The Ingham Family #286 The Very PR-Hungry Cotterpillar. What a load of balls.

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The difference here is we have right to roam and true wild camping is legal in Scotland, and it's an important cultural freedom, so this is quite a significant step that has had to be enforced.

I know, sorry. I didn’t explain myself well. I meant where I am it’s illegal but has never been enforced. Now it is and has been since Easter with people literally waking up to fines. I’ve no idea where the Inghams expect to go.
 
I don't know how to say this, because I really don't want to project the distaste I have for her mother and stepdad onto Isabelle.
A podcast on mental health? Really? Just get up and crack on?
I can't with these people.
Isabelle needs a life away from that toxic twosome so she can develop her own ideas and explore the world around her. It's also fine and dandy to tell teenagers that they need to do what they love and that they don't have to follow a specific path like uni, but life doesn't work like that. As parents you support and encourage your child to become a productive member of society, gain employable skills or formal qualifications. You don't strip them from every opportunity because you need a babysitter for kids you don't give a tit about.
Sheltered and groomed her whole life by a dim-witted mother and a deviant step father.

I understand wanting them to go to College but Uni is different, I have known people go to Uni to get a Degree only for them to never use it, they only went so they could say "I have a Degree" yet the job they have now has nothing to do with that Degree. They went to Uni only out of societal pressure. It is like the couples that get married even if they have both never wanted to but they only do it because people say they should or again, they feel pressure. It is the same with having kids, some people put no thought into it, they just do it because they think it is what is expected of them, the result being unhappy parents and children that soon find out they were never really wanted. I understand encouraging teenagers to do things, and they need as much support as possible but I would hate for them to feel pressure to do things just because everyone else is doing it. Obviously Isabelle's situation is different because she has no future at all if she can't break free from the life she has now and I am sad for her.
 
I believe she was taking Jace to the hospital as he had hurt his foot in the playground. That’s also the time she was hitting Jace’s leg to show it wasn’t broken. She was mad that the dr was sending Jace for X-rays of his leg.

Yes sorry, I meant Jace 🙈
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It was jace wasn’t it? For an X-ray, knowing she wouldn’t be able to go in with being pregnant,

Yes it was, sorry, so many children to keep track of 🤣
 
That picture of them two you just know he’s posing like that for tattle what a creep

And the outfits she puts Mila in, they are hideous

That picture of them two you just know he’s posing like that for tattle what a creep

And the outfits she puts Mila in, they are hideous
When you walk around looking worse than a sister wife you`re hardly going to bother what your child wears.:( It`s like she`s lost any ounce of self respect she may have had before the revelations.
 
Saw this, thought of creepy
 

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It’s quite obvious by Izzy’s answers that she is totally finished with any education no surprise there! Highly doubt there’s going be any more GCSEs in the next couple of weeks or college in September for A-levels, going off to university will be totally out of the question. Lazy & Creepy didn’t make it to university so why will they let any of their kids overshadow them.

Apparently she has a lot of options she is considering? Really what are those apart from being trapped in Rosabelle Manor with her thicko mother and creepy step-father, apparently she has loads of interests apart from reading a few books what actual interests does she have? Seriously she barely leaves her bedroom unless it’s to trail around next to creepy on his latest vanity project.

She’s still struggling with working out how long she’s been with her boyfriend, sticking to her mothers lies of around 7 months it’s a wonder she’s not dizzy with her eyes darting everywhere! Don’t know any teen girl that wouldn’t know the exact length of time they have been with their first boyfriend especially when counting in MONTHS. She says it feels more like 3 months….which is likely closer to the truth which is when he started commenting on her Instagram.

Someone asked her is she will be exited to be able to drive, she’s so exited about being able to drive and have a car….well she turned 17 over 8 months ago why hasn’t she passed her test yet and have a car with all the money she has made already. Creepy doesn’t have any problem splashing the cash on any old motor when it’s for himself! Why not trade in that black rust bucket for a small car for Izzy not like she hasn’t worked for it rather than buying yet another bloody VAN!


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Has she been completely brainwashed that she’s forgotten she has another brother.

Creepy and Lazy should be utterly ashamed of themselves the way Izzy’s life is turning out!!! They’ve pimped her out to the internet from the age of 10-11 years old every aspect of her life monetised. Look what she has to show for it no education, no friends, no social life, no part time job, no hobbies. She can barley string a sentence together without covering her mouth.

