If you found it hard to keep on top of the previous house then why would you move into a bigger home?
I have no words for what she shares today, I don’t know about adhd really but seeing that screams depression and overwhelmed mother struggling with daily needs of her children, home and just general life.
There is no excuse she has 7 days she could keep on top of it by doing a room a day, kitchen can be cleaned as you go.
Yes we see about 10 minutes maxuim a day of her life in stories but still doesn’t explain how her home is such a riot. The living room she can keep tidy because it where she is all day everyday when she’s not out for breakfast, lunch or dinner or at a gifted trip out.
Time she spent on her phone sharing today she could had sorted a couple rooms out. Get a swing for door frame bet Bebe, otter, ottie. Oakley whatever she calls him these days would have plenty fun bouncing about in a door swing while she got things done.
Plenty mothers have done it for 1000s of years keeping house clean while attending to young kids, he doesn’t have a walker, swing she buys him a ball out total waste money when he is crawling and getting more on the move? Literally makes 0 sense.