Ffs, just saw that story. She has social anxiety not adhd, it’s quite clear to me. She was organised enough to book it, was wanging on about it yesterday saying she might go, she might not but either way she must have arranged childcare so why didn’t Chris or her mum tell her to get her finger out of her arse, put the colouring pencils down and duck off to her class? She’s never shown signs of being hyper focused before but now that’s the narrative she’s pushing. Funny that she manages to be organised enough to go on spa days with her mum, cafe dates with herself, post videos making pots with her friend etc.
I have social anxiety and so I know exactly what it feels like, it’s tit. You have a moment of bravery where you want to be social; then overthink it all and panic sets in and then you end up dreading it and not doing the thing you wanted to do. That’s why she doesn’t want to work as she’s so entrenched in her anxiety now.