Tiffany Thinks #12

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Lululime said:
I have no doubt whatsoever about a pre existing and enduring eating disorder. Her life is full of self imposed restrictions and she is obsessed with cleaning, tidiness etc, Perfectionism and eating disorder are often closely linked. I know of someone with an ED who used to stroke jars of jam (not eat any though ovs). Sustaining an ED calls for lots of deceit and deception - which can then pervade other areas in life.
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Yes she totally fits the profile with additional clues being female, perfectionism, OCD, low self-esteem and social anxiety. Anyone with personal experience of EDs can see this loud and clear in all her interactions with food on her vlogs. The deception is also a typical feature which includes pretending you already ate, praising food that you have no intention of eating or secretly hiding/discarding food. You get a personal kick out of believing you tricked people, but this is often not at all the case. However other people may be too scared or weary to bring it up so they just pretend they don't see it. ED is also closely linked to wanting to be "small" and pre pubescent or being taken care of like a little girl.

An obsession with junk food is also very, very common. The combination of being skinny and still showing off about how much unhealthy food you eat is also a feature of ED, especially in those with narcissistic tendencies. It stems from the notion of knowing that other people with orthorexic (low-calorie food) ED are obsessed with "forbidden" foods like chocolate, sweets, greasy fried stuff, chips etc and you want to make them jealous in a twisted way by showing you can gorge on those without gaining weight. In order to balance out the calories the portion sizes are obviously small or there is virtually nothing else eaten during the entire day aside from the aforementioned portions of chocolate and chips. This type of ED is almost easier to sustain because the food is delicious, and the vast majority of people assume that you can't have disordered eating if you eat sugar and fat.
 
GalaxyCake said:
Yes she totally fits the profile with additional clues being female, perfectionism, OCD, low self-esteem and social anxiety. Anyone with personal experience of EDs can see this loud and clear in all her interactions with food on her vlogs. The deception is also a typical feature which includes pretending you already ate, praising food that you have no intention of eating or secretly hiding/discarding food. You get a personal kick out of believing you tricked people, but this is often not at all the case. However other people may be too scared or weary to bring it up so they just pretend they don't see it. ED is also closely linked to wanting to be "small" and pre pubescent or being taken care of like a little girl.

An obsession with junk food is also very, very common. The combination of being skinny and still showing off about how much unhealthy food you eat is also a feature of ED, especially in those with narcissistic tendencies. It stems from the notion of knowing that other people with orthorexic (low-calorie food) ED are obsessed with "forbidden" foods like chocolate, sweets, greasy fried stuff, chips etc and you want to make them jealous in a twisted way by showing you can gorge on those without gaining weight. In order to balance out the calories the portion sizes are obviously small or there is virtually nothing else eaten during the entire day aside from the aforementioned portions of chocolate and chips. This type of ED is almost easier to sustain because the food is delicious, and the vast majority of people assume that you can't have disordered eating if you eat sugar and fat.
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Then vomiting
 
Turaj said:
Do people really think Matt will propose soon? I mean surgery is coming right up. That does not look like a guy that is thinking of marriage with Tiffany...no way.
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No I don't. At least it wouldn't be wise for him to do so at this point, in my opinion. But I just feel she WANTS or expects him to. Just my feeling, from the several occasions she's announced they aren't doing presents this year, don't buy me anything, really, don't buy me anything, etc. And if she does expect that, what will she be like if he doesn't :rolleyes:
 
LeonorG said:
She never ever expected for her inconsistencies, her lies, her confusing misleading information, to be questioned and criticised. So she never bothered to make sure to not be deceitful and misleading. So I think that whilst some of the stuff is definitely her trying to manipulate her audience, some other is just due to her laziness and blase attitude.
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I agree, the cancer diagnosis was an opportunity for her. I also think regarding the Matt stuff, if it is the case that there was a crossover and she did move on quickly from Tiroy to Matt (but lied about it), it wouldn't surprise me. I've said it before and i'll say it to my dying day lol, Tiffany is a grade A narc in my opinion and could not survive a day or 2 on her own cut off from Matt and Amma because they are her supply. I can honestly imagine her having a panic attack if they were both to leave her in the house for a few days. One of them would need to be present at all times because she needs a constant supply, and I suspect they know this on some level and so make sure they manage their time accordingly. If Tiffany broke up from Tiroy, she would have immediately needed to latch onto someone- be it Amma or another bf, or both. I highly suspect the reasons for friends distancing themselves from Tiffany is because on some level they have witnessed her tendency to do this to people.
 
