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If they split 50/50 then brett will just be responsible for sorting childcare for Harlow while he's at work, Charlie doesn't work many hours at the moment but maybe she would work more if she could, I'm sure care work isn't really suitable around childcare hours, I know when I worked shifts nursery was a nightmare to sort. I had to find a full time Monday - Friday just so I could get my kid in childcare that was suitable for us compared to working part time doing shifts.
 
Girls like this begging for help of the kids dad all over sm do my head in why show the Man U can’t cope for him to use it against you and a lot of mums don’t have the kids dad to text asking for more help with the child some of us have no help at all of the kids dads. Why is it always the mums who have a baby daddy that cares slating them on sm normal single mums don’t moan about we carry on cos we mum and dad and proud of it n I’m not saying we don’t find it hard but u av to carry on for the sake of the child and for the sake of yourself
 
I would have nothing to say about her asking for help and more of a 50/50 split, IF

* she wasn’t planning to move away just a few weeks ago

* she hadn’t accused him of taking drugs in one breath and asked him to take Harlow in the next

* it wasn’t plastered over SM

I strongly suspect she is suffering with some kind of mental health illness because her behaviour seems to be unstable, but on the same hand Brett is acting like a teenage boy a lot at the moment, the best thing they could do is ask the health visitor how they can access a separated parents course, and then get some mental health help separately and sort themselves out for the sake of that innocent baby
 
I actually think she’s struggling and crying out for help but she doesn’t help herself when a few weeks ago she was saying she’s moving 300 miles away, calling her, Harlow and Oliver a “family”, I just think she’s starting to realise the grass isn’t always greener on the other side and she’s starting to crack now she’s realising. I hope she gets the help she needs, for not only hers, but Harlows sake too
 
She is an actual joke, or she would be if there wasn't an innocent child trapped in the middle of this mess.

She literally thinks she gets to call all the shots and Brett should jump as soon as she says, news flash Charlie, you can't manipulate him any more because he isn't sticking it in you love.

She was all fine when Brett seemed on the verge of a nervous breakdown and she was living the high life with Oli bobs, matching family PJS, weddings, 300 mile moves and fresh starts. Girl was well on rubbing all that in his face.

Now, now Brett seems to have actually cheered up a bit and be living his own life with his friends (whether or not we agree on what he's doing) and possible new relationship, well of course the tables have turned, Charlie isn't coping, he's a deadbeat dad, blah de blah de blah...

Girl is a beast and I feel for that poor child with her as a mother and any man who is unlucky enough to end up trapped with her.
 
ahh, I actually feel so sorry for Harlow, she has NO stability whatsoever and she must be so confused. Charlie and Brett are both as bad as one another, always point scoring, always doing immature tit that puts Harlow at risk (breaking covid rules etc) they both need to grow up, mental health issues or not the way they’re acting is only going to affect poor Harlow, she’s a baby she doesn’t understand and she needs stability in her life.
 
I really dont think this is Charlie being bored tbh. I think shes a cock but I sympathise here because I've recently been there. I left an abusive relationship with my 8 month old who didn't sleep for tit, I was constantly exhausted, emotionally drained, anxious, in despair really. I'd never post tit about her dad on SM but there was definitely times I texted him begging for help because I was at a loss. Not because I was bored or wanted a reaction or wanted to see my pals, I was just genuinely broken and didnt know whwre else to turn. I told my GP I couldn't cope with dealing with the break up and having no support around me and no sleep and constant feeding and the general stuff that comes along with being a parent. He offered counselling. When I said I couldn't do counselling because I'm never away from my kid and have no means to be he simply said "I can't really help you then" it's really not as simple as reaching out and getting more support. The support just isnt there unless you're a danger to yourself and in turn/or your child, which lets be honest, Charlie isnt. I think shes probably just feeling really low and heavy with responsibility.

