The Socialmama.xo #27 If it ain't gifted, Aimee won't get her arse shifted

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The way these two woman seek so much validation from social media is worrying! If you were genuinely happy living your best life you would not have to constantly post it to insta, it’s like her so called weight loss she feels she needs to prove it by constantly mentioning it, why? Also these holidays and time out of school are so damaging to her children, they are missing so much education and it will affect them in the long run, it’s so sad just to prove her worth of travelling on social media, they actually need help
 
The crying, baggy eyes, will be because she’s been found out on here that she’s been dropped by her “management.” That one off 4K a month, is now exactly that. A one off. No more mention of her January holiday. Her husband is out working every hour, to allow her to keep up with this fake insta life and it’s still not good enough. She’ll be churning with jealousy about her best pal being on holiday again. I never used to mind her, but don’t have 4 kids if you can’t cope with the ones you already have and continuously favour one over the others.
 
I have no sympathy for her tbh and not being horrible she wanted a bigger house, bigger car, she chose to have 4 kids and not work. If you want all that then come off social media and sort yourself, house and life. They can say aww you only see 5 mins of my day we have all done it messing about on your phone scrolling when you look up an hour has passed. 30 mins sat talking into her phone to a bunch of strangers when could be hoovering, doing a wash, tidying a room, so much can be done.
ATM must have a hard time living with her and dealing with her up’s and downs, not so easy for him just to walk out when he probably wants to be a full time dad, cars and a house to keep.
Then moaning about how he is hardly home… he is hardly any home because of YOU Aimee how else do you think the cars, house and bills will be paid 🤡
They haven’t done any renovations in that house because they can’t afford to I was £1000 just for a stud wall to be put up.
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Kinda weird how Big Ang didn’t do a birthday post for Kaiden she usually does and they haven’t been tagging each other as much … probably looking too much into it but something seems off 😅
 
I don’t feel sorry for her either, she is clearly fuming her pal is on holiday and also booked another one while she hasn’t mentioned the Ryan Air compo and booking a January holiday with it again so I hope Kyle has told her it’s going on home improvements or general living costs.

She defo moved to Killie cos Ang lives there and she 100% regrets it. She has a toddler so she should be up and out at play groups etc meeting other mums with small kids and building a life for herself. Instead you just know she rocks ups at that school and kids get out and she drives miles away to go to a gym then stoats about a shopping centre eating cakes and drinking coffees she can’t afford before rushing back for the school run. She can’t even get a washing done or her own room tidied thru the day. For a woman who does nothing all day, everything is last minute or late including getting kids birthday presents or making the dinner.

I think she needs to get to a doctor about her obvious depression and get back on some tablets, then put her phone down and start acting like a mum an looking after the house she has and consider getting a part time job which would do her the world of good.
 
Chatterbox2412 said:
I don’t feel sorry for her either, she is clearly fuming her pal is on holiday and also booked another one while she hasn’t mentioned the Ryan Air compo and booking a January holiday with it again so I hope Kyle has told her it’s going on home improvements or general living costs.

She defo moved to Killie cos Ang lives there and she 100% regrets it. She has a toddler so she should be up and out at play groups etc meeting other mums with small kids and building a life for herself. Instead you just know she rocks ups at that school and kids get out and she drives miles away to go to a gym then stoats about a shopping centre eating cakes and drinking coffees she can’t afford before rushing back for the school run. She can’t even get a washing done or her own room tidied thru the day. For a woman who does nothing all day, everything is last minute or late including getting kids birthday presents or making the dinner.

