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Don’t know if this has been mentioned but Laura’s mum in Morgan’s recent tiktok
 

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Trace said:
Charlie’s fb she said she felt like she was failing Harlow today and Harlow never wanted to leave her nans (Charlie’s mum) 😞 still can’t believe she’d want to take her from that
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My wee boy goes through phases of not wanting to come home from his grans. Or when I go to collect him he runs to her and doesn't let me near him. I think it's normal behaviour doesn't mean he doesn't love me or isn't happy at home. Just means he's secure and having fun at my parents house. I rely on them for childcare especially in my old job when I worked shifts and nursery didn't cover it.

Altho I do agree that it's awful Charlie wants to take her away from her extended family, but at the same time my parents moved across the country for my dads work and I didn't grow up near all my family so it's not uncommon, just a bit tit since Charlie and Oliver's relationship is so new and so volatile and Harlow will be away from her dad too.
 
Secret123 said:
Just seen on teen mom page, that charie didn't get anything for mothers day, regardless on your feeling s towards the other parent I think brett should have got a card ect from Harlow and vice versa for father's day!
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i see where your coming from, but from bretts perspective i can imagine he wouldn’t want to buy charlie anything out of his money when she’s threatening to take their child 300 miles away to live with a boy harlow hardly knows
 
loominlucly said:
i see where your coming from, but from bretts perspective i can imagine he wouldn’t want to buy charlie anything out of his money when she’s threatening to take their child 300 miles away to live with a boy harlow hardly knows
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There is that situation, but regardless she is Harlows mothers i think it would have been nice for Harlow to choose a card ect and learn her from young all the pettiness and drama that they have is put it to side for Harlow sake. I know if me and my partner ever split up id deffo still get him stuff from our children from them.
 
Georgethecat said:
My wee boy goes through phases of not wanting to come home from his grans. Or when I go to collect him he runs to her and doesn't let me near him. I think it's normal behaviour doesn't mean he doesn't love me or isn't happy at home. Just means he's secure and having fun at my parents house. I rely on them for childcare especially in my old job when I worked shifts and nursery didn't cover it.

Altho I do agree that it's awful Charlie wants to take her away from her extended family, but at the same time my parents moved across the country for my dads work and I didn't grow up near all my family so it's not uncommon, just a bit tit since Charlie and Oliver's relationship is so new and so volatile and Harlow will be away from her dad too.
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For sure my children are the same I just mean it’s just such a sad situation Harlow has such a good relationship with people up here there really isn’t any need to move her away for a boy just so she can see them everyday it’s for the wrong reason.
 
Trace said:
For sure my children are the same I just mean it’s just such a sad situation Harlow has such a good relationship with people up here there really isn’t any need to move her away for a boy just so she can see them everyday it’s for the wrong reason.
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Yes totally, especially since Oliver could be deployed for months on end and Charlie will be down there on her own and missing her family. Doesn't make sense for her to move so quickly, definitely shouldn't be rushing to leave her support network for a boy who she's been with a few months and broken up with multiple times. My partner works away for weeks/ months at a time offshore - it's even longer now since they have to quarantine on the way there and now back. I would be lost without my family for support while he's gone and I also quite like the time to myself as well😂 Charlie needs to learn to just chill for a bit and enjoy her own company.
 
Secret123 said:
Just seen on teen mom page, that charie didn't get anything for mothers day, regardless on your feeling s towards the other parent I think brett should have got a card ect from Harlow and vice versa for father's day!
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I wouldn’t get her tit either . She’s trying to take his kid away from him. Oliver’s “step-daddy” it’s his job to get her something from harlow Brett has zero obligations to do so. I don’t feel sorry for her in the slightest

Thelife&times said:
I’m a bit shocked to be fair at these comments about the twins.

I’m fully expecting you to come at me full force for sticking up for them, but those kids (however they may look) aren’t being asked to be put on SM for the world to judge, whatever you think of the parents/grandparents.
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it was too far going about the twins that’s not fair. Also can I please point something out.

Stop throwing the whole council house tit at Her. It pisses me off people feel the need to bring it up it’s a house regardless of weather it’s from the council or it’s privately let. I live in a council house that doesn’t make me a crappy person, doesn’t make me a Chav or lazy or a tit parent.

I just can’t get a private property as I currently can’t work due to mental health (lost my job because of it) and a physical issue. so no private landlord will take me plus it’s a lot better letting via council as they have to repair the stuff that’s broken within a certain timeframe. Private landlords mostly and in my experience from my old flat won’t do the repairs in a decent time left with me a broken cooker for a month and half (was already there when I moved was a partly furnished flat).

but yeah don’t bang on about the council house tit its Stupid and kinda insulting to a lot of people who live in a council house not all of us are dirty scruffs and lazy.

however I will say, to say she doesn’t work she doesn’t have an excuse for the house to be dirty like come on it’s harder with one child because they don’t have another child to entertain them or keep them occupied. Twins they play together so they don’t really notice you’ve gone for 5 minutes. Even then you can clean during the night and while they eat breakfast you can do the hoovering and then stick them in the living room with a baby gate on and mop the kitchen quickly. I manage to do it. The only thing I that struggle keeping on top of is clothes but that isn’t much of a issue for me because my child has a ridiculous amount of clothes I just try choose a day to get most of the washing done.
 
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I don't think Brett should have to get anything now , she I was separated my ex didn't . 🤷‍♀️ As soon as I got a serious boyfriend he got me something . I would of thought Oliver was serious with her considering she's dragging Harlow half way across the country for him lol just goes to show he's not bothered 🤣
 
Georgethecat said:
Yes totally, especially since Oliver could be deployed for months on end and Charlie will be down there on her own and missing her family. Doesn't make sense for her to move so quickly, definitely shouldn't be rushing to leave her support network for a boy who she's been with a few months and broken up with multiple times. My partner works away for weeks/ months at a time offshore - it's even longer now since they have to quarantine on the way there and now back. I would be lost without my family for support while he's gone and I also quite like the time to myself as well😂 Charlie needs to learn to just chill for a bit and enjoy her own company.
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She said on her live the other day she will still be coming up which got me thinking will she be staying with family/friends each time if and when Oliver gets deployed she can’t be on her own at the moment and she has family and friends up here let alone when she’s stuck down there with not knowing anyone and she’s on her own with Harlow. Oliver doesn’t seem to have many friends and the friends he does have told him to run on Charlie’s live when all that tit was going on with Charlie and Brett
 
Trace said:
She said on her live the other day she will still be coming up which got me thinking will she be staying with family/friends each time if and when Oliver gets deployed she can’t be on her own at the moment and she has family and friends up here let alone when she’s stuck down there with not knowing anyone and she’s on her own with Harlow. Oliver doesn’t seem to have many friends and the friends he does have told him to run on Charlie’s live when all that tit was going on with Charlie and Brett
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It's so short sighted saying that as well, Harlow will start nursery next year, then school , so she won't just be able