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Bk2021 said:
Hope Charlie isn’t making Oli feel guilty and low for being away at his job, she openly talks about how much she struggles when he’s gone for even a few hours so feel she’s putting that on him 🤔
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It just makes me think it can’t be that great a relationship if they can’t even manage a few days away from each other? They need to realise it’s healthy to not be in each other’s pocket 24/7.
 
All the bloody time 🙄
 

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No wonder oli is feeling down, charlie purposefully met up with a fling of Brett's. To achieve what exactly? Then Oli is away so he can't even talk the situation out with her. Charlie also adds the pressure of needing him so much. That boy will eventually explode and run off.
 
Gingercream said:
It just makes me think it can’t be that great a relationship if they can’t even manage a few days away from each other? They need to realise it’s healthy to not be in each other’s pocket 24/7.
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me and my partner have been together 4 years, he works away in england (were scotland) 5 days a week, hes only home at the weekend. we have a newborn baby (10 weeks old) and god i appreciate his company & help but I really do love my own company too. Always got to see the bigger picture sometimes
 
It’s almost as if she’s panicking if he’s gone too long, he’ll fall out of love and leave her, but I think half of that is that in the back of Charlie’s mind, you lose them how you got them. It’s heavily suspected she cheated on Brett even emotionally and with them saying they’ve been together 4 months.. the math is a bit off. She might just miss him, and it can come across as almost like black mail and desperate at times, but Charlie, you’ve got to of known this would’ve been a worry at the back of your mind. “If we aren’t together for 2 days that’s 2 days he could decide he’s bored and talk to someone else so I need to spam his notifs, do joint lives, fall asleep on facetime and heck i’ll send him a plush of me!!” .....

Maybe the panic is because... youve got a wandering eye yourself.
 
justheretonamedrop said:
It’s almost as if she’s panicking if he’s gone too long, he’ll fall out of love and leave her, but I think half of that is that in the back of Charlie’s mind, you lose them how you got them. It’s heavily suspected she cheated on Brett even emotionally and with them saying they’ve been together 4 months.. the math is a bit off. She might just miss him, and it can come across as almost like black mail and desperate at times, but Charlie, you’ve got to of known this would’ve been a worry at the back of your mind. “If we aren’t together for 2 days that’s 2 days he could decide he’s bored and talk to someone else so I need to spam his notifs, do joint lives, fall asleep on facetime and heck i’ll send him a plush of me!!” .....

Maybe the panic is because... youve got a wandering eye yourself.
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I agree. Charlie a bit of advice if you're so in love with Oli stop attracting the drama. Oli doesn't seem to be a fan of it. Keep communication with anyone who associates or has associated with Brett to a minimum. Only contact Brett in regards to Harlow and even at that it should be about pick ups and urgent matters. If you keep going how you're going he is going to dump you.
 
Charlie is getting more needy and more pathetic as the weeks go on, my partner works away, always has. He's offshore for 6-12 weeks at a time on a vessel and can be anywhere around the globe. Lucky if he gets a 3 week trip in uk waters! But guess what, I get on with it. I had my baby 24/7 when he was away, I deal with all the nursery stuff, work part time and currently applying for more full time roles now he's getting older, I speak to him regularly and we look forward to when he's back and can do family things together but it's his job, he earns good money and lucky to be employed at a time like this.

Charlie needs to look at the positives and realise how much of a turn off being needy and clingy is, show some independence and teach your daughter self worth and show her you don't need to rely on a man to be happy. I'd imagine olli missed her yes, but surely he should be busy and not have hours a day to waste speaking to her and posting love notes on insta 🤢
 
boredgal420 said:
Must be quite sad for Brett to see Ollie plastering his daughter all over social media all the time talking about family and stuff and ‘his girls’. I know he’s probably happy that he’s good with her but If it were me I couldn’t help but feel gutted every time I saw it
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i find it morally wrong that Oliver calls them ‘the family’. He’s been with Charlie 2 seconds which also seems to overlap during the time she was with Brett (which in itself is disgusting) but Oliver should maybe put himself in bretts shoes, I’m sure if the shoes was on the other foot he wouldn’t appreciate some stranger putting up posts like that. Charlie can say what she wants but she was wrong for introducing Oliver to Harlow so soon and I find it disgusting how they plaster happy families over SM! Charlie is clearly insecure that she can’t go a few days without feeling like the world is ending because Oliver is working, maybe if she got a job it would stop her over thinking! At the end of the day she cheated on Brett and is now worrying Oliver will do the same..usually in cases like that you find a relationship ends the way it started. Also anyone constantly posting happy relationship posts all the time are usually the ones who actually have a lot of issues with their relationships but they just want to make it look like everything is perfect and amazing on SM
 
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