TheLongMum #3 Life couldn't be harder, I ponder from Lake Garda...

[Gingercream]

The mothers day card... I know Violet is 6 but that's a bit of a nasty thing to say isn't it? I'd be devastated if my kid said that to me.

I wouldn’t be surprised if that comment never happened and Anna is making it up for “content”/attention

 

[IAlreadyDespiseYou]

If my kid said that, it would be awful but it would be time for me to evaluate why they’d said it and look at if there was truth behind it.
She fucks off with any man that so much as sniffs in her direction, whilst I assume leaving them with their dad, she spends hours cruising charity shops and spending money on crap for herself, she’s very passive aggro on social media about her kids and her ex so heaven knows what she says in real life to them and she’s generally spoiled and selfish about life. Most year 6 kids are fairly switched on and if the kid is bright and has had to put up with her mothering then she may well be fed up.

Maybe time for some reflection Anna…

 

[Nixen]

I agree with Violet tbh

she’s a crappy mum

 

[JellyDonut]

I’m sure she does love her kids, but she seems to always put herself first. She’ll happily spunk £££ on new makeup or fillers/Botox, hair and nails, trips to london and up north, even literal holidays(!!) for herself, but doesn’t seem to really spend any money on the kids, and if she does then she moans about it (like Starbucks for example).

 

[jaggedlittlebill]

I’m sure she does love her kids, but she seems to always put herself first. She’ll happily spunk £££ on new makeup or fillers/Botox, hair and nails, trips to london and up north, even literal holidays(!!) for herself, but doesn’t seem to really spend any money on the kids, and if she does then she moans about it (like Starbucks for example).

Doesn't spend money on them and doesn't make up for it by spending time with them either. She bleated about her two-day-a-week job meaning she'll spend less time with her kids (?!) then fobs them off on anyone at the first sniff of some dick or a holiday.

 

[b20212017]

Ran off to spend the rest of Mother’s Day with her new bloke. Nice. What a class act.

 

[JellyDonut]

She’s posted this pic on her grid, taken 1.39am on Sunday 19th March (so Mother’s Day). How has she not got her kids on Mother’s Day weekend when she’s basically just spent a week up north? And she moans that her ex never pays her maintenance- at this rate I feel like she should be paying him the maintenance! She really is obsessed with dropping her knickers for the first bloke that sniffs in her direction isn’t she.
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Also, she hasn’t done a grid post with her kids since before Xmas and she was complaining about “the mental load” of it all. And literally on Mother’s Day is posting the launch of her new boyfriend. I just find it weird. Especially after her story of Violet saying she “could wish for a better mum”. The ex’s partner is probably more like a mum to them than Anna is at this rate. Probably sees them more too

 

[jaggedlittlebill]

I'm a bit speechless. She only got back on Wednesday from a week up north and now she's back up there this weekend? And it was mother's day? So that story she posted of her holding the mothers day cards was staged then, she obviously took that on Friday (she said the card was one Cicely had made at the childminders) and decided to post it on Sunday so it'd look like she was at home with the kids on mother's day where in actual fact she was in Yorkshire and the kids were with their dad again. Those poor bleeping children.

 

[JellyDonut]

It was probably technically the ex’s weekend with the kids and he offered to let her have them cos you know, Mother’s Day. And she was like “no no it’s absolutely fine, let’s keep the arrangement the way it is”. twit.

 

[jaggedlittlebill]

It was probably technically the ex’s weekend with the kids and he offered to let her have them cos you know, Mother’s Day. And she was like “no no it’s absolutely fine, let’s keep the arrangement the way it is”. twit.

I genuinely think he has them every weekend. He definitely had them last weekend as she was up north. I wonder if she realises she's given herself away with the timestamp on the cctv photo trying to pretend she was here receiving cards from the kids when she wasn't. Also in that cctv pic he's trying to move away from her, I give this relationship two more months at best.

 

[Bunbun1]

Violet has said things like that before, Anna posts it thinking it’s amusing and dry, I guess, but Violet will be modelling her speech on what she hears in the home.

It’s interesting how she shows all these videos of her trying things on in chazzas but is also buying fast fashion. I am also sure that the dress was reduced from over 100 to 30 whilst being fully in stock and not just trying to clear out the last few and then fast fashion out the price back up again. Absolutely the way it works.

 

[JellyDonut]

She bought the dress in January “for this occasion”. What occasion? Hanging out in a kebab shop at 2am? And she wonders why she has bailiffs from multiple companies at the door

 

[Bubblemamaa22]

She is the queen of bullshitting and trying to twist her own narrative.
I know I tell you I'm poor and then I buy lots of things but you have to believe me, I'm poor, ok.

 

[jaggedlittlebill]

Always happy to hear she's been getting DMs from the haters love how she screenshots and posts them as if to say "look at this idiot" when 90% of her followers probably agree with them.

 

[JellyDonut]

Always happy to hear she's been getting DMs from the haters love how she screenshots and posts them as if to say "look at this idiot" when 90% of her followers probably agree with them.

Oh did she? I can’t see anything

 

[jaggedlittlebill]

Oh did she? I can’t see anything

Yeah she said someone DMed her calling her "horrifically self indulgent"

 

[JellyDonut]

Yeah she said someone DMed her calling her "horrifically self indulgent"

Oh now I can see it. I mean… they’re not wrong

 

[MrsJ2000]

The post about Violets birthday I wish I could drop that little girl some presents off

 

[Bunbun1]

My kids birthday is close to Christmas-ish. I am already putting money aside for it. We don’t go nuts, about £100-£150 on pressies, a caterpillar cake, balloons and banners, either a day out or a little party. But I’ll make sure the moneys there way ahead of time.
Anna didn’t spend £30 on that dress in Jan. They currently have 30% off everything online but stuff that was less in the sale is still less in the sale. There’s no way it was 70% off then went up to full price again, that’s not how fast fashion works. Honestly I wonder if she paid full price. But either way she has so many clothes, *so many*, she couple have skipped buying herself another dress and got V some pressies. She could have skipped some of the socialising she has done the past two weekends and got V some pressies. How much has she spent on her nights outs etc recently? Even if he paid for everything, there was money for getting to Yorkshire, she could have spent that on pressies.
Instead she is on Instagram holding a 7 year old to a higher standard than herself, implying her 7 year old is materialistic for wanting birthday pressies days after complaining her ex doesn’t buy her gifts.
This is a new low, even for Anna.

 

[JellyDonut]

Anna is disgusting. She’s 7 ffs, of course she is still wanting presents! But don’t worry, Anna got fresh nails and hair to go and shag a lad in Yorkshire for an entire week. Selfish bleep.