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She’s money hungry what happened to all the money raised when she was begging for help when he was alive. why did she need more money after he passed children’s funerals are free and anything else she wanted she could of used the thousands raised a few years ago, that she’s claimed she hasn’t spent . The pissing off to Thorpe park a day after your child is out of hospital was beyond wrong she didn’t care then and she is riddled with guilt now . The sudden money for a mortgage on an adapted council house shows just how selfish she is and how much money she has made from he followers . She now away again claiming a freind paid for it all and that’s a lie she’s using the go fund me money to live a great life . She has so much support around her now . But none when he was alive apparently. Hmm . None of it sits well with me From the day she flung up that go fund me a day after he died and it was made so she could live her life without him . Like she hasn’t already got thousands
 
Honeymonster90 said:
She’s money hungry what happened to all the money raised when she was begging for help when he was alive. why did she need more money after he passed children’s funerals are free and anything else she wanted she could of used the thousands raised a few years ago, that she’s claimed she hasn’t spent . The pissing off to Thorpe park a day after your child is out of hospital was beyond wrong she didn’t care then and she is riddled with guilt now . The sudden money for a mortgage on an adapted council house shows just how selfish she is and how much money she has made from he followers . She now away again claiming a freind paid for it all and that’s a lie she’s using the go fund me money to live a great life . She has so much support around her now . But none when he was alive apparently. Hmm . None of it sits well with me From the day she flung up that go fund me a day after he died and it was made so she could live her life without him . Like she hasn’t already got thousands
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Thank you!! This this this!!
 
twilightgarden said:
What about other families who have lost a child, they don’t get a go fund me so why should she. I hope it goes to charity to help families with poorly children or bereaved families. She can’t keep it all for herself surely.
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She’s probably already spent it! She will need to buy her merc now Dla won’t fund it, probably put a deposit on her house and her holidays! You watch this space she will turn into a travel influencer “doing it all for Jaxon” 😒
 
I'd like to know where all the fundraiser money before he passed went. Then what has this fundraiser been spent on because funerals for children are free.
I'm not going to discuss blame on here and keep my options to myself on that matter but....
This rainbow tit since he passed. Like mentioned above is all for the brand. Its pretty damn obvious what her intentions are.
In the earlier days he was in a full pad, leaking all over the carpets everyday. Then when he was dressed it was extremely baggy clothes that were chavvy. Then she started trying to get in with the influencers and working with brands and then it was all Zara and dressing him in stuff she'd never done just for the free clothes so she wouldn't need to fork out dressing him. Let's not forget the constant begs for him being a model for clothing brands.
Now all of a sudden rainbows were him.
She couldn't even chuck a spare pair of clothes in the car in case he had one of his 50 vomits a day for crying out loud.
I could spot the brand/shop coming a mile off when the affirmations on the tote was purposefully placed in stories at the coast. The leather jacket. The trainers.
The staged pictures of her working on the shop by her friend.... like duck they were taken randomly.
Nothing is random with her. It's always been calculated, planned right from the beginning.
The crying in stories. I am all for people speaking out about grief. It needs to be done. It needs to be discussed.... but getting her phone out to film her cry? Sorry but that whole thing gave me staged vibes.
Getting people to share their memories of her son.... non of these people knew him!!!!!!!I are strangers. And all of that is for engagement. Don't D M me your memories put them on the post.... engagement.

Everything is done to higher her profile. I wondered where she'd go with this after his death and hoped she'd take herself off and grieve. But no. The swipe up links are back, profiting off him as per usual. I am absolutely devasted for J. We all watched the neglect, the questionable actions.
I do believe this thread should be here. If you don't like it don't read simple.

Did I ever see her reaching out to grieving parents before her own son passed?no.
Did I ever see her give to others fundraisers?no.
Did I ever see her supporting over diagnosis and health matters?no.
I saw her making it all about her every time. Slagging off cancer wards the same wards her new pals Saff and Ash stayed on. I saw her never supporting anyone unless is gained her something.

Every child that dies has the same devastating impact as the other. It is the most heartbreaking, world ending thing to happen to a parent. Seeing her with thousands of support, money to splurge and show off, seeing her hold firework displays, getting strangers to share their favourite pictures of j, lighting candles, making merchandise off a child who never could agree to any of the things even when he was here.... it's too far. But she's not thinking of others who are grieving. Of his dad who probably has no say in all of this. Of his family who have all now appeared in a off of smoke. Of the people giving their money to line her pockets so she can carry on the influencer life, having people kiss her arse because she gets off on that. And most importantly this isn't fair on j.

His whole life was laid bare, vomits, leaking patches, burnt skin, naked body, pain, distress, missed feeds and meds, being passed from carer to father, the ableism from his own mother.... and now even in death his life is still being paraded around like its a cinema showing that people have to buy a ticket for. This isn't a time to make profit and share swipe up links. A little boy has sadly passed and I am in complete shock that she has surpassed all my expectations. I honestly thought it would end. This will never end.
 
