Westholme Interiors #4 Nikki’s reno is really, everything’s painted grey and whhhhhite!

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Star15sh said:
Everyone saying she hasn't got any baby stuff around how do you know? She's only shown the dressing room and kitchen so lets presume it's somewhere else 🤦🏻‍♀️
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YES! We literally see snippets of what she wants to show us. I know the purpose of this site BUT I’ve been in her position and you AVOID everything possible! I just hope she feels the same way I did when the baby comes.
 
BettyCrockerr said:
She will have a c-Section for sure!!!!!
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So what? So if she decides to have a section? Why does that matter? I elected a section. Woman need to get over this crap. It does not make u a better mum/ woman/ wife/ partner because ur vagina is in tatters rather than ur stomach being sliced and u left with a scar! It is also not an easy way out. No way of childbirth is easy.

superwoooman said:
YES! We literally see snippets of what she wants to show us. I know the purpose of this site BUT I’ve been in her position and you AVOID everything possible! I just hope she feels the same way I did when the baby comes.
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100% agree! I tried to avoid baby crap everywhere for as long as possible! At 9 months pregnant, u would see very little evidence of a child in my house either!! It’s once they get to a year old, the crap is everywhere!!!
 
I like that she's not going to show the baby. Prefer following mums who don't, organised motherhood was one of them, she will talk about general parenting and vague updates on kids but never showed them and I don't think her 'motherhood' content suffered in the slightest.

nikki has a pram, clothes , said she ordered the cot etc and it's not here yet, has a Moses basket for when baby is newborn, tbh I don't think there's much else she needs? Nappies, bottles, formula, prep machine etc if she's using can all be ordered same day / next day from supermarket/ Amazon.

As for a c section if that's her choice then fair enough, I know so many people who opted for one, myself included. It's all about informed choice and management of risk for yourself and the baby. Apparently section is safer for baby and risk is on the mother, where as risk is on the baby if a vaginal birth, this was advised to me at a midwife appt after I had opted for the section.
 
saltandvinegarcrisps said:
I like that she's not going to show the baby. Prefer following mums who don't, organised motherhood was one of them, she will talk about general parenting and vague updates on kids but never showed them and I don't think her 'motherhood' content suffered in the slightest.

nikki has a pram, clothes , said she ordered the cot etc and it's not here yet, has a Moses basket for when baby is newborn, tbh I don't think there's much else she needs? Nappies, bottles, formula, prep machine etc if she's using can all be ordered same day / next day from supermarket/ Amazon.

As for a c section if that's her choice then fair enough, I know so many people who opted for one, myself included. It's all about informed choice and management of risk for yourself and the baby. Apparently section is safer for baby and risk is on the mother, where as risk is on the baby if a vaginal birth, this was advised to me at a midwife appt after I had opted for the section.
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Much more articulately out than me!
 
saltandvinegarcrisps said:
I like that she's not going to show the baby. Prefer following mums who don't, organised motherhood was one of them, she will talk about general parenting and vague updates on kids but never showed them and I don't think her 'motherhood' content suffered in the slightest.

nikki has a pram, clothes , said she ordered the cot etc and it's not here yet, has a Moses basket for when baby is newborn, tbh I don't think there's much else she needs? Nappies, bottles, formula, prep machine etc if she's using can all be ordered same day / next day from supermarket/ Amazon.

As for a c section if that's her choice then fair enough, I know so many people who opted for one, myself included. It's all about informed choice and management of risk for yourself and the baby. Apparently section is safer for baby and risk is on the mother, where as risk is on the baby if a vaginal birth, this was advised to me at a midwife appt after I had opted for the section.
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Trying to compare Kelly from Organised Motherhood with Nicki Westholme is like trying to compare apples to oranges!!!!!

just remember that Nicki has spent the last 9 months DELIBERATELY hiding the fact that she was pregnant and then makes a REEL of her pregnant self which she posts up her Instagram page ON THE VERY SAME DAY SHE ALSO MADE HER INSTAGRAM PAGE PUBLICLY AVAILABLE AGAIN AFTER MONTHS OF IT BEING PRIVATE AND AFTER SHES SPENT GOD KNOWS HOW LONG CLAIMING THAT SHE WAS DONE WITH INSTAGRAM ETC….!

not a coincidence I can assure you.
 
Gill275 said:
So what? So if she decides to have a section? Why does that matter? I elected a section. Woman need to get over this crap. It does not make u a better mum/ woman/ wife/ partner because ur vagina is in tatters rather than ur stomach being sliced and u left with a scar! It is also not an easy way out. No way of childbirth is easy.


100% agree! I tried to avoid baby crap everywhere for as long as possible! At 9 months pregnant, u would see very little evidence of a child in my house either!! It’s once they get to a year old, the crap is everywhere!!!
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If we ever decide to have children I 100% would go c-section, would I duck put myself through a vagina delivery again.

love how everyone “couldn’t care” if she was pregnant or notyet here you all are pinning her down as a crap mum who takes the “easy” route to give birth with severe mental health / post natal depression! FFS…can we go back to taking the piss out of ketones again?!
 
I've had 2 virginal births & 2 c.sections, I'd go natural birth over a section any day.
My youngest is nearly 17 and I am still numb in my lower tummy & across my scar area.
It took me weeks to get back on my feet but with the natural birth I was home 4 hours later.
It's all personal choice at the end of the day but tbh as long as Mum and baby are both safe and well that's really all that matters.
 
BettyCrockerr said:
Having a baby is the biggest thing you can ever do as a couple and it puts a huge strain on the relationship so if they are on shoogly footing this is going to make it worse. They haven’t got the faintest idea what it’s like to have a baby. She doesn’t realise that she’s going to be a mess for weeks after this kid is born - physically, emotionally,their relationship is going way on the back burner and you just go into survival mode looking after the baby for the first month or so.
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I agree plus it changes you as a person and whilst you fight it sometimes when you adjust to someone more important than you I think she will struggle and resentment will kick in.

Maybe she was still unsure when asked about decorating nursery. She’s very blasé about how miffed she is. Having a mother who you don’t bond with us something I don’t wish on any child
 
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what in the name of duck is she wearing?!!! This is AWFUL. Her make up is drag queen inspired I see!!!
 
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