Far cry from the bright bubbly caring girl she was when they started who was excited about dance, school and going to sleepovers with her friends who had ambitions to be a doctor. Now she’s just her mother’s parrot spouting all the same lies.
 
I understand wanting them to go to College but Uni is different, I have known people go to Uni to get a Degree only for them to never use it, they only went so they could say "I have a Degree" yet the job they have now has nothing to do with that Degree. They went to Uni only out of societal pressure. It is like the couples that get married even if they have both never wanted to but they only do it because people say they should or again, they feel pressure. It is the same with having kids, some people put no thought into it, they just do it because they think it is what is expected of them, the result being unhappy parents and children that soon find out they were never really wanted. I understand encouraging teenagers to do things, and they need as much support as possible but I would hate for them to feel pressure to do things just because everyone else is doing it. Obviously Isabelle's situation is different because she has no future at all if she can't break free from the life she has now and I am sad for her.
Absolutely agree with you @Starlight_100.
I'm a firm believer in adapting education to suit individual needs. I hate that my parents spent the amount of money they did on my tertiary education; stupid money that could have been invested for them to live comfortably today. Very few of my schoolfriends or uni friends ended up working in the field they qualified in.
My own son starts college this year in a course that I wish I could have taken when I was his age, in the arts, something I was never encouraged to do because of 'future career prospects.'
As a home educator, it grates on me that Lazy justifies their decisions by making out that mainstream education is evil; that education doesn't matter. They don't give those children any opportunities to enrich themselves, develop skills etc. Not everyone is academically enclined, but they dont seem to tailor education to any of the girls' individual needs. They are indoctrinated to believe that they are influencers and that this is an actual career option for them.🤷‍♀️
 
No wonder the comments were turned off on Izzy’s Q&A tonight!

As soon as she started talking about education that confirmed that she’s not going to be sitting any exams in the next couple of months. How sad they’ve been carrying the lie, quite pathetic really (the adults). I hope that the LA see that and step in now so the others have a fighting chance - unlikely but there is always a chance.

It’s sad that she’s sat there at 17 & clearly has no future aspirations or prospects. Alarming that she’s believes she needs to seek approval for things she should be fully in control of by the end of the year such as piercings and tattoos - seek their opinions but they should not be offering their approval before you do anything you want to do. I think respectfully she also needs to stop giving ‘advice’ and words of encouragement about not following the grain of what others are doing because she is so out of touch with reality now it’s frightening - well done Sarah & Chris. Izzy’s friends will be in education or coming to the end of their further education if they are slightly older than her - they won’t have time to do what they want during the day. They’ll be off finding jobs or off to Uni/further education & going through the next chapter of their lives. It’s going to be a sad reality when that hits her
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Her relationship with the boyfriend started around the time they returned from Norway then as the 3 months she mentioned was the most confident she was when trying to tell the lie her mother has spun.

Yet again there was that spiteful edge towards people who’s opinion she didn’t appreciate - you can be respectful even if you don’t agree with what’s been said. I expect those fans that got upset that she’s not planning to reveal any further info on the boyfriend are vulnerable & have struggled to grasp that decision. For people with certain conditions it’s really hard if you haven’t seen a visual of something. They need to remind their children that those who are a bit strange are the ones that are paying for them to doss around all day.
 
I have an observation. Whenever Sarah is away from Chris she genuinely looks happy. Weird.

99.99999% of the population (there’s bound to be the odd person who wouldn’t) would be happy to be away from twit in a hat big spoilt brat!!
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I think respectfully she also needs to stop giving ‘advice’ and words of encouragement about not following the grain of what others are doing because she is so out of touch with reality now it’s frightening.

Yet again there was that spiteful edge towards people who’s opinion she didn’t appreciate - you can be respectful even if you don’t agree with what’s been said. I expect those fans that got upset that she’s not planning to reveal any further info on the boyfriend are vulnerable & have struggled to grasp that decision. For people with certain conditions it’s really hard if you haven’t seen a visual of something. They need to remind their children that those who are a bit strange are the ones that are paying for them to doss around all day.

