She was on a forum that I was briefly a member of a few years back.
Mostly noted for asking mums to do research, linking to her blog and disappearing from the forum, only to re-appear with a long post announcing her return.
Now, these forums are always socially degenerative, in that there usually ends up being a popular posters clique with other, obviously vulnerable posters trying to get "in" with them..and my overwhelming memory of TobyandRoo is that very few wanted to do her research and very few were that bothered when she popped back up, but she *thought* she was in that popular clique.
Tone deaf that one, incapable of reading the room.
Mostly noted for asking mums to do research, linking to her blog and disappearing from the forum, only to re-appear with a long post announcing her return.
Now, these forums are always socially degenerative, in that there usually ends up being a popular posters clique with other, obviously vulnerable posters trying to get "in" with them..and my overwhelming memory of TobyandRoo is that very few wanted to do her research and very few were that bothered when she popped back up, but she *thought* she was in that popular clique.
Tone deaf that one, incapable of reading the room.