I think she needs to get to a doctor about her obvious depression and get back on some tablets, then put her phone down and start acting like a mum an looking after the house she has and consider getting a part time job which would do her the world of good.
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I think she so obviously depressed and it would benefit her entire family for her to get help. She literally never ever does anything with her kids unless it's #gifted or an #AD, like nothing at all. It's even worse now than it used to be. She either does one of two things with her day, she sits in the house all day alone, or she's out and about from the get go, and its always doing something pointless, like going round multiple shops, or out for lunch and a coffee etc. She used to post about how much her mum had the kids when they first moved to killie, but she doesn't seem to do that ad much these days, so aimee will definitely be struggling even more. The days she spends stuck in the house she's either absolutely manic pulling pans out of drawers to tidy up, or she's completely drained and having a lazy day. And like you say, when she's out, she's out all day, rushing back for the school kids. And I think that's because she can't face being trapped in the house because she isn't happy there. She had grands plans of renovations, but she's left herself with bags for life filled with all sorts and it's a much bigger house to keep on top of than her last house. Plus kyle is never ever around because he has to pay for eeverything. She doesn't appear to have a life, the only 'friend' she consistently posts about it Ang and that is not a healthy adult friendship. She never does anything for herself in terms of a little walk for fresh air, meeting up with friends just for the sake of a catch up because you've got things to share etc. We know she does plenty for herself by shopping and getting her hair done but you know what I mean. She's either getting her nails done or with Ang and constantly posing for the camera, fake laughing and having the best time ever - which is actually draining. We all know it does you the world of good to spend time with your friends and just have a laugh withiut performing, or take the kids to the science centre etc. She behaves like a little gifted spa trip or filming herself talking for 2 minutes about buying ANOTHER Stanley water cup is so fulfilling when it's not.
Her life is as empty as her head.
 
When they moved to Killie, they should have moved everything such as kids swimming/dancing etc to local ones there - I know it’s hard cos they have wee pals at the previous places but the reality is, if that is where you are settling then you move things so your kids can integrate with other local kids.
Nobody is driving for miles to go to 30 minute swimming lessons once a week when there is no need.
Although saying that, She never posts about kids activities anymore - no swimming, dance class or boys football - wonder if it’s all stopped!
 
Chatterbox2412 said:
When they moved to Killie, they should have moved everything such as kids swimming/dancing etc to local ones there - I know it’s hard cos they have wee pals at the previous places but the reality is, if that is where you are settling then you move things so your kids can integrate with other local kids.
Nobody is driving for miles to go to 30 minute swimming lessons once a week when there is no need.
Although saying that, She never posts about kids activities anymore - no swimming, dance class or boys football - wonder if it’s all stopped!
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Or the drama school was it wee hairy Mary was going to 🤣 lasted a whole week.
On a serious note if anything was to happen to ATM she would be fucked. I don’t get why he would want to work all those hours and his wife can’t even give him 50% effort back.
 
Chatterbox2412 said:
When they moved to Killie, they should have moved everything such as kids swimming/dancing etc to local ones there - I know it’s hard cos they have wee pals at the previous places but the reality is, if that is where you are settling then you move things so your kids can integrate with other local kids.
Nobody is driving for miles to go to 30 minute swimming lessons once a week when there is no need.
Although saying that, She never posts about kids activities anymore - no swimming, dance class or boys football - wonder if it’s all stopped!
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Kids classes are expensive, we are around £40 a month for one to go to gymnastics, was the same for dancing many moons ago. I can't imagine her wanting to pay probably between £150-£200 a month on activities and sports clubs for her children. Or being able to afford it... let alone be organised enough actually take them and let's be honest with these dark cold evenings dragging 4 kids out and about is less than ideal. And kyle is constantly "on call" so she will more than likely be coming home to an empty house, where she's got to make dinner. Doesn't sound like her at all.
 
TalkOfTheGram said:
Kids classes are expensive, we are around £40 a month for one to go to gymnastics, was the same for dancing many moons ago. I can't imagine her wanting to pay probably between £150-£200 a month on activities and sports clubs for her children. Or being able to afford it... let alone be organised enough actually take them and let's be honest with these dark cold evenings dragging 4 kids out and about is less than ideal. And kyle is constantly "on call" so she will more than likely be coming home to an empty house, where she's got to make dinner. Doesn't sound like her at all.
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Oh they Absolutley are expensive but so are hair extensions, nail extensions and Costa coffees and she has no problem paying for those things!
The scary thing is she will go on and have another baby!
 