I can see why some people will find this thread & some of the comments in it in bad taste, it’s obviously a very sensitive subject. I can only speak for myself here, but I don’t feel like I know anywhere near enough about the situation to feel comfortable making any sort of comment on Jaxon’s care or his death, or what caused it.

The thing that doesn’t sit right with me is that she seems to be trying to monetise her grief process. Totally understand that she’ll need to find an alternative way of earning a living now, other than ‘InstaMum’. Do you really need to bring out ‘merch’ associated to the death of your child though? Or film graveside parties with fireworks for IGTV? Instagram really has hit a new low if graveside ‘content’ is now a thing. I find it bizarre, and a bit sick if I’m brutally honest. If she wants to set up a small business rather than going back into nursing fair enough, but why does it need to be Jaxon themed? The cynic in me suspects it’s because she know’s it will bring more money in, because people will buy stuff out of sympathy for her. She’s already laying it on really thick with her followers about the shop being all that’s keeping her going & how it’s all to keep his memory alive.
 
Spyglass said:
I'd like to know where all the fundraiser money before he passed went. Then what has this fundraiser been spent on because funerals for children are free.
I'm not going to discuss blame on here and keep my options to myself on that matter but....
This rainbow tit since he passed. Like mentioned above is all for the brand. Its pretty damn obvious what her intentions are.
In the earlier days he was in a full pad, leaking all over the carpets everyday. Then when he was dressed it was extremely baggy clothes that were chavvy. Then she started trying to get in with the influencers and working with brands and then it was all Zara and dressing him in stuff she'd never done just for the free clothes so she wouldn't need to fork out dressing him. Let's not forget the constant begs for him being a model for clothing brands.
Now all of a sudden rainbows were him.
She couldn't even chuck a spare pair of clothes in the car in case he had one of his 50 vomits a day for crying out loud.
I could spot the brand/shop coming a mile off when the affirmations on the tote was purposefully placed in stories at the coast. The leather jacket. The trainers.
The staged pictures of her working on the shop by her friend.... like duck they were taken randomly.
Nothing is random with her. It's always been calculated, planned right from the beginning.
The crying in stories. I am all for people speaking out about grief. It needs to be done. It needs to be discussed.... but getting her phone out to film her cry? Sorry but that whole thing gave me staged vibes.
Getting people to share their memories of her son.... non of these people knew him!!!!!!!I are strangers. And all of that is for engagement. Don't DM me your memories put them on the post.... engagement.

Everything is done to higher her profile. I wondered where she'd go with this after his death and hoped she'd take herself off and grieve. But no. The swipe up links are back, profiting off him as per usual. I am absolutely devasted for J. We all watched the neglect, the questionable actions.
I do believe this thread should be here. If you don't like it don't read simple.

Did I ever see her reaching out to grieving parents before her own son passed?no.
Did I ever see her give to others fundraisers?no.
Did I ever see her supporting over diagnosis and health matters?no.
I saw her making it all about her every time. Slagging off cancer wards the same wards her new pals Saff and Ash stayed on. I saw her never supporting anyone unless is gained her something.

Every child that dies has the same devastating impact as the other. It is the most heartbreaking, world ending thing to happen to a parent. Seeing her with thousands of support, money to splurge and show off, seeing her hold firework displays, getting strangers to share their favourite pictures of j, lighting candles, making merchandise off a child who never could agree to any of the things even when he was here.... it's too far. But she's not thinking of others who are grieving. Of his dad who probably has no say in all of this. Of his family who have all now appeared in a off of smoke. Of the people giving their money to line her pockets so she can carry on the influencer life, having people kiss her arse because she gets off on that. And most importantly this isn't fair on j.

His whole life was laid bare, vomits, leaking patches, burnt skin, naked body, pain, distress, missed feeds and meds, being passed from carer to father, the ableism from his own mother.... and now even in death his life is still being paraded around like its a cinema showing that people have to buy a ticket for. This isn't a time to make profit and share swipe up links. A little boy has sadly passed and I am in complete shock that she has surpassed all my expectations. I honestly thought it would end. This will never end.
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that’s 100% it, the rainbow is so she can sell her affirmations on shirts and bags and bracelets so she can say it’s all Jaxon themed.
When he died she wanted blue hearts and then all of. Sudden it’s like Jaxons rainbow hmm
 
Brilliantly said!!

