I think we should stop focussing on Zoe's supposed anxiety and how she can't cope. Absolutely gives me the shits when the conversation turns to that. She can cope with many things that she wants to cope with - shopping, Starbucks, endless phone watching, not to mention the hours they obviously spend in the evenings glued to their streaming services. Also the parading about in her latest clothes purchases, even swimsuits. She just chooses not to do a whole range of things she doesn't want to do. And to expect that a husband will stop working to allow this is inexcusable. I remember when I was her age - I had kids AND a full-time job AND then collapsed in the street from a brain aneurysm. What did hubby and I do then? Well, I struggled to get back on my feet as quickly as I could because we needed to pay our big mortgage which took two incomes. So don't tell me about those two useless bastards. Get some real problems you pair of losers. Rant over.