The SM family

Why is Arabella in a high chair I thought two was the upper age limit on them but what do I know it just seems odd to me 🤷‍♀️
She said the other day it’s due to lack of space but then there is always a fourth chair on the table so I’m not sure why she can’t sit on that! I reckon it’s because she only eats sat on her tablet and it’s probably easier having her with her back to the others watching her tablet to eat 🤦🏻‍♀️ god help her come September and she starts school and has to sit on a normal table and chair to eat her lunch, she’s not gonna know what to do!

It’s the same as those kiddie plates she gives all the kids still and the tiny food portions like they’re still 5! Ellie starts seniors in September still eating off a kiddie plate 😅
 
She said the other day it’s due to lack of space but then there is always a fourth chair on the table so I’m not sure why she can’t sit on that! I reckon it’s because she only eats sat on her tablet and it’s probably easier having her with her back to the others watching her tablet to eat 🤦🏻‍♀️ god help her come September and she starts school and has to sit on a normal table and chair to eat her lunch, she’s not gonna know what to do!

It’s the same as those kiddie plates she gives all the kids still and the tiny food portions like they’re still 5! Ellie starts seniors in September still eating off a kiddie plate 😅
I know it’s weird AF. The thing is they have to eat small portions or they’d all be huge the amount of chocolates and sweets they consume it’s not healthy at all and I love a chocolate bar but they are ridiculous.
 
I know it’s weird AF. The thing is they have to eat small portions or they’d all be huge the amount of chocolates and sweets they consume it’s not healthy at all and I love a chocolate bar but they are ridiculous.
This is true! Tbf they’re probably all stuffed from the sweets and chocs by the time she’s dished up their dinner! She said they have free run of the snack basket and she’s forever filling it up 🙈
 
Arabella put gems up the baby’s nose and no discipline in sight
It’s terrible Arabella is never disciplined cause she’s never going to learn right from wrong. She’s 4 years old but she’s treated as if she’s only 1! she’s babied to the point that no matter what she does no discipline takes place and the poor child is going to struggle in life if she’s never taught how to behave and told no for once. I hate when people makes excuses for her or any child that age saying “she’s only 4 she doesn’t understand” 4 years old is old enough to understand things and to be disciplined so that the same mistakes/accidents don’t keep happening cause that’s the only way a child can learn but unfortunately Arabella has a very immature mum who doesn’t want to help her child develop and learn.

Sophie is lucky this time everything was ok with the baby because something worse could of happened and I know accidents can happen so I’m not judging any parent who has genuine accident occur with their child that was out of their control but a situation like this with Arabella is different cause she’ll probably keep doing things like this or even worse cause her parents aren’t disciplining her. Watching Sophie parent makes me cringe and not because she needs to be perfect but because she acts like a kid herself and thinks she’s a cool rule free mum so focused on trying to be best friends with her kids but she’s doing those kids no favours with the way she parents.
 
I’m trying to get my head around this, Arabella is definitely 4 isn’t she? Surely by 4 they understand that it’s wrong to do stuff like sticking gems up a baby’s nose 🙈 that’s so so naughty and just shows how babied Arabella is, not only can she barely talk but she’s doing stuff that a 1/2 year old would do 🙈 god forbid she put them in the baby’s mouth and she swallowed it and choked on it and I bet Sophie rewarded her with a trip to the shops for a toy and can of coke 🙈 shocking!!!
 
I’m trying to get my head around this, Arabella is definitely 4 isn’t she? Surely by 4 they understand that it’s wrong to do stuff like sticking gems up a baby’s nose 🙈 that’s so so naughty and just shows how babied Arabella is, not only can she barely talk but she’s doing stuff that a 1/2 year old would do 🙈 god forbid she put them in the baby’s mouth and she swallowed it and choked on it and I bet Sophie rewarded her with a trip to the shops for a toy and can of coke 🙈 shocking!!!
She turned 4 in march and I feel crazy even knowing this child’s name and age but that’s what happens when her mother is a child exploiter who puts all this out there online.

Yeah that’s the worst part is even if she was to do the worst most dangerous thing ever that ended badly ( luckily this time nothing ended badly and everything is ok) but she’s awarded with toys and sweets straight after doing something wrong instead of being taught right from wrong and all that spoiling will ruin her. I feel sorry for the child because she’s so used to doing whatever she wants no matter bad it is and there’s never any discipline so she’ll go through life thinking she can do things that she shouldn’t be doing because her parents haven’t ever made the time to discipline and teach her.
 
It doesn't sit right with me that arabella is starting big school in a matter of weeks and eats her dinner in a high chair, why not buy her a toddler chair and table if she doesn't like the big table. I thought she had maybe just turned 3 years old
 
She turned 4 in march and I feel crazy even knowing this child’s name and age but that’s what happens when her mother is a child exploiter who puts all this out there online.

