Something I’ve always noticed about Step Parents who stepped up… that recognition doesn’t come from the parent they’re with. That recognition comes from the child whose life they’ve chosen to become apart of. It’s in the way the child talks about their step parent, it’s in the way they talk about the hell they gave that person who in the end… didn’t give up on them. It’s men and women who choose to love a child as if it’s their own but doesn’t go looking for the recognition or validation from others about it. Not missing a practice, not missing a show, not missing a school function, making time and space for said child… all of that factors into the “Steped up” category.
McBallsy is more like the “Unc”…. Comes around here and there, shows mom a good time, brings a treat or two for you to more or less shut you up and show mom he’s worth dropping panties for…. maybe shows up at 1 or 2 of your events just because he’s got the time that day or you asked him to show to a specific event…. Knows he ain’t your daddy & doesn’t want to be your daddy. Again, the only reason McBallsy entertains the “steped up” narrative is because he has not been called out for it, he has not been threatened for it, he has not had his face rocked for it.
View attachment 3313124 qBut you did, you literally asked for a judge who would take visitation away as part of punishment for noncompliance or non payment when the kids safety was never in question… which is a scumbag move no matter how you look at it.
View attachment 3313129 qIt’s not really lies if you pay attention to the pattern. Last time kids had a whole weekend with their dad, compared to when she went public with the boyfriend, compared to the words she uses about the boyfriend and the words she uses about their father. Kids body language with the boyfriend, compared to the body language with their father when their father showed up to an event for them. Yes, Corey should get a job, yes Corey should go to court and make the necessary moves in order to get what he wants, which is time with his kids….
It’s a combo of why he’s not. Tracy being a
witch and getting a judge who was ok with taking away visitation…. And Corey just not doing his part as their dad and fighting harder.
At the end of the day, these are 2 petty adults, both hurting their kids mentally to get back at each other … they are 2 people who should have never had kids because neither one is mature enough to handle the fall out of their marriage for the sake of their children…. Every child deserves a parent, not every parent deserves a child.