Hazelnut22
Chatty Member
The thing is, when you actually have to work for your money, maybe in a job you don’t like or even one you do, but the hours are long and the wages aren’t great, then you are more careful with how you spend.
We all know that a certain someone hasn’t ever had to put herself out and go to work. And before any one shouts I know parenting is a hard job but it is also a choice you make when you decide to have a family, it’s hard but also rewarding.
It concerns me that Fem doesn’t question the outrageous over spending, with the hand me downs we can see it’s not a new thing. As the bread winner (ex) you would think he could have said something. She mentioned debts before. I can see this happening again and no way of repaying If he remains idle.
They need to make some plans. How many benefit families run two cars or one for that matter. And is it sustainable living to be driving the kids to school, why not move them to the village school and get involved with the community, it would be good for the kids.
Vlogging needs to stop and proper life needs to resume.
We all know that a certain someone hasn’t ever had to put herself out and go to work. And before any one shouts I know parenting is a hard job but it is also a choice you make when you decide to have a family, it’s hard but also rewarding.
It concerns me that Fem doesn’t question the outrageous over spending, with the hand me downs we can see it’s not a new thing. As the bread winner (ex) you would think he could have said something. She mentioned debts before. I can see this happening again and no way of repaying If he remains idle.
They need to make some plans. How many benefit families run two cars or one for that matter. And is it sustainable living to be driving the kids to school, why not move them to the village school and get involved with the community, it would be good for the kids.
Vlogging needs to stop and proper life needs to resume.