Yeah that’s the worst part is even if she was to do the worst most dangerous thing ever that ended badly ( luckily this time nothing ended badly and everything is ok) but she’s awarded with toys and sweets straight after doing something wrong instead of being taught right from wrong and all that spoiling will ruin her. I feel sorry for the child because she’s so used to doing whatever she wants no matter bad it is and there’s never any discipline so she’ll go through life thinking she can do things that she shouldn’t be doing because her parents haven’t ever made the time to discipline and teach her.
Of course she can’t discipline her precious Arabella that still sits in a tiny high chair to eat her dinner at the age of FOUR!!! Arabella wont see an issue with what she has done because of her moms attitude, she gets whatever she wants every single time they enter a shop and gets treated like the most important child when they’re at home, makes you sick to your stomach thinking what could have happened if it was her putting something in the baby’s mouth for her to choke and Sophie sees it as content happily telling everyone what’s happened talking in that stupid baby voice she does 🤦🏻‍♀️
 
I’m trying to get my head around this, Arabella is definitely 4 isn’t she? Surely by 4 they understand that it’s wrong to do stuff like sticking gems up a baby’s nose 🙈 that’s so so naughty and just shows how babied Arabella is, not only can she barely talk but she’s doing stuff that a 1/2 year old would do 🙈 god forbid she put them in the baby’s mouth and she swallowed it and choked on it and I bet Sophie rewarded her with a trip to the shops for a toy and can of coke 🙈 shocking!!!

ive got a 4 year old and trust me they aint daft 🤣🤣 the right clued up. im surprised arabella still dosent have a nappy on her arse!
 
ive got a 4 year old and trust me they aint daft 🤣🤣 the right clued up. im surprised arabella still dosent have a nappy on her arse!
Honestly I have teenagers and I know 4 year olds can be mischevious but they’re school age, they know right from wrong when it comes to things like that but then again the way Sophie treats her she clearly hasn’t warned her of the dangers of anything happening with the baby when playing around her etc. Her clap back video of saying people are questioning if she’s disciplined arabella just says it all ‘arabella was upset that effie had to go to hospital’ 🙄
 
Honestly I have teenagers and I know 4 year olds can be mischevious but they’re school age, they know right from wrong when it comes to things like that but then again the way Sophie treats her she clearly hasn’t warned her of the dangers of anything happening with the baby when playing around her etc. Her clap back video of saying people are questioning if she’s disciplined arabella just says it all ‘arabella was upset that effie had to go to hospital’ 🙄
Screams jealousy to me and her mother is trying to buy her way out of it
 
In her TikTok the amount of sweets she puts into the trolley she never stops she’s addicted 😮 and the craziest part is she’ll be in and out of the shops everyday buying more sweets. Also her favouritism of Ellie and Arabella I think it’s sad because you can tell the other kids especially Mya is an afterthought to her. The simplest thing of getting the kids sweets , toys etc it’s always “I’ll get this for Ellie she will love this” and “ I’ll get this for Arabella” that’s all she constantly says and I’m not saying she never gets the other kids anything cause she does but it’s clear who her two favourites are and they’re the two always on her mind and always in the content! Watching her parent is concerning cause something is so off about her and I’ve said it before but she’s very immature. She always has poor Effy like a prop in the tiktoks to get more views.
 
In her TikTok the amount of sweets she puts into the trolley she never stops she’s addicted 😮 and the craziest part is she’ll be in and out of the shops everyday buying more sweets. Also her favouritism of Ellie and Arabella I think it’s sad because you can tell the other kids especially Mya is an afterthought to her. The simplest thing of getting the kids sweets , toys etc it’s always “I’ll get this for Ellie she will love this” and “ I’ll get this for Arabella” that’s all she constantly says and I’m not saying she never gets the other kids anything cause she does but it’s clear who her two favourites are and they’re the two always on her mind and always in the content! Watching her parent is concerning cause something is so off about her and I’ve said it before but she’s very immature. She always has poor Effy like a prop in the tiktoks to get more views.
Those two are her money makers because they act up to the camera for her! It’s always them two being taken into town to the shops or to Smyths for new toys, you never see her having one on one time with Rome or Mya or taking them out alone for food etc they’re just always left at home with their dad, it’s a shame!
 
100%!!! She never seems to get called out about her favouritism of Arabella and Ellie either because her comments are full of children commenting!!!
I’ve never seen her called out that screams block happy to me.
ETA what makes it worse is that she gets money for Maya a considerable amount which is supposed to spent on her as it’s her money but no …,
 
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