Spyglass said:
I'd like to know where all the fundraiser money before he passed went. Then what has this fundraiser been spent on because funerals for children are free.
I'm not going to discuss blame on here and keep my options to myself on that matter but....
This rainbow tit since he passed. Like mentioned above is all for the brand. Its pretty damn obvious what her intentions are.
In the earlier days he was in a full pad, leaking all over the carpets everyday. Then when he was dressed it was extremely baggy clothes that were chavvy. Then she started trying to get in with the influencers and working with brands and then it was all Zara and dressing him in stuff she'd never done just for the free clothes so she wouldn't need to fork out dressing him. Let's not forget the constant begs for him being a model for clothing brands.
Now all of a sudden rainbows were him.
She couldn't even chuck a spare pair of clothes in the car in case he had one of his 50 vomits a day for crying out loud.
I could spot the brand/shop coming a mile off when the affirmations on the tote was purposefully placed in stories at the coast. The leather jacket. The trainers.
The staged pictures of her working on the shop by her friend.... like duck they were taken randomly.
Nothing is random with her. It's always been calculated, planned right from the beginning.
The crying in stories. I am all for people speaking out about grief. It needs to be done. It needs to be discussed.... but getting her phone out to film her cry? Sorry but that whole thing gave me staged vibes.
Getting people to share their memories of her son.... non of these people knew him!!!!!!!I are strangers. And all of that is for engagement. Don't DM me your memories put them on the post.... engagement.

Everything is done to higher her profile. I wondered where she'd go with this after his death and hoped she'd take herself off and grieve. But no. The swipe up links are back, profiting off him as per usual. I am absolutely devasted for J. We all watched the neglect, the questionable actions.
I do believe this thread should be here. If you don't like it don't read simple.

Did I ever see her reaching out to grieving parents before her own son passed?no.
Did I ever see her give to others fundraisers?no.
Did I ever see her supporting over diagnosis and health matters?no.
I saw her making it all about her every time. Slagging off cancer wards the same wards her new pals Saff and Ash stayed on. I saw her never supporting anyone unless is gained her something.

Every child that dies has the same devastating impact as the other. It is the most heartbreaking, world ending thing to happen to a parent. Seeing her with thousands of support, money to splurge and show off, seeing her hold firework displays, getting strangers to share their favourite pictures of j, lighting candles, making merchandise off a child who never could agree to any of the things even when he was here.... it's too far. But she's not thinking of others who are grieving. Of his dad who probably has no say in all of this. Of his family who have all now appeared in a off of smoke. Of the people giving their money to line her pockets so she can carry on the influencer life, having people kiss her arse because she gets off on that. And most importantly this isn't fair on j.

His whole life was laid bare, vomits, leaking patches, burnt skin, naked body, pain, distress, missed feeds and meds, being passed from carer to father, the ableism from his own mother.... and now even in death his life is still being paraded around like its a cinema showing that people have to buy a ticket for. This isn't a time to make profit and share swipe up links. A little boy has sadly passed and I am in complete shock that she has surpassed all my expectations. I honestly thought it would end. This will never end.
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Also with the gofund me, let’s not forget her friend making a big point of kayte just spending 7k on solicitors to fight for the kieras.. that he was never ever entitled to. That would of been added to guilt trip people into donating. she never classed herself as a mum always addressed herself a a carer!!
 
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Spyglass said:
I'd like to know where all the fundraiser money before he passed went. Then what has this fundraiser been spent on because funerals for children are free.
I'm not going to discuss blame on here and keep my options to myself on that matter but....
This rainbow tit since he passed. Like mentioned above is all for the brand. Its pretty damn obvious what her intentions are.
In the earlier days he was in a full pad, leaking all over the carpets everyday. Then when he was dressed it was extremely baggy clothes that were chavvy. Then she started trying to get in with the influencers and working with brands and then it was all Zara and dressing him in stuff she'd never done just for the free clothes so she wouldn't need to fork out dressing him. Let's not forget the constant begs for him being a model for clothing brands.
Now all of a sudden rainbows were him.
She couldn't even chuck a spare pair of clothes in the car in case he had one of his 50 vomits a day for crying out loud.
I could spot the brand/shop coming a mile off when the affirmations on the tote was purposefully placed in stories at the coast. The leather jacket. The trainers.
The staged pictures of her working on the shop by her friend.... like duck they were taken randomly.
Nothing is random with her. It's always been calculated, planned right from the beginning.
The crying in stories. I am all for people speaking out about grief. It needs to be done. It needs to be discussed.... but getting her phone out to film her cry? Sorry but that whole thing gave me staged vibes.
Getting people to share their memories of her son.... non of these people knew him!!!!!!!I are strangers. And all of that is for engagement. Don't DM me your memories put them on the post.... engagement.

Everything is done to higher her profile. I wondered where she'd go with this after his death and hoped she'd take herself off and grieve. But no. The swipe up links are back, profiting off him as per usual. I am absolutely devasted for J. We all watched the neglect, the questionable actions.
I do believe this thread should be here. If you don't like it don't read simple.