Also not sure why people say Charlie barely ever has her kid. She might go to her friends sometimes or a childminder but it's not every day or even every week as far as we see. 🤷‍♀️ and shes not "lucky" that brett is involved with Harlow. That's not luck. It's a dad doing what a dad should do - the very bare minimum, really.
 
Charlie just can’t expect Brett to suddenly stop working as much to have Harlow and also moan he doesn’t pay for Harlow?🙃 I mean most mums have the child sun night-thursday night then dads usually have them weekend sort of thing. She’s not happy that Brett is going out on a night and is having fun with his friends. Let’s be honest if Harlow was with Brett for a few nights a week she’d be doing the same! There’s no doubt she’s single and is heartbroken so is taking it out on Brett. Funny that two weeks ago she was moving 300 miles away with Harlow, being on her own every day with her. To now not coping🤷🏼‍♀️

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I really dont think this is Charlie being bored tbh. I think shes a cock but I sympathise here because I've recently been there. I left an abusive relationship with my 8 month old who didn't sleep for tit, I was constantly exhausted, emotionally drained, anxious, in despair really. I'd never post tit about her dad on SM but there was definitely times I texted him begging for help because I was at a loss. Not because I was bored or wanted a reaction or wanted to see my pals, I was just genuinely broken and didnt know whwre else to turn. I told my GP I couldn't cope with dealing with the break up and having no support around me and no sleep and constant feeding and the general stuff that comes along with being a parent. He offered counselling. When I said I couldn't do counselling because I'm never away from my kid and have no means to be he simply said "I can't really help you then" it's really not as simple as reaching out and getting more support. The support just isnt there unless you're a danger to yourself and in turn/or your child, which lets be honest, Charlie isnt. I think shes probably just feeling really low and heavy with responsibility.

Also not sure why people say Charlie barely ever has her kid. She might go to her friends sometimes or a childminder but it's not every day or even every week as far as we see. 🤷‍♀️ and shes not "lucky" that brett is involved with Harlow. That's not luck. It's a dad doing what a dad should do - the very bare minimum, really.
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I mean I wouldn’t say he does the bare minimum. He works Monday-Friday, has her for tea one or twice and week then every other weekend. I think that’s pretty fair. I just think they need to stop taking everything to sm it’s embarrassing
 
I don’t understand why dads that stick around are applauded. Why is it up to the mums to be the parent 80% of the time? And then they criticised for asking for help? Maybe Charlie wants Brett to help 50/50 so that she can actually work, as care jobs require difficult hours that she can’t get childcare for and even if she could, it would basically be her entire wage. Brett has Harlow 29/168 hours a week and you guys think that’s enough? Why does he get a social life where he can get drunk, go out partying with friends, have a work life etc while she has to look after the child they both made together.
 
I mean I wouldn’t say he does the bare minimum. He works Monday-Friday, has her for tea one or twice and week then every other weekend. I think that’s pretty fair. I just think they need to stop taking everything to sm it’s embarrassing
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TBF, Mothers are expected to work full time and have their children 6 nights per week. Dads work full time and have their child one night per week and are considered superdad. If she asks for help, he 100% should be helping, instead of driving like a prick with his chavvy mates. I feel so sorry for poor Harlow! I work 6 days a week and my daughter only goes to her dads on alternate weekends, it’s hard being a single parent. Its even harder to try and work as a single parent... Charlie, suck it up and stop posting tit on SM. She should work her arse off, stop asking Brett for stuff and the pride she will feel would be totally worth it
 
