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How many followers did she have before her Tory rant? She’s on 61k now and says she will prob lose a few so was curious to compare 🤣
 
LividLalji said:
How many followers did she have before her Tory rant? She’s on 61k now and says she will prob lose a few so was curious to compare 🤣
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Not sure but she's sharing people disagreeing with what she said.

ETA its interesting shes shared the M&S post about children eating for free when over on PTWM thread shes getting ripped as people who can afford to eat in M&S should be able to feed their kids
 
I get that people want and can express their opinions like Kaytee does. However if you’re going to put yourself on a public platform and speak/rant like she does, she can’t just kick off at every person who’s opinion doesn’t match hers. Opinions are personal to each individual. Wether or not you disagree, don’t be a dick about it.

But the cynical part of me thinks she’s doing it to annoy people, to boost her engagement. Because even a ‘bad’ reply is a reply.
 
I bought into the whole “I have no life outside of my son and never get a moments rest or a second away from watching my son” stuff but checked out when she revealed she had a boyfriend. If you have time to meet men, you have time for yourself. I’ve noticed this with a few similar mums who are carers on insta. Lots of stuff about having no time to breathe, no time to just be them outside of parenting etc then up pops the fella.
 
I’m just finding her so hypocritical/inconsistent these days.
I first heard of her when a post went viral criticising mums who send kids to school/childcare when I’ll as they may pass a virus to a vulnerable child like hers. I understood where it was coming from, but I also found it to be a bit... naive? On average kids get 8 colds a year. It’s just not possible for working parents to take all that time off, and then there’s school attendance... it’s just not an option for many parents to do that, but now they have the added guilt of harming another child.
Since the pandemic started, I’ve seen parents give up care support and burn theirselves into the ground while shielding their child. Kaytee continued with carers, has started work in a hospital, ignored a track and trace notification to shield, gone to work when ill herself!!!!, and had various short breaks in the UK. Then she’ll say on stories how seriously she is taking covid...
it just feels like she suits herself and then rationalises it afterwards.
 
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Cristi0 said:
I’ve seen her mentioned quite a lot in other threads relating to other influencers but really don’t have a problem with her.

She seems to never have a day off and I think she is entitled to some luxuries now and again. We all have ways to treat ourselves: takeaways, holidays, hobbies etc.

She is very opinionated and likes to call out negative questions from followers but I don’t really see the problem in that. She often talks about how the positives from her followers keep her going but don’t think she should have to avoid talking about what pisses her off.
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She works two days a week and has only done so for about 6 weeks so far. She has carers for 60 hours a week so she definitely gets days off.
She has management now and is doing ads that are in no way related to being a SEN parent,surely admin should allow a thread to flow on here?
She has spent more on hotel rooms in the past month than most nurses could afford in several years!

Mumof3 said:
I like Kaytee and I think she has a difficult time especially with potentially losing the carers, it’s blatantly obvious that they’re needed. What I don’t get, is how she can afford to stay in hotels all the time, and how she can afford the shard. I know she’s started working, but if I was her, I’d be saving every penny in case the carers were taken away. She can’t manage without them, and she shouldn’t have too. I get she needs a break, we all do, but the Shard in particular is an excessive spend when you are already struggling financially.
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The gofundme for her son raised over £100,000, there is the answer to the lifestyle!

barrrlohflaughs said:
The one started by Susie Verrill and Rosie Ramsey raised £18,408. There was another in Feb this year that raised £8,642 and there have been a couple others too.

£23,972 was raised in August 2019
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In total it was over £100,000!
 
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I think she's made it clear that she hates where she works/her job and will leave soon for the #ad work on Insta.

Also I know she moans about everything, but her complaining about people doing botox without qualifications... She was doing botox and fillers last year without any real nursing experience at all. She can be very very hypocritical. There is nothing she won't complain about, ever.
 
LividLalji said:
Hopefully! Also because she has enough money to pay for the best friend to care for him now too she doesn’t need the other ones
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She has quoted the cost of paying privately for carers through an agency and it was around £30 per hour,60 hours a week that equates to £7,200 per month! Yet she posts and moans that she is only paid £69 a week carers allowance.
She is very predictable in her behaviour,she has been drip feeding her followers recently to make them sympathetic towards her ready for when she inevitably leaves her nursing job to concentrate on being an Influencer.She has contracts with Zoflora, F@F clothing, Dove baby, basically she is aiming to be a cross between Mrs Hinch and PTWM.
She knows she is to some degree untouchable by ‘trolls’ I mean genuine people asking her questions about her affluent lifestyle when she has practiced nursing for a matter of weeks. The hotels she stayed in recently are SO expensive,The Shangri-la at Thd Shard for two nights probably over £1000,then £5-600 for the Fitzroy.A new Shark hoover,Manicure,£3-4,000 down payment for the Mercedes on Motorbility...all on 8 days nursing a month!
 
Begborrowsteal said:
I must be naive. I really didnt think there would be a thread for her. I just see a young woman doing everything for her kid.
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And what do you think having read through the thread so far?
I mean, you’re not wrong - she does everything for her kid but there’s also a lot of question marks over her income/lifestyle/attitude outside of being a parent. But she doesn’t like you to talk about that 🤫
 
Mufasa said:
And what do you think having read through the thread so far?
I mean, you’re not wrong - she does everything for her kid but there’s also a lot of question marks over her income/lifestyle/attitude outside of being a parent. But she doesn’t like you to talk about that 🤫
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I mean, I get it. But I dont mind her at all. I like that she is opinionated, I think fair fucks to her doing what she needs to so she can afford a life of luxury for her and Jaxon.
 
Mufasa said:
And what do you think having read through the thread so far?
I mean, you’re not wrong - she does everything for her kid but there’s also a lot of question marks over her income/lifestyle/attitude outside of being a parent. But she doesn’t like you to talk about that 🤫
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Most mothers in this world dedicate their lives to their children.I follow several SEN parents on instagram and they have all unfollowed her due to her greed,lies and lack of gratitude towards the millions of pounds that have been spent on her and her son by the NHS.
She moans about her new build council house not being big enough for all of her son’s equipment and now wants to buy a three bedroom house.I read her post about buying a house the same time I saw another SEN parent post about not having any physio,medical appointments, or equipment ( the child had outgrown everything) due to Covid they are shielding and have not left the house since March.
She has just had a personal trainer session! She used to use the rich fiancé if anyone asked how she could possibly afford so many holidays and hand bags, he is no longer on the scene and 8 days a month on entry level nursing pay does not warrant such luxuries.
I used to like her,in fact I donated £50 towards the standing chair she couldn’t afford that actually turned out to be funded! Then the racist Suzie Jervil stepped in...

Milliehaha123 said:
I don’t mind her - I think she’s a fantastic mum, she clearly loves Jaxon more than life itself and he always looks clean, well dressed and most importantly happy! I don’t care too much about what she does with the money because 🤷🏽‍♀️ it is hers and she does also deserve some luxuries. The camping trip did rile me a bit though, I think there is a difference between something not being your ‘thing’ and ripping a small business apart. It also made me cringe that it was at the peak of covid when small travel companies were really struggling 😖 the owner could potentially have lost a lot of sales and business from someone posting stuff like that to a large following!
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But it’s not hers! It was given to provide equipment for her son. Staying in £600 a night hotel rooms and driving a top of the range Mercedes does not benefit his well-being!
 
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