I've said it before, she's confusing attachment parenting with permissive parenting. I have breastfed all my kids past 2 years of age and there are always gentle but firm limits/boundaries you can put in place for your own sanity at that point, it's not the same as bf a 2 week or 2 month old. I know loads of women who have breastfed past 2, but by the time their children hit 12 months, 99% of them start to nightwean. No doubt you're reading here TT
have a look at Jay Gordon's night weaning method. It's gentle and very bf-friendly. You can still be firm and have limits and routines without compromising attachment and bond. In fact, your children will thank you for having boundaries, they push them to see where the limit is and know where their safety net is. If they can continue to push and never reach a boundary, they are never going to feel secure. Of course, if you're enjoying all of the above and it "just works", then rock on. But TT clearly isn't based on all the moaning and there are no medals for being a martyr to motherhood.