Chatterbox2412 said:
Oh they Absolutley are expensive but so are hair extensions, nail extensions and Costa coffees and she has no problem paying for those things!
The scary thing is she will go on and have another baby!
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But those are quite clearly essential... to her anyway. The way she priorities her beauty apps as a mother of 4 is mind blowing. She'll get her hair done and her nails done and then still look like something the cat dragged in. She would be better focusing on a few decent outfits that will last her and stop her looking like a Bonmarché mannequin with big clumpy trainers on. She could have the best hair extensions on the planet but she shoves them up in some half hearted bun and wears terrible make up, so it really takes away the point if you ask me.
 
IsaPeoplehuvtaeknow said:
I have no sympathy for her tbh and not being horrible she wanted a bigger house, bigger car, she chose to have 4 kids and not work. If you want all that then come off social media and sort yourself, house and life. They can say aww you only see 5 mins of my day we have all done it messing about on your phone scrolling when you look up an hour has passed. 30 mins sat talking into her phone to a bunch of strangers when could be hoovering, doing a wash, tidying a room, so much can be done.
ATM must have a hard time living with her and dealing with her up’s and downs, not so easy for him just to walk out when he probably wants to be a full time dad, cars and a house to keep.
Then moaning about how he is hardly home… he is hardly any home because of YOU Aimee how else do you think the cars, house and bills will be paid 🤡
They haven’t done any renovations in that house because they can’t afford to I was £1000 just for a stud wall to be put up.
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Kinda weird how Big Ang didn’t do a birthday post for Kaiden she usually does and they haven’t been tagging each other as much … probably looking too much into it but something seems off 😅
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And the fact she said previously baby no.5 wasn't completely ruled out! Maybe it has been now and that's adding to why she's in a huff!
 
Tricia Doll said:
The way she still styles her insta page as 'relatable mum content'. She's not relatable in any way. She's definitely not aspirational, I would dislike her life.
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Yes completely agree- her life is awful. She merely exists and is actually really sad when you think about it. However she does nothing to help herself, refuses to work yet wants everything handed to her and lives for attention so hell slap it into her as my mum says! 🤣 As much as Kyle is a dick she must be a nightmare to live with. I would be “on call” 24/7 if I was him also.
 
Twinnies said:
Yes completely agree- her life is awful. She merely exists and is actually really sad when you think about it. However she does nothing to help herself, refuses to work yet wants everything handed to her and lives for attention so hell slap it into her as my mum says! 🤣 As much as Kyle is a dick she must be a nightmare to live with. I would be “on call” 24/7 if I was him also.
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Being at work is probably the only break he gets. I don't have 4 kids and my house is noisy and full on. There's kids playing, dinner being made, home work to be done, washing, dishes etc.. I can't imagine working 40+ hours a week and coming home to that chaos. Where your wife decided to go to the gym and take photos and then sit in the car and yap to her phone for 10 minutes because the "baby" was sleeping. She's not put away the washing, hasn't done any prep for dinner, is more than likely screaming at the kids, hasn't hoovered, pretty much hasn't done anything all day, every day. He probably puts a wee bit away every month, gets a hotel the following month for a few nights and just lays there, basking in the silence with his phone on airplane mode pretending he's been called out to work 😂
 
I used to always have a wee laugh with my other half that I longed to be a kept woman but the reality is that one of the key factors in a relationship is team work, if I didn't need to work I'd need to be home all day cooking and cleaning etc and quite frankly f**k that! I get so much out of my work besides a salary. Networks of people id never have met, travel to places I'd never have been, validation for a great job done, life long friends I've made and skills I can pass on. Aimees life is so empty. Imagine when she's an empty nester! She'll be insufferable. I bet wee Megamind ends up exactly like her. A useless baby making machine.
 
So a fully qualified doctor suggested anti-depressants but oor Aimee has linked it all to a full moon. What the actual duck is wrong with her. Why would you even come on your phone to a bunch of strangers and talk like that. The soon the whole social media trend goes the better if you ask me. This to me is the same as those people who post when they are at the hospital so people will comment what’s wrong etc. my daughter was in hospital with a really bad eye infection and not once did I feel the need to come on social media and tell anyone.
 
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