I know I'll get slated for this and no doubt as soon as anyone may give her the slightest bit of pity no doubt she'll do something to completely screw herself over ( I genuinely think she prefers people hating her over pitying), however this woman in the space of a year had had her tw*t of a husband outed as someone who's trying to hook up with people half his age whilst persuading her to have another baby, she's had to make decision over whether to go out on her own with 3 children and at the time pregnant or stick by the idiot ( I don't know many people who would leave in the same circumstances with no guaranteed income and 5 mouths to feed). Making the wrong decision has meant she's now lost all credibility with anyone, all the perks they had, and even less of a chance of earning on her own. Yes these were her choices, but bloody hard ones to make. I think she's been horrific along the way, but I absolutely understand why someone who's been through all of this and had a baby may not been concentrating on her weight at the moment!
It also wasn’t that long ago that she lost her mother. Grief doesn’t just disappear a year or however long after the loss. And I’m not a mum but I imagine for most women you want your own mother there to meet the baby, give you advice and a shoulder to cry on when things get overwhelming. My mum means the world to me and I know I’d want her around if I have a baby. I have to admit for that I really do feel sorry for Sarah. It frustrates me that she didn’t leave that plank of a man. I could maybe just about accept if he had been texting full grown women behind her back and she was giving him another chance, I’d still have no respect for him but Id think “whatever if you want to stay with a man you’ll never be able to trust go for it” but it wasn’t full grown women, it was vulnerable teenage girls. Take your kids and get away from him Sarah.
Now don’t get me wrong. I’m not saying sarah is innocent in this, by denying what he did she is calling those girls liars, and I’m still absolutely fuming about the Jace doll (WTF). However, after a big loss, her staying with Chris and denying it all probably did feel like the easiest thing to do at the time. Less scary than going it alone and everything changing. It was the wrong thing. She needs to talk to a professional. Staying with a predator is not normal behaviour. Selling a doll of your baby is not normal behaviour!
Also-
-yeah she has put on weight but I think she looks fine. She referred to herself as a whale once so I think she’s well aware that she’s bigger than she used to be. What she looks like is irrelevant anyway. She does need to eat healthier though. (They all do)
-I don’t get the impression the girls are terribly unhappy but I do think they’d be happier in long run without Chris in their lives (can’t help but think how mortified/shocked those poor kids will feel when they’re older and fully understand their fathers behaviour)
-Sarah often gets words/phrases wrong, which is annoying/weird but also don’t think that really matters. When I first watched them (before the no situation) I actually assumed she was dyslexic, don’t know, but I did at first, like I’ve never heard someone say neck-lace.
-I don’t think there’s anything wrong with skating at 35. I don’t care if you’re 35 and watch peppa pig in your free time! It’s like saying “you can’t do that sport/hobbie/video game that you enjoy coz you’re too old.” HES TOO OLD TO BE TRYING TO SEDUCE TEENAGERS. But who cares if he skates.
The big issues I have with the Inghams is Chris Ingham, THE DOLL
, the fan mail (close that PO Box for goodness sake) and the expensive video messages that some people didn’t even get, the obsessive to point of stalkerish that is the IFAM, filming their children EVERY DAMN DAY, Chris seeming offended at the idea that Jace might be ginger (who cares!! And red hair is lovely ffs) , that they might have pocketed charity money. Let me know if I’ve forgotten anything!
To sum up... Chris is completely guilty, he’s not going to prison but I wish he would get the
duck off YouTube. Sarah is guilty of many things but is clearly unhappy and would still have a following (perhaps a smaller one) if she just ditched Chris.
The Ingham kids are completely innocent in all this and I hope they’ll be ok.
I needed that rant.
Edit : why so many presents?!! Can’t believe I forgot that because it really gets to me.