I agree 50/50 would be fair but I don’t think it’s fair to say she can’t work because she has Harlow. The government literally pay 80% of childcare, she can work part time and be just as well off as if she worked full time. If care doesn’t accommodate the childcare, find a different job like the majority of us have to do. It’s tough but it’s just what you need to do. She says she feels like she never gets a break? She has at least 1 whole night every single week (Jane) every other weekend she has to herself and Brett has her a few hours twice a week. It could, and should, be more however that’s more than a lot of people I know get to themselves. I’m not dismissing the fact she may have issues, I do too, but get help or get on with it. Keep it off social media and deal with the issue.
I think, as another poster said this is likely because Brett has been posting about his life online and she’s jealous. Let’s not forget when Brett had Harlow she was off out too but now she’s with Oli her time is spent with him. That’s not bretts fault. Brett has his flaws for sure and I don’t agree with a lot of what he does but he does work full time as well as has Harlow. She has it better than a lot of single mums whether that’s right or wrong she’s complaining yet again about what she doesn’t have rather than appreciating what she does.
 
Lol she does realise if he has H 50% she’ll loose some CSA money and they go on how many hours dad/mum has the kid.
I don’t feel sorry for her, good job she ain’t 300 miles away and feeling like this Cus trust me, it’s a lonely world when you’re new to a patch and a notorious head. I mean not being in the Brett Carter fan club but Charlie needs to remember he does long days, remember in the episode where he said “I’ve been up since 5am Charlie” not excusing him as I do feel he should have her more. But she’s literally jumped down his throat and took whatever he said the wrong way (which she won’t show us lol) Cus she’s having a bad day. Also what’s this about Brett and drugs? Why would she want someone who does drugs round her daughter? Just show how much she cares.
My son acts so much different when his dad is home then goes away again, so I can imagine that’s having an affect on Harlow. And the fact she has no stability. I still think Jane should have Harlow full time lol. Only good person in her life is Jane.

Also love how she mentioned about “you pay for your child” I can imagine the first thing she done was demand money from Brett for Harlow. Mrs money bags and all that🤣🤣🐸
 
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How very dare Charlie. She acts like she’s mum of the year. Let’s not point the finger just at Brett we have screenshots of you too. And to call Brett a tit dad? Bottom barrel and disgusting. Brett does his bit and there’s only so much he can do. There are some children who have never had a relationship with their dad let alone receive money from them. Be grateful for what you have and learn how to deal with it. Just because things don’t go your way doesn’t mean you can bring Brett down. Let’s not forget she threatened to take their child away. She needs to stop demanding things and act like a person who has sense.
 
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How very dare Charlie. She acts like she’s mum of the year. Let’s not point the finger just at Brett we have screenshots of you too. And to call Brett a tit dad? Bottom barrel and disgusting. Brett does his bit and there’s only so much he can do. There are some children who have never had a relationship with their dad let alone receive money from them. Be grateful for what you have and learn how to deal with it. Just because things don’t go your way doesn’t mean you can bring Brett down. Let’s not forget she threatened to take their child away. She needs to stop demanding things and act like a person who has sense.
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She’s like a 2 year old throwing her toys out the pram. Stuck up and selfish girl. Then kicks off when it don’t go her way.
 
It scares me she’s responsible for a baby. I hate girls who throw tit dad comments out, like Charlie Brett has her twice a week and every other weekend and pays for her that’s more than normal. Girl needs to get a grip and stop being a tit mum and put her child first instead of herself and Oliver. Having a baby isn’t all about dressing up in cheap Spanish boutique clothes and pushing pink fluffy prams, it’s funny Harlow was sleeping so well amd was in a good routine when her and Brett were together he goes and she’s lost the plot and Harlow is unsettled and clearly feeling insecure
 
The thing that makes me laugh was she was perfectly okay with moving 300 miles away and having to have Harlow full time and Brett barely see her. Now that’s all gone tits up so can’t cope anymore and wants him to have her more. Fair enough if she’s struggling mentally I get that, I really do. But would you not go a way about it instead of bombarding him with texts and then posting to social media. If i were struggling that much I sure as hell would not bombard my ex with messages demanding him to have his child more. Just shows how childish she is, she can’t even have a grown up conversation and let alone not share it social media. It’s okay guys she’ll be going on another social media break soon because of her mental health🙃
 
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