Thesocialmama.xo #21 Uh oh, we're in trouble, Oakley's come along and burst her pink, frilly bubble

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So she didn't get up out her bed until 8am? Did I follow that correct? How on earth can you feed change 4 kids in 45 mins. I think she had meltdown again because her eyes looked a bit red like she been crying.
Practice what you preach Aimee... Sleep when baby sleeps so last feed get to your bed and get up early... You choose motherhood so suck it up and get on with it. It's not the kids fault your too lazy to get out your bed, should be up way before then feed baby change and yourself the get other kids up. Can't believe a mother of 4 acts like this 🤦🏻‍♀️
 
Anybody who gives her an ounce of sympathy when she posts these greeting pics, is as nuts as her!

A healthy baby and 3 more healthy kids, a roof over your head, food in the fridge? What’s she got to cry about, she chose this! She wouldn’t know a stressful life or job if it smacked her in the face coz all she does is lie in bed on Instagram - you’ve nothing to cry about so give us peace!
 
She is so mentally unstable I can't believe what I'm watching. How does letting everyone know you gave yourself 45 minutes to get 4 kids out the door come across as having your tit together and managing mum of 4 life well?! Just because you go to silverburn a few times and throw yourself a party doesn't mean duck all. I can't get my head around that zero, actual zero has changed in all the years I've been watching her. I've never seen a mother so openly share that her priority is herself and Instagram above her kids.
Know what, yes it is okay to be all over the place. Most of us have been there but when you don't even get out of your pj top which takes SECONDS and then tell people on the Internet you really need to be having a look at the bigger picture. I find it alarming that she keeps going on and on and on about how she just 'needs' this time her and Oakley, he's not a wee therapy dog there to calm you down aimee. I can't quite put my finger on it but there's something weird about it to me. It's not oh we just need a day no visits so just be a family or a day of Kyle off work to help or anything. She needs it to just be her and baby.
 
An example of mother that has her 'tit together'
Doesn't (deliberately) miss Christmas shows
Organises washing & ironing (don't live out bags for life)
Get kids to school on time with minium agro
Preps dinner for evening (no job or clubs to be at) no excuses
Gets nails done while kids at school
'life admin' while kids all in bed or at school
Up & ready to do dance class Saturday morning
Doesn't stay up all hours buying random crap only to return weeks later (ashame light shade not on the list)
Feed your new bebe so not late for school run

All the above is a mother that doesn't have her tit together, the whole keeping it real it's nonsense it's laziness on her part.
Is she think she has her tit together she really is delusional.
From the outside it's a total tit show.
 
IsaPeoplehuvtaeknow said:
An example of mother that has her 'tit together'
Doesn't (deliberately) miss Christmas shows
Organises washing & ironing (don't live out bags for life)
Get kids to school on time with minium agro
Preps dinner for evening (no job or clubs to be at) no excuses
Gets nails done while kids at school
'life admin' while kids all in bed or at school
Up & ready to do dance class Saturday morning
Doesn't stay up all hours buying random crap only to return weeks later (ashame light shade not on the list)
Feed your new bebe so not late for school run

All the above is a mother that doesn't have her tit together, the whole keeping it real it's nonsense it's laziness on her part.
Is she think she has her tit together she really is delusional.
From the outside it's a total tit show.
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It is not hard to take 20 mins max the night before to lay each kids school clothes out, pack their backs for school. Then in the morning get up early, get the kids changed, fed and washed then baby a feed before the school run. She should have the hang of this after 4, and if she is organised then it allows for the baby to get a good feed on demand, change and in the car seat. Kids are un predictable but if you arw prganised it makes life so much easier.

also,food shop, she clearly could have done this after the am school drop. Her life admin clearly missed getting food in, and organised.
 
TalkOfTheGram said:
Why the duck would you trail 4 kids round aldi when 3 have been in school for the last 6 hours?! Oh yeah she's been busy doing duck all, sorry I mean "life admin". She's probably told Kyle she would go shopping today and that's her being forced to go grab a few things for Kaiden to prepare for dinner tonight.
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its a farse. Just waiting until she forgets to pick jackson up, leaves him in the baggage area etc at this rate
 
TalkOfTheGram said:
She is so mentally unstable I can't believe what I'm watching. How does letting everyone know you gave yourself 45 minutes to get 4 kids out the door come across as having your tit together and managing mum of 4 life well?! Just because you go to silverburn a few times and throw yourself a party doesn't mean duck all. I can't get my head around that zero, actual zero has changed in all the years I've been watching her. I've never seen a mother so openly share that her priority is herself and Instagram above her kids.
Know what, yes it is okay to be all over the place. Most of us have been there but when you don't even get out of your pj top which takes SECONDS and then tell people on the Internet you really need to be having a look at the bigger picture. I find it alarming that she keeps going on and on and on about how she just 'needs' this time her and Oakley, he's not a wee therapy dog there to calm you down aimee. I can't quite put my finger on it but there's something weird about it to me. It's not oh we just need a day no visits so just be a family or a day of Kyle off work to help or anything. She needs it to just be her and baby.
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It’s so unrelatable isn’t it 😂😂😂😂
 
She’s absolutely wild! I would give myself more than an hour to get ME dressed, fed and to work never mind me plus 4 kids!
Then sitting after the school drop off chatting to a phone instead of getting home & getting your tit together. She’s an absolute mess of a human being. She’s obviously had plenty help from neighbours/family/Kyle when she lived at her old house and now reality will be kicking in cos she doesn’t know the neighbours, family live miles away and Kyle is at work to pay the bills. This will just be the beginning of a series of shambolic mornings In her ‘dream home’🥴🥴
 
Chatterbox2412 said:
She’s absolutely wild! I would give myself more than an hour to get ME dressed, fed and to work never mind me plus 4 kids!
Then sitting after the school drop off chatting to a phone instead of getting home & getting your tit together. She’s an absolute mess of a human being. She’s obviously had plenty help from neighbours/family/Kyle when she lived at her old house and now reality will be kicking in cos she doesn’t know the neighbours, family live miles away and Kyle is at work to pay the bills. This will just be the beginning of a series of shambolic mornings In her ‘dream home’🥴🥴
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She could quite easily do a click and collect at tesco or asda, and not have to get out her car, do it from her phone etc. she is just a lunatic.

there are so many opportunities for mum life content, but she lacks common sense, planning management and has no grip on reality. The health visitor must be like wtf
 
What’s sad is she laughs and jokes about getting up at 8AM to get 4 kids ready and out the door - but it was only before the Christmas holidays she as on crying about how she was losing her tit screaming and shouting and swearing at the kids in the morning. It is so obvious that’s how the mornings are going.

she’s not organised enough to be up and early and sorting her kids then takes it out on them. Corpse Kyle will be getting asked to “have a chat” with the boys again to remind them how they need to help mum
 
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