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Nope sorry- that’s such a DM me hun post. My mum currently has secondary breast cancer, she doesn’t have long. At no point have I or my mum gone on insta or Facebook and said can you tell me somewhere that sends good biscuits to hospitals? She knows places so why is she asking? Also it’s very difficult to send to a hospital- they don’t want things sent in, it’s a ballache to make sure it gets to your ward, it’s a bleeping hospital, not a post office exchange. When my mum was in she always leaves something when she leaves, biscuits, chocolates etc. when she was in for 3 weeks she bought the ward a coffee machine and some pods because she asked them what they would like. Although my mum was a nurse so also knows how irritating it is to be left cane and chocolates all the time and half the time they don’t get eaten cos they’re all on diets 😂

if she’s kept it quiet this long then you don’t suddenly do a post like that - she’s a Fanny, she’s not stupid as she wants the engagement. I can’t be arsed with tit like this from people wanting to post grief porn, keep it bleeping private or at least talk about it properly. She might as well have tagged herself at the hospital on Facebook!
 
Mochalatte said:
Nope sorry- that’s such a DM me hun post. My mum currently has secondary breast cancer, she doesn’t have long. At no point have I or my mum gone on insta or Facebook and said can you tell me somewhere that sends good biscuits to hospitals? She knows places so why is she asking? Also it’s very difficult to send to a hospital- they don’t want things sent in, it’s a ballache to make sure it gets to your ward, it’s a bleeping hospital, not a post office exchange. When my mum was in she always leaves something when she leaves, biscuits, chocolates etc. when she was in for 3 weeks she bought the ward a coffee machine and some pods because she asked them what they would like. Although my mum was a nurse so also knows how irritating it is to be left cane and chocolates all the time and half the time they don’t get eaten cos they’re all on diets 😂

if she’s kept it quiet this long then you don’t suddenly do a post like that - she’s a Fanny, she’s not stupid as she wants the engagement. I can’t be arsed with tit like this from people wanting to post grief porn, keep it bleeping private or at least talk about it properly. She might as well have tagged herself at the hospital on Facebook!
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She could easily have popped into her nearest farm shop which she was always bleating on about to get some home baked goods and then take them in person when she has a follow up appointment
We loved getting home baked goods when I worked in an oncology unit! .....we never got deliveries as they are a pain in the arse for any delivery drivers to find the correct ward and for the love of god , don't send flowers....they're not allowed in oncology units because of cross infection risk to immunocompromised patients
 
Ah I don’t actually think popping back like that is a bad thing. She’s clearly having a shite time of it, and if her way of coping is to say nothing for ages then post a one liner then I can’t judge her for it. I’d be a mess in her shoes, that’s not what she signed up for when she started the account and she’s got 2 very young kids.
 
Twirlypoo said:
Ah I don’t actually think popping back like that is a bad thing. She’s clearly having a shite time of it, and if her way of coping is to say nothing for ages then post a one liner then I can’t judge her for it. I’d be a mess in her shoes, that’s not what she signed up for when she started the account and she’s got 2 very young kids.
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I am in noway a wee slice fan but as someone the same age who lost someone close to cancer a couple of years ago (she was even younger then me) .. I have to agree it sounds horrific no matter what you think of her imagine knowing you have 2 little ones and facing this 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️
 
Why does she have to become some sort of expert on everything? I wouldn’t talk about any of this on insta, but it’s not my job and I don’t think it’s anybodies business. The advice re going round and doing someone’s dishes and taking presents for kids and stuff is the biggest load of condescending crap I’ve ever heard. That’s HER opinion, my mum who just recently died wanted nobody to come round and do stuff, she didn’t want presents or food either. She hated getting cards and presents- get well soon cards, great thanks, she wasn’t going to get better and also couldn’t be arsed with the dust collectors so put them straight in the bin. Didn’t want the food people cooked either because the chemo she was getting made everyhting taste weird and so she had a weird appetite. She just had to deal with binning it all or giving it away. It’s not even over sharing, at this point she’s just insufferable. I feel terrible for her, but why not just shut up? Is this her niche now? Does she want to be the next bowel babe and get a tv deal and stuff? Her whole life screams, I really want to be famous for something.
 
I still can’t believe her surgeon agreed to everything she’s had done, removing healthy tissue is rarely done when there is no risk factor.
 
itsme89 said:
I still can’t believe her surgeon agreed to everything she’s had done, removing healthy tissue is rarely done when there is no risk factor.
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I'm not entirely sure what she's had done but would it come under a breast reduction? If she's paid privately, and it seems like she has, then money talks, doesn't it?
 
Lizzie Mintdrop said:
I'm not entirely sure what she's had done but would it come under a breast reduction? If she's paid privately, and it seems like she has, then money talks, doesn't it?
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My mum had a breast reduction with hers on the NHS. They didn't do a full mastectomy, they just took the cancer out and some lympnodes to test and then reduction on the other side.
She's just had around 8 chemo sessions and will have radiotherapy in Sept
 
They used skin and fat from her tummy to do the new boobs. My friend had the same thing but they removed her boobs and then she went back to have her breasts reconstructed from her tummy.
 
But it sounds like the surgeon has gone and given her bigger boobs than she started with? He must have thought he was doing a good thing (man? 🫒🫒!) but I would be really pissed off at that (even though potentially life saving surgery / cancer / etc etc)
 
Sprocket said:
But it sounds like the surgeon has gone and given her bigger boobs than she started with? He must have thought he was doing a good thing (man? 🫒🫒!) but I would be really pissed off at that (even though potentially life saving surgery / cancer / etc etc)
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Probably thought he might as well use up the available stomach fat she’s been trying to lose for 10 years whilst claiming to jog and diet!
 
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