The Ingham Family #354 Sarah gormless Ingham can’t see what’s happening in front of her eyes

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mags said:
I'm not sure what the Inghams have mentioned previously but Sarah isn't exactly discreet so maybe it's common knowledge. (I'd not heard of this woman before but the daughter has possibly been mentioned...not too sure.) It's bizarre though, not keeping ifam at a distance, I agree.

I can't atm, sorry. I'll try later, if you're still stuck, unless anyone else has something to hand? I know @Kikini Bamalam posted a template a while back, if you can search old threads for that, for pointers. I also like @MissWinnie 's idea of mentioning the Deezer takedown request as a recent example of a major organisation taking the grooming allegations seriously. I wouldn't get too hung up on the wording though, I'm sure they'll get the message x
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This is always a great way to help you write something
  • Who: Who is involved, who is affected, who benefits, who loses
  • What: What happened, what are the consequences, what does this mean for the reader
  • When: When did it happen, when was the last update, when can you expect to learn more
  • Where: Where is this taking place, where should readers go to learn more
    • Why: Why did this event take place, why is this important in the big picture, why should readers care
 
Kitty2020 said:
Looks like a set up to me. Anyone recall that skirt? And really, was she twice her size? I smell trolling… well done parents - getting your teen daughters in on it when so many truly suffer. Was that really necessary? Is any of it? You two ‘parents’ are rancid excrement 💩
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I think isla has dropped extreme weight very quickly too, although she seems to have all of a sudden shot up and matured looks wise over night. But she's gone from always eatting and in kitchen ready to grab what she can to looking rather thin. I wouldn't be surprised if her sisters digs of calling her sam smith and her mother telling her what people were saying has made her give up eatting. Definitely isobelle looks completely zombied of late Definitely not the girl she used to be.
 
I've been watching via the link posted here.
Observations...the house is decorated to look like a store at xmas time( and not a flash store either)its is the most soulless character less xmas decorating in the most character less house.
..baby aurora, roadie, rory.. such a sweet silent sad soul.
..thank God isla had the Lego thing advent because esmeneme would never had worked that out. Are we sure isla had the same dad as the others? She's seriously bright with a zest for learning and the others..arnt..
 
For someone claiming to grow up without even the basics you would think she would strive to provide that for her own children. Instead they don't have sheets, no education, are dirty, have dirty cheap clothes that often don't fit correctly, lack of privacy for much of the year in vans/caravans/smaller houses. No stability at all - they don't know where they will be from one week to the next, can never make plans in advance to do anything, can never form strong bonds with anyone they meet (options are severely limited in the first place).

She likes to make out her parents bought presents and she went on holidays, but didn't have a nice home, clean bedding or basics - which is exactly what she does to her own children but on a much larger scale.
 
binkyboo said:
I wondered how they decorated the house so quick, sounds like they just dragged everything out to the garage fully assembled last Xmas and then brought it all back in this year! So lazy!
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Sure they've said they don't take the trees down. Just plonk them in the garage as they are ready for next year. So no decorating the trees, just plonking them in the corner of what looks like an explosion in Poundland
 
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charlotte_98 said:
Her mother was neglectful if all this is factual. She says she regularly went out to bingo and smoked heavily so they were choices she made.
Quite honestly you can see how it has shaped Sarah’s behaviour. Which is sad.
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YouTube was the worst thing she ever did. Before it and at the start her children were much better behaved, educated and had basic needs met. I’m not saying she was perfect, no one is, but doing youtube was the worst thing she could have done. That thing she married just wants to show off.

The children will suffer the most.

When at university when I realised my childhood wasn’t the norm, seeing how other parents behaved. My first graduation was devastating (after that family were banned) because everyone saw a fraction of what it was like and I had more attention from other parents than I did my own (who behaved dreadfully). It’s other people who show you if your childhood was normal or not and that’s why those children will never leave.
 
MissWinnie said:
They really do need an unannounced visit.

Bare mattresses, bad oral hygiene, untreated medical needs (Rodney probably hasn’t been seen since she was a few months old with the exception of the A&E trip if that was true), lack of education, lack of socialisation, access to an alcohol trolley and regular access to cleaning products (bleach on the kitchen sides).

Unkept appearances, unsociable waking hours, inappropriate exposure to content on the TV when they insist on watching things as a family which are not appropriate for children. I bet Rodney doesn’t even had a clear cot so they can show them she has her own bed, even if she is co-sleeping. Also not forgetting the unusually high number of unexplained marks across the children’s faces and arms on a regular basis - the list is endless. Abuse in multiple forms - emotional, financial, neglect. If they had a different postcode they’d be checked out without a doubt.
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I reported them to both the nspcc and social services and included photos and clips of different things. Very soon after they ran off to Dubai for the first time for months so I feel certain they did receive some sort of visit. Unfortunately they run off to other countries
 
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