Yasmine Camilla #2
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She’s probably not even engaging with them on her debt. The examples of they are true on their site are just where a debt has been sold onto to a recovery agency which is where she will be going with her debt or maybe has already gone. Makes you wonder what she has on her boyfriend for him to stick around she was quick to mention when talking about the are we dating the same guy Facebook group she has no doubts about her boyfriend
ohmyreally!
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Oh my, can't believe she's gone down this route! How is this different from the many charities out there like stepchange? Worried about paying fees to other debt companies but will pay them 'legal' fees? For what! Seeing if some of the debt can be written off?
She's lost it.
She would have been better going into a DMP while she's been jobless, paying affordable amounts. Then when she gets a job, can up those amounts to pay it off quicker. Plus she could apply to these companies to see if she was miss sold and get some compo.....surely Martin Lewis has a section on this on his website.
Anyway....what do I know....I'm in a DMP with Stepchange, have been for 11 years and they have been nothing but helpful. I have 2 years left until I'm debt free and can't wait!
Silly women.
She's lost it.
She would have been better going into a DMP while she's been jobless, paying affordable amounts. Then when she gets a job, can up those amounts to pay it off quicker. Plus she could apply to these companies to see if she was miss sold and get some compo.....surely Martin Lewis has a section on this on his website.
Anyway....what do I know....I'm in a DMP with Stepchange, have been for 11 years and they have been nothing but helpful. I have 2 years left until I'm debt free and can't wait!
Silly women.
femmegirly
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Her credit score will be in the toilet. This smacks of utter desperation. I want to reach out to her and tell her not to be so silly and tell her to get in touch with Step Change instead.
But I won’t because she’ll read it here anyway
But I won’t because she’ll read it here anyway
She really should have done the DMP. We paid off our debt in 7 years with them. They pause the interest and we were able to up or lower the amounts we paid over the years depending on what was happening in our careers. She just wants to take no responsibility for thsi at all.
Pinacoladas94
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Same hereJust went to search her and I think I’ve been blocked! No idea whydon’t think I’ve ever commented on her videos, how strange.
femmegirly
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Her bf is spending Christmas Day with his ex? There’s amicable co-parenting relationships and then there’s this. My friends who have kids with ex’s split the day, especially as there are new partners on the scene. I’m wondering if his ex and their kids even know if Yasmin exists! She’s got previous for dating men in relationships.
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This reads like he’s married…
femmegirly
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He’s probably told her he’s ‘separated’ but still living together ‘for the kids’. I came across a few men like that when I was on the dating apps. That’ll be why she’s never mentioned his name. Most people would refer to their partner by their name and not ‘hinge guy’ especially months down the line.
Also in her stories she said he doesn’t want to get married again, but she does. Probably because he’s still married to someone else!
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heretoreaditall2019
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She seems to have a really wonderful/close relationship with her male friend so I hope they’ve had some brutally honest discussions about money and this relationship. Him not wanting to get married and the vasectomy would make me (as a friend, I wouldn’t get into this position would sooner die alone x) worry that this bloke is just after company/lifestyle whilst dodging any potential commitment to/investment in the partner? Like he’s clearly had to pay out on divorce hence not wanting another marriage, clearly worried about having to pay a baby mum maintenance hence vasectomy, he’s very clearly on the defence which is ick. Even if you don’t necessarily want those things someone so hellbent against partnership is giving red flags.
In the minority but don’t reckon he’s married, the ex wife likely just doesn’t want to enter into that fuckery with the kids so early on. I’d also be absolutely livid with my ex/husband if he’d gotten with such a financial liability because as a parent you’d always hope your partner is saving for the kids or helping them out one day, and eventually the house will go to them, rather than satisfying someone else’s £50k credit card bills and picking up the bill for everything as shared on Insta AND TikTok. I bet her girls group chat is aflame recently
In the minority but don’t reckon he’s married, the ex wife likely just doesn’t want to enter into that fuckery with the kids so early on. I’d also be absolutely livid with my ex/husband if he’d gotten with such a financial liability because as a parent you’d always hope your partner is saving for the kids or helping them out one day, and eventually the house will go to them, rather than satisfying someone else’s £50k credit card bills and picking up the bill for everything as shared on Insta AND TikTok. I bet her girls group chat is aflame recently
Harpyharpyunder
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It’s bizarre how open she is
The job one with her saying how unsure she is about the big retail company - I’m a hiring manager and I do look at social media, and especially would in this case if they said they’d be freelance SM for years which she must have on her CV. She’d be straight out of the running!!!