The LEA absolutely must sort this out, for the other children. Sarah and Chris are NOT equipped to be educating anyone, that’s clear from the email he sent to planning last week. The spelling and grammar were awful. People here are fined for their children missing education even when ill these children have missed years without any action. The LEA popping up every now and then asking for paperwork is pointless with these types of people. They just won’t do it. It’s all about ‘holidays’ and what twit in a hat big spoilt brat wants.

She definitely needs to stop with any advice/encouragement. She’s absolutely zero life experience outside of the cult like existence of The Ingham Family and their constant bragging and holidays whilst most people struggle to meet essentials and can’t even manage one break.

Her entire life has been put online for monetary gain with nothing off limits. To suddenly change that is going to be very difficult for ‘fans’ the non vulnerable ones have long since abandoned them for other more interesting vlogs. People are going to expect more information about him. Of course she has the right to privacy but being spiteful just means you lose the viewers you have. She’s got no money to boost her views, assuming Chris won’t do it for her.
 
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No wonder the comments were turned off on Izzy’s Q&A tonight!

As soon as she started talking about education that confirmed that she’s not going to be sitting any exams in the next couple of months. How sad they’ve been carrying the lie, quite pathetic really (the adults). I hope that the LA see that and step in now so the others have a fighting chance - unlikely but there is always a chance.

It’s sad that she’s sat there at 17 & clearly has no future aspirations or prospects. Alarming that she’s believes she needs to seek approval for things she should be fully in control of by the end of the year such as piercings and tattoos - seek their opinions but they should not be offering their approval before you do anything you want to do. I think respectfully she also needs to stop giving ‘advice’ and words of encouragement about not following the grain of what others are doing because she is so out of touch with reality now it’s frightening - well done Sarah & Chris. Izzy’s friends will be in education or coming to the end of their further education if they are slightly older than her - they won’t have time to do what they want during the day. They’ll be off finding jobs or off to Uni/further education & going through the next chapter of their lives. It’s going to be a sad reality when that hits her
:(

Her relationship with the boyfriend started around the time they returned from Norway then as the 3 months she mentioned was the most confident she was when trying to tell the lie her mother has spun.

Yet again there was that spiteful edge towards people who’s opinion she didn’t appreciate - you can be respectful even if you don’t agree with what’s been said. I expect those fans that got upset that she’s not planning to reveal any further info on the boyfriend are vulnerable & have struggled to grasp that decision. For people with certain conditions it’s really hard if you haven’t seen a visual of something. They need to remind their children that those who are a bit strange are the ones that are paying for them to doss around all day.

The fact she is wanting approval just shows how they have stunted her emotional development. Teenagers are largely meant to rebel, try and discover themselves not seek approval. It’s sad she is so limited in her options, the little kids are not her responsibility no matter if she feels she needs to stay around and mind them. She needs to focus on the future, 5 years down the line where does she want to be? I wish she would demand her cut off the money and seek a place to rent but I think Izzy’s just sadly accepted things as they are. I would love it if one day she announced she’d been doing an online course, passed with flying colours and was moving out of mucky mansion but sadly I think it’s too late.
 
Her entire life has been put online for monetary gain with nothing off limits. To suddenly change that is going to be very difficult for ‘fans’ the non vulnerable ones have long since abandoned them for other more interesting vlogs. People are going to expect more information about him. Of course she has the right to privacy but being spiteful just means you lose the viewers you have. She’s got no money to boost her views, assuming Chris won’t do it for her.
Exactly this - they continue to put very personal stuff about the kids lives online so of course people will question things like the hidden boyfriend, why would they not. They had no reason at all the even mention him if it was all going to be kept hush hush. If she’s going to continue going on these lengthy trips away though, realistically it won’t last long term.

Anyone in a relationship in their late teens/early 20s is going to want to be with their partners as much as they can & it’s such an unfair thing to put on him to expect to put up with that as well.

It would be inappropriate for him to be in the motorhome with them all especially with the middle two girls. The caravan they could get away with as they’ve said they can add one or two bedroom annexes into the awning area so at least they have their own space. They won’t have any alone time either. I can’t see them paying for them to have a hotel room together if they do package holidays & then there is the issue of keeping him top secret behind the scenes that just would not work!
 
LEA = Local Education Authority, in charge of ensuring children get an education, either in a school setting or at home. Sadly children fall through the cracks and the LEA responsible for these children should hang their heads in shame.
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