Did I ever see her reaching out to grieving parents before her own son passed?no.
Did I ever see her give to others fundraisers?no.
Did I ever see her supporting over diagnosis and health matters?no.
I saw her making it all about her every time. Slagging off cancer wards the same wards her new pals Saff and Ash stayed on. I saw her never supporting anyone unless is gained her something.

Every child that dies has the same devastating impact as the other. It is the most heartbreaking, world ending thing to happen to a parent. Seeing her with thousands of support, money to splurge and show off, seeing her hold firework displays, getting strangers to share their favourite pictures of j, lighting candles, making merchandise off a child who never could agree to any of the things even when he was here.... it's too far. But she's not thinking of others who are grieving. Of his dad who probably has no say in all of this. Of his family who have all now appeared in a off of smoke. Of the people giving their money to line her pockets so she can carry on the influencer life, having people kiss her arse because she gets off on that. And most importantly this isn't fair on j.

His whole life was laid bare, vomits, leaking patches, burnt skin, naked body, pain, distress, missed feeds and meds, being passed from carer to father, the ableism from his own mother.... and now even in death his life is still being paraded around like its a cinema showing that people have to buy a ticket for. This isn't a time to make profit and share swipe up links. A little boy has sadly passed and I am in complete shock that she has surpassed all my expectations. I honestly thought it would end. This will never end.
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Well said!
 
Abettermumma said:
But because it’s been a bit longer it’s okay for people to comment on Ash and Saf and their behaviours?
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Nope. Never said that.

mrstakeaway said:
no sorry. If your willing to be on this site and pick apart others how can there be an invisible line? Your happy to slate other people but not Kaytee? Double standards here
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Her son is dead ffs. Shes borderline being blamed for it. Behave lol.


She is an influencer, with Jaxon and without. Thats understandable to have a moan at, influencers are head wrecking. I think mods should be paying more attention to the odd comment that crosses the line though
 
I believe when Jaxon was first born and he was diagnosed with quite a lot of health problems & at the time he was allowed home a brand new home he was entitled to so many hours of Carers, but as Jaxon grew and at times thrived plus some of his medication stabilised he’s needs weren’t as high as they was when he was first born, she abused the carers used them as babysitters to go out get pissed come back drunk and even named and shamed a few of the Night Carers on her Instagram she went on tv saying that she needs xyz to keep herself & son alive? Kathleen stopped certain medications to make her life easier she also paid a feeding school which was Not Recommended by any of the health professionals involved with J & starved him more less, J dad was involved throughout his life yet Kathleen made out he wasn’t she also left Jaxon in a respite home to go on Holiday out of the Country with her new fella. The thing that annoys me the most is that she thought she knew better than any other highly qualified doctors specialists nurses at GOSH, QMC or any other health professional and was never happy with their advise or diagnoses she always had to complain or ask for 2nd 3rd 4th opinion and even when it was the same outcome as she was previously told she would then seek a private health professionals who she slagged off moaned about the cost & her time when they agreed with Gosh
 
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That poor boy had no peace in life. Constantly paraded online for likes, comments, shares, adverts, sponsorship, freebies. His every vomit, tear, cry, admission shared online for exposure and a following. Now he's passed his mother Instagrams from the luxury pool of her luxury hotel in Morocco to emotionally blackmail us all into keeping j's memory alive by buying merch featuring him. And she can't get that shop open quick enough. Let him rest in peace. Stop monetizing him. Your followers have donated to 3 separate and high earning gofundme campaigns now. They've also sent you hundreds in costa and supermarket vouchers (That she begged for from his hospital bed). Where will it all end? If it was just her storying her grief I'd understand but every story is about monetizing his death.

Its coming across as very 'I'm missing the influencing gigs I got because i exploited my son'. Hence the new shop.
 
Olivemaks said:
How do you know she was sacked? What was the reason. Is this a fact?
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we don’t know she was sacked. It was all hush hush. She never mentioned it for ages untill people started asking she then shared a story saying she was being silenced and couldn’t say anything. Then she did a post a few months later saying she had quit her job.
She did it for about 6 weeks tops
 
I don't want to comment on his death. I don't think we'll ever know the story there, and really, unless there was foul play, it's not anyone's business. If that was the case I assume something would have been done about it by now.

I don't have much experience with cemeteries, but I do know the two local to me don't allow anything on graves that lights up, makes a noise, or could break in a heavy wind. They're quite strict with policing it too, and there's often the sad face story in the local papers where someone is kicking off about not being able to decorate a grave like a fairground, despite these bring the rules they signed up to when they bought the plot. I hope she's checked the rules carefully or she may find herself in trouble.

I personally don't think I would be displaying my grief so graphically online, but people do, so maybe I'm the odd one there. It's easy enough to scroll past it. However, it is starting to feel like she's using that grief for financial gain. It's all fine talking about your pain, but when you slip in ads or mentions of an online shop, it starts to feel a bit...unsavoury.
 
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