The job one with her saying how unsure she is about the big retail company - I’m a hiring manager and I do look at social media, and especially would in this case if they said they’d be freelance SM for years which she must have on her CV. She’d be straight out of the running!!!
femmegirly
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I just think it’s interesting that she’s introduced her kids, but he hasn’t introduced his and she’s alluded to a contentious reason why. They obviously need a house to go to, especially if he still lives with his ex then his will be out of bounds. I think you underestimate how many ‘separated’ and even divorced couples still live together for the kids, and for financial reasons, especially in London.She seems to have a really wonderful/close relationship with her male friend so I hope they’ve had some brutally honest discussions about money and this relationship. Him not wanting to get married and the vasectomy would make me (as a friend, I wouldn’t get into this position would sooner die alone x) worry that this bloke is just after company/lifestyle whilst dodging any potential commitment to/investment in the partner? Like he’s clearly had to pay out on divorce hence not wanting another marriage, clearly worried about having to pay a baby mum maintenance hence vasectomy, he’s very clearly on the defence which is ick. Even if you don’t necessarily want those things someone so hellbent against partnership is giving red flags.
In the minority but don’t reckon he’s married, the ex wife likely just doesn’t want to enter into that fuckery with the kids so early on. I’d also be absolutely livid with my ex/husband if he’d gotten with such a financial liability because as a parent you’d always hope your partner is saving for the kids or helping them out one day, and eventually the house will go to them, rather than satisfying someone else’s £50k credit card bills and picking up the bill for everything as shared on Insta AND TikTok. I bet her girls group chat is aflame recently
Also interesting that he doesn’t seem to have social media. That’s usually a tell-tale sign when someone is hiding an existing relationship or at best not being entirely honest about the nature of it.
heretoreaditall2019
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I’m not suggesting it’s an impossibility, just not the vibe I’m getting personally!
The two mums are clearly very different. Yasmine’s children have a LOT of exposure to adult themes - whether it’s her massive debt, TikTok lives, working in childhood, knowing about mum’s dating life, etc etc and none of that is the norm. I think a mum not wanting her kids to meet dad’s gf of a few months is?
but we’ll see, if it’s going on years and she’s not then yeah I’d say side piece but for now I think the kids clearly have a good mum who doesn’t want to make the kids feel unsettled for something that could be a flash in the pan.Also on dad/boyfriend - the marriage, vasectomy, etc stuff is giving hateful Reddit neek vibes. He’ll be found on r/ukpersonalfinance asking for help drawing up contracts for when she moves in so she can’t claim his assets lol. He’s likely active on there over Facebook etc?
ginge2804
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I don’t think he still lives with the ex. Jasmine has been to his house multiple times.
I also don’t think her not meeting the kids yet is odd, they haven’t been together all that long I don’t think it’s a bad thing to keep kids out of a new relationship until your sure, which from what she’s said (she’s in love with him, he hasn’t said I love you yet) doesn’t sound like he’s as invested as she is.
I also don’t think the not wanting marriage and having a vasectomy is a red flag either. If he’s been through a painful divorce, or even if he just doesn’t want to spend all that money on a second marriage, I don’t think that’s a sign he lacks commitment. Neither does not wanting more kids. Me and my partner have 3 kids between us, we’re currently discussing which one of us is going to go through with the procedure as we’re both done having kids
I also don’t think her not meeting the kids yet is odd, they haven’t been together all that long I don’t think it’s a bad thing to keep kids out of a new relationship until your sure, which from what she’s said (she’s in love with him, he hasn’t said I love you yet) doesn’t sound like he’s as invested as she is.
I also don’t think the not wanting marriage and having a vasectomy is a red flag either. If he’s been through a painful divorce, or even if he just doesn’t want to spend all that money on a second marriage, I don’t think that’s a sign he lacks commitment. Neither does not wanting more kids. Me and my partner have 3 kids between us, we’re currently discussing which one of us is going to go through with the procedure as we’re both done having kids
RosePetals
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But on her debt rescue post she says you stop paying your debt and default, here she says she’ll keep making her payments.
But also she’s only just able to afford everything and yet will be paying debt rescue on top? Stinks of it being an undisclosed ad, and they’ll be paying some of her debt so she can claim they’ve gotten it written off for her
needmorecoffee
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She has stayed over at his , house sat for his dogs when he was out.Hi Yasmine