The Grimwades #10 Baby number 8 is on the way

I don’t really know much about these football academys but now that Heze is accepted into England’s under 15’s does that will guarantee he’ll be pro and make it or does it mean he still might not because of how only a small percentage make it pro? Ella and Tim are only excited because they’re thinking of the money and fame that comes with being a footballer and that’s all they want is to live off of their son the same way they life off their kids now but even more so because of the money a professional footballer would be making which Tim is so desperate and greedy for.

Something I don’t like is how Ella and Tim but mainly Tim takes credit for everything Heze achieves and works for. It’s always “ We worked for this” , “ We did this son” , “We achieved this together son” and I can tell Tim was the one who shared that post of himself on Heze’s insta stories yesterday with the caption about himself something like “Forever making this happen for me” can’t remember exact wording but basically Tim was taking credit for what Heze achieves which isn’t surprising because he always does.

The only people who deserve any credit are Heze and Heze’s coaches because Tim doesn’t do anything and he’s not a supportive parent who makes the time to take their kid to training and cheer them on because they are happy for their child who is doing something they enjoy but would still be just as happy for their child if their child didn’t want to play football anymore or didn’t make it professional the parent wouldn’t be upset or disappointed with their child because they wouldn’t be putting that expectation/pressure on their child but Tim he’s not a supportive parent like that he’s just a selfish controlling parent who pressures his kids daily in such an unhealthy and toxic way that those kids have no choice but to put pressure on themselves to please him and compete with each other which has caused unhealthy toxic relationships between the kids and there’s always tension and bullying between them.

Heze has a huge ego and I know he’s just a kid so I know he only has that huge ego because of his parents and people around him feeding his ego everyday but his ego makes him so unlikable he reminds me of Tim so full of himself and you can tell Heze thinks he’s better than everyone and thinks he’s better than his siblings but I can’t blame him for thinking that because his parents treat him like the golden child and they tell his siblings they need to be just like Heze and they don’t let those kids be their own person with their own lives and interests. The kids have become so greedy and materialistic but mainly Heze the amount of clothes and shoes he gets because of the Nike contract he is constantly going to get to new stuff he doesn’t need and it’s so greedy and sad to see a kid expect all these things and wanting to show off all the time but it’s no surprise when his parents are greedy so of course he’s going to act the same way. They’re making their kids so egotistical, rude and entitled and it’s such a shame because these kids are victims and their parents are turning them into very unlikeable people.
 
Saw an advert for that show that Harper and Reu do on Milkshake. The producers of that show are seriously failing in their safeguarding duties...
 
I don’t really know much about these football academys but now that Heze is accepted into England’s under 15’s does that will guarantee he’ll be pro and make it or does it mean he still might not because of how only a small percentage make it pro? Ella and Tim are only excited because they’re thinking of the money and fame that comes with being a footballer and that’s all they want is to live off of their son the same way they life off their kids now but even more so because of the money a professional footballer would be making which Tim is so desperate and greedy for.

Something I don’t like is how Ella and Tim but mainly Tim takes credit for everything Heze achieves and works for. It’s always “ We worked for this” , “ We did this son” , “We achieved this together son” and I can tell Tim was the one who shared that post of himself on Heze’s insta stories yesterday with the caption about himself something like “Forever making this happen for me” can’t remember exact wording but basically Tim was taking credit for what Heze achieves which isn’t surprising because he always does.

The only people who deserve any credit are Heze and Heze’s coaches because Tim doesn’t do anything and he’s not a supportive parent who makes the time to take their kid to training and cheer them on because they are happy for their child who is doing something they enjoy but would still be just as happy for their child if their child didn’t want to play football anymore or didn’t make it professional the parent wouldn’t be upset or disappointed with their child because they wouldn’t be putting that expectation/pressure on their child but Tim he’s not a supportive parent like that he’s just a selfish controlling parent who pressures his kids daily in such an unhealthy and toxic way that those kids have no choice but to put pressure on themselves to please him and compete with each other which has caused unhealthy toxic relationships between the kids and there’s always tension and bullying between them.

