birdgirl412
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I am with all of you that they lied about their fertility issues etc and are just all round assholes.
I totally get what this person is trying to say but the wording has annoyed me a little bit. I struggled with infertility (have PCOS) referred to hospital, tests done and was told that it was highly likely we wouldn’t conceive naturally. Husband and I decided not to have any medical intervention and went about our lives, fast forward a couple of years later and I fell pregnant with DD1. She was just perfect so I was greedy and wanted another one. As we thought it would take years, just like it had for the first, we started trying when she was about 10/11 months. The week of her first birthday I found out I was pregnant again (DD2) which blew my mind as I was not planning on having 2 under 2. Anyway, sorry for the long story but me having 2 babies within 2 years doesn’t take away from the pain I had to get there and whilst my second was very easy I had spent many years where it wasn’t.
I agree that how “often”people get pregnant is not an indicator of infertility. Some people struggle for a decade and then have two. Some have secondary infertility. So I definitely get the frustration here.
Jenn is just so dishonest about this because she never said why she had struggles to begin with. Let’s say she had a similar story to you.. it wouldn’t make sense why they’d try for 4-5 months, go to the doctor, and the doctor say “just be patient”. I would love for her to explain this. Can you tell I am angry? anyway yes.. totally agree with you