I don't know.....
I think all of you guys are better than me, certainly kinder people.
I've been a fat duck, and I can tell you that I never had an eating disorder, food was just bleeping delicious and boy could I put it away.
I'm not sure i can believe there is a genuine eating disorder there, has that been clinically diagnosed?
Has she been depressed and drown herself in food, yep, we all have our vices.
Even now I'm fond of a bottle of wine, box of fags and take out pizza on the thankfully very rare bad days... Because I'd be sad. We're all allowed to be sad. Staying sad is when we need the help.
She's gonna go away for the week and do what? She can't even go to a movie or lunch by herself. She can't even change the hotel when it comes to stay cation. Beyond her family, and a lot of that it habit and geography based, who does she have?
She's no interest in the farm, or country life or her community.... Like, she needs a good shake.