Heze has a huge ego and I know he’s just a kid so I know he only has that huge ego because of his parents and people around him feeding his ego everyday but his ego makes him so unlikable he reminds me of Tim so full of himself and you can tell Heze thinks he’s better than everyone and thinks he’s better than his siblings but I can’t blame him for thinking that because his parents treat him like the golden child and they tell his siblings they need to be just like Heze and they don’t let those kids be their own person with their own lives and interests. The kids have become so greedy and materialistic but mainly Heze the amount of clothes and shoes he gets because of the Nike contract he is constantly going to get to new stuff he doesn’t need and it’s so greedy and sad to see a kid expect all these things and wanting to show off all the time but it’s no surprise when his parents are greedy so of course he’s going to act the same way. They’re making their kids so egotistical, rude and entitled and it’s such a shame because these kids are victims and their parents are turning them into very unlikeable people.
He has Apple headphones which are £500 the other kids don’t have any just heze. Again so wrong. No to get in the England teams they pick one or two kids from each of many of the premier league academy’s. This doesn’t mean he will be pro at all. He’s just lucky he lives in London to get to be in a premier league academy that has more opportunity’s but it doesn’t mean anything that he will be a pro at all
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He’s just a kid in an academy and there are many of them. It Tim that’s using heze social media posting as hik to try and advertise him to the world. That’s exploitation and pimping your own kids for money for yourself. It still even says page managed by Tim and heze is 14. Tim is a controlling abusive idiot
 
I think part of Tim’s plan with Heze to give him the edge over other suitably capable players in the academy when it comes to resigning…is to use social media to add to his appeal. With Heze, they aren’t just getting a footballer, they are getting a kid who is capable on camera, able to be trained to be media-savvy, looks good in a photo etc, has some tv experience. Imagine if they ever got him a tv advert or bus stop posters for Nike…I expect that is the type of thing Tim is aiming for…get his face well-known. That way, a club may even chose him over a better player because he brings media exposure or fans or sponsors to a club.

Most of the footballers I’ve heard of are ones who have a profile off the pitch to make them memorable, such as Beckham or Rashford…those players are worth money to advertisers and therefore clubs before they even kick a ball.

Tim’s other tactic is pushing the kids to play above their age. That means that if they fall behind they aren’t necessarily out of the academy…just pushed back to their age group…buying him more time to find other tactics to keep them in.
 
He has Apple headphones which are £500 the other kids don’t have any just heze. Again so wrong. No to get in the England teams they pick one or two kids from each of many of the premier league academy’s. This doesn’t mean he will be pro at all. He’s just lucky he lives in London to get to be in a premier league academy that has more opportunity’s but it doesn’t mean anything that he will be a pro at all
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He’s just a kid in an academy and there are many of them. It Tim that’s using heze social media posting as hik to try and advertise him to the world. That’s exploitation and pimping your own kids for money for yourself. It still even says page managed by Tim and heze is 14. Tim is a controlling abusive idiot
I appreciate you replying and explaining how it works because the way they’re posting about it and going on and on you would think he was just signed to the England team. They have given Heze the biggest ego and god knows what will happen to his mental health if he doesn’t make it pro because they’ve convinced him he will and him and Tim are so full of themselves but like you explained just cause he’s in this academy it doesn’t mean he will be pro at all. There’s a lot of talented kids in these academies it’s very competitive and I wonder what will happen if Tim’s dream he’s living through Heze doesn’t come true. Supporting your child in something they enjoy is one thing but they don’t encourage their kids to have other options in life , different hobbies and an education to fall back on to explore different careers they could be good at. I know Heze is in school but Tim is always trying to get Heze to hate school and only care about football. They are such bad parents I’ll never understand how more people don’t see through them.

You’re right Tim uses social media to advertise Heze to the world and it’s 1000% exploitation and pimping his own kids for money for himself it’s absolutely disgusting and the fact him and other parents get away with doing that online these influencer parents are terrible selfish people. Tim posting things on Heze’s story and controlling his social media giving himself compliments and dedicating posts to himself makes me cringe and is one of the many reasons I can’t stand Tim.
 