jenh526 said:
But the question is WHY is she lying? It takes a whole lot less effort to simply tell the truth, IMO.
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I think she breadcrumbs information regarding her cancer as a manipulation tactic- leaves the hospital with more questions than answers, feigns confusion at every opportunity, and avoids giving dates or clear facts to try and make people hold on and watch the next video. Regarding her love life, I think there are a few possibilities:
  • She has vlogged in the past about the unfair criticism she received about having a boyfriend as a young Tamil woman, but I think being in such a long-term relationship, she felt more confident to do so. So when that relationship ended, perhaps she didn't feel comfortable sharing that she had moved on so quickly
  • Maybe she was trying to protect/win back Tiroy by projecting a certain image of herself to him as this woman still hurting, 1 year after the break-up, even if she was with Matt by then. I think with anyone who releases public videos talking about their breakup, we can assume that the ex-partner is the target audience of that video😅. That video was intended for Tiroy
  • I also think she is just generally a little bit sexually repressed and immature with relationships so I wouldn't be surprised if she feels more comfortable aging the relationship by a few years to make her seem more grown-up
 
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Triggered by the tiny bites, and food sharing. Worse than the lip balm finger. Says she knows nothing about cancer. Well surely if you're diagnosed with a life-threatening illness, you read everything you can. Watch all the videos etc. Matt and Mum are as dumb as her, when it comes to her selfcare and diet. Yes, the juice is good, but every meal should be like that. Who announces that they are having a choco biscuit. There are only so many times you can film yourself having a cup of tea.
 
I shudder to think that Tiffany ever wanted to have children. Can you imagine a child being under her responsibility? She cannot even brush her own hair and she wanted an actual child? She is too self-absorbed, selfish, and has no common sense. I bet the child would be taken care of by Amma. Anyways, I think her yearning to have a child stems more from her wanting to fulfil a fairytale fantasy than wanting to be an emotionally mature and selfless adult. Her saying (in that standuptocancer video) that her dream would be to have a "little family" with Matt is so pretentious. She says it in her baby voice too :sick: There is nothing real, nothing authentic about her.
 
Turaj said:
If Tiffany were smart (not) she would put out a video today addressed so much of the controversy in her "loving" family. She is reading and can see this and it would be a mistake to ignore all of it. She needs to toss those pre-canned vlogmas videos and get real.
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Not gonna happen. At best she may mention it like how she says adults cannot accompany her blah blah I'm an adult don't need people to accompany me blah...
 
SueB said:
I think this is pathetic- wanting to be the first to send a gift to the PO box . I've blocked ID to be fair but really?!
How about buying a gift for a struggling family or lonely pensioner?
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Since I’m on full disability, live alone, and have no kids I qualify as a lonely pensioner.

Henceforth I want a Yankee Candle that smells like the inside of the Garden Center.

Send to:
Lonely Pensioner
P.O. BOX Bonkers147
Gronksville, NY 00009
 
Black_Hawk said:
Almost time for a new vlogmas video from her... I wonder what we'll get to watch next!

A few more unbearable Air Fryer segments fosure. :sleep:
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I can make a prediction of at least one scene where she walks into a room and happens to stumble upon Matt cooking for her. It definitely hasn't been shot twice. Then she looks shocked and asks him how he cooked the food, and proceeds to guess by going through all her listed affiliated links and household appliances, before finally he tells her...nope, it was the air fryer HA!

There will probably also be another scene where Matt puts a food item in the shopping cart and a very shocked Tiffany will ask him "how will we cook it? Microwave?" before they both reply in unison "air fryer".

Then there will be a close-up of a Pick Up chocolate bar. And a mention of Amazon.

Then there will be a reference to Tiffany having cleaned herself, and gotten cozy. More references to what other TT characters are doing for Tiffany 👑.

There will be several references to the household locations of all the main TT characters, just in case we were wondering why they weren't on screen. But there will not be a mention of the main side character we all want to know about- the Fluffy Fox. This is what her vlogs are really missing. But Tiffany and Fluffy cannot appear in the same scene due to scheduling conflicts.

For a very brief moment Tiffany will appear edgy and a little short as she tries to pretend not to like criticism or fluff, then she will lose herself in some fluffy cozy Christmas pyjamas, leading to more criticism on here.

There will be a weird focus on dates. Dates just dropped in left, right and centre: close ups of today's newspaper, Tiffany singing "just another magic mondddday" while she opens up advent calendar window number 5 and a v confused Matt just about spontaneously combusts in the corner because he knows it is still September.
 
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