain scramble and think 'is this person taking the piss/do they care for my feelings?'. If it was a separate incident I would simply think, don't be crazy, there's nothing wrong with friends meeting separately, I do it, friends do it. You don't own a friend.

Em has also made out that Candy's reaction was terrible and out of line, that she was a victim in this. And it could well have been. But I can still see the cause behind it somewhat much as I don't like the brat.
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Totally agree with all your points… I’d never dream of doing that to my best friend and in return would not want it done to me.

Sometimes candy seems very high maintenance at points and one of those people taken in small doses!
 
My god her latest slog is so boring and another f-ing food haul like the amount of food they have seems excessive - for someone on a diet the amount of food is crazy, obviously no budget there either… and the shirt is back yay!! 🤮😡
 

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Delia Smith said:
Today’s vlog! Omg. More donuts and Bubzzz’s ailment today is a ‘bad headache’…what a surprise !! If he sorted his diet out (less haribo and donuts ) he wouldn’t get those headaches!
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3 bags of haribo! Like I think he needs a blood sugar test… could be heading to type 2. Confirms he’s off plan / not doing WW. Although kinda feel bad for candy she has a goal yet he’s buying some of worst snack foods and it’s right in front of her… when your loosing weight andyour partner does this it’s 10 times as hard,
 
Yep I agree. As annoying as she is, he is way lazier and has a poor attitude to everything. Having a partner who is always 'ill' and tired would drag me down! He needs bloods doing and BP, and if there's nothing medically wrong and he really needs to change his outlook if they have a child because she will be doing everything!
 
He’s roughly the same age as my brother and I swear you wouldn’t think. My brother is a Carpenter, works from 7am til 5-6pm goes home to his wife and 2 young boys. He plays football 2-3 a week, has a big boxer dog who he takes for long runs every night! On his weekends he’s up and on the go with his family. Has just renovated his own home. It’s crazy to see Bubs so slow and so isolated! He’s defo got depression or he’s deeply unhappy. I’ve never seen a man his age so sour and tired and lifeless.
 
Hey guys I'm new here but have enjoyed reading the last few threads about Youpenga. I came across her channel during lockdown as I looked up a fashion haul and then watched some more of her vlogs. I really loved her channel at the start when she went out the house, showed friends and had real, honest opinions about the things of life. She's deleted most of the original vlogs Now, her channel is so boring and completely unauthentic in my opinion. The 'everything is marvellous' feel she gives off feels totally fake, and I'm not buying it anymore.
I found it interesting that the religion stuff went completely out the window, and then when she did a q&a where a few questions were asked about her sharing her faith, she put devotionals and Bible reading back into the vlog right after. I don't think that was part of her routine before that, it felt so forced! - she's just trying to hold onto a few Christian subscribers maybe?
I really wish them all the best. I hope they have a happy life and get their dream of having a baby...but give us better content! If I need to watch another food haul or homemaking, cosy vlog, I'm going to suffocate myself with a 'farmhouse' cosy cushion. I'm close to unsubscribing but feel I don't want to miss vlogs in case she does get the good news she hopes for - I feel like we're on the journey with her! Anyway, apologies for the size of this rant. I've had to release as she's been driving me to boredom induced tattle boards and I want better for her channel! How can she expect her channel to grow with constant tesco and veg hauls. Is there something I'm missing here?
 
Youtoob91 said:
Hey guys I'm new here but have enjoyed reading the last few threads about Youpenga. I came across her channel during lockdown as I looked up a fashion haul and then watched some more of her vlogs. I really loved her channel at the start when she went out the house, showed friends and had real, honest opinions about the things of life. She's deleted most of the original vlogs Now, her channel is so boring and completely unauthentic in my opinion. The 'everything is marvellous' feel she gives off feels totally fake, and I'm not buying it anymore.
I found it interesting that the religion stuff went completely out the window, and then when she did a q&a where a few questions were asked about her sharing her faith, she put devotionals and Bible reading back into the vlog right after. I don't think that was part of her routine before that, it felt so forced! - she's just trying to hold onto a few Christian subscribers maybe?
I really wish them all the best. I hope they have a happy life and get their dream of having a baby...but give us better content! If I need to watch another food haul or homemaking, cosy vlog, I'm going to suffocate myself with a 'farmhouse' cosy cushion. I'm close to unsubscribing but feel I don't want to miss vlogs in case she does get the good news she hopes for - I feel like we're on the journey with her! Anyway, apologies for the size of this rant. I've had to release as she's been driving me to boredom induced tattle boards and I want better for her channel! How can she expect her channel to grow with constant tesco and veg hauls. Is there something I'm missing here?
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i actually used to like her fashion videos and vlogs too. Where the clothes suited her age, not the most recent ones with the patchwork stuff! I’ve watched plenty of other YouTubers who are religious but never went full on in videos like she did. I also get this fake feeling from her channel now…

i think she has a short attention span. Most things she’s featured in her vlogs last about 2 weeks then she moves on to something else, I remember last years new year vlog she said she was going to different types of fashion videos like how to style what’s in your wardrobe etc. shes done none of that.

i am also close to unsubscribing, cant seem to bring myself to just yet. I do hope her wish comes true for a baby, but I think she needs to address her relationship with food and start educating herself, otherwise shes going to be an obese mother who can’t play with her child/children properly.
 
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