Haze is still so small for his age. The girls are passing him right up. I don’t think I can make it through this pregnancy. Ella is so needy for attention and always speaking about being sick. Halle was waiting on her hand and foot. She said to Halle oh you didn’t realize you were supposed to make me toast? Halle looked surprised, all while Tim is just sitting there putting hands up behind her head like she’s not posting a talk video. Smh
 
I can’t help even thinking that heze was picked for the u15 England through Tim and his contacts at Chelsea. Like whenever Tim posts a story on Instagram he will say they winning two goals both done by hosanna or reu etc like his kids are the only good ones and he looks all smug as he says it. He’s a horrible horrible person. R.E.M. here only goes to sch as he has to the parents didn’t want to send him at all
 
More free clothes for the girls whom say thanks to heze and uncle jack. Jack is just a man working at Nike. Really creepy how parents tell them to call everyone aunty and uncle. Surely those people are laughing behind their backs
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Also if the Nike deal is or heze why are the whole family allowed free clothes and shoes non stop. Very odd
 
So a 12 yr old has to make lunch for her siblings and clean up. What’s the parents do it’s disgusting and all Ella does is moan. This is not a one off we can see this is most likely on a daily basis.
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It’s ella and Tim’s job to do things not the girls. And as I’ve said before the girls have no belongings at all in their room. Their life is so not normal and it’s Ella and Tim’s fault. They are isolated physically and materialisticly it’s very sad and they don’t even know as they are trained. Harper playing 4 and a half hrs non stop. Even adults don’t do that Tim is an abuser
 
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When Tim posts his kids he’s not posting them with love he’s posting them as a job to get views and money and go viral
For sure... every post is carefully thought out and marketed. He knows how to use his children for his own gain, that's for sure. Expect more posts on Instagram and tiktok because of the holiday season and trying to make money for that. They are part of a managing company, which is where I'm sure they are getting these ideas.
 
The latest event is funny. You would have thought the kids would love it but tbh it’s not a world of bears and toys they know about at all
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Ella dropped in that she pregnant when in the chair and it wasn’t relevant at that point reallt then she admitted she wanted the chair. Hint hint for free. Well buy something then they buy nothing at all. She will ask the lady for it by email I know it as she had said at the start when they arrived if there was something she liked to email her.
 
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I watched one of their tiktok videos and read the comments (more of the same like on youtube. not worth reading) and now they won't go away! :confused: I've seen like five of them today! I thought I had gotten rid of them on tiktok. Are they posting more like I said they would with the Holidays coming up?
 
Are those kids just kept in that house making videos all day? Then the oldest boy is allowed some sort of day release by going to play football.
These lot have really been featuring in my feeds recently, not sure why as I have never followed or interacted with their posts.

Tim is toxic as helllllllllllllll, I have this hunch that in a few years there will be some weirdness come out about him and Ella. Those children are worked to the bone :(
 
Are those kids just kept in that house making videos all day? Then the oldest boy is allowed some sort of day release by going to play football.
These lot have really been featuring in my feeds recently, not sure why as I have never followed or interacted with their posts.

Tim is toxic as helllllllllllllll, I have this hunch that in a few years there will be some weirdness come out about him and Ella. Those children are worked to the bone :(
Soon one post gets a lot of views he’s on them to make more for money for him. I think so too in yrs things will come out about them. Their lip fetish on Carmex is vvv strange too. They are so abused if not more we don’t know about
 
Ella is such a fool duck Tim who the hell does he think he is. He doesn’t provide for his family or do duck all. They were gifted last yr tree by amazon i R.E.M. but as Tim doesn’t like it they can’t have it. Yet he won’t buy it or set it up he just critices. Ella is scared of him like when she though Marks were left on the table. Some mad comments on the post they must be deluded or fake saying how Tim provides for the family
 
What they post on their thumbnails isn’t content at all it’s so embarrassing. Girls get longest ponytails. Houston gets in a mood. Ella is tired. That kind of tit. They know they have no content even thou they shou have 7 kids and that but as all they do is football and they have all had their own minds ripped from them they have nothing at all
 
lol people are calling them out for being fake and not interesting. The only thing I have to say about that is they've always been like that! Some of their fans, like the people who've been around for a while and for sure are big fans of theirs, even seem to be turned off a little... like they are seeing what we've BEEN saying. My guess is the more people see, with them posting longer and more often like on tiktok, that their original fans aren't liking what they are seeing. Some of them seem like they are upset the kids aren't as well-behaved and well mannered as the old videos suggested. Some are saying they miss those types of videos and I think it's because those structured and more controlled videos made them seem like these kids were being raised different or 'better' and didn't fight, bicker, and be rude like those 'other' kids.

Also, they sure do listen and dance to a lot of music with curse words around young ears for a Christian family. And why do I keep seeing videos of Heze come across my tiktok of him throwing up gang signs, playing with his hair, and biting his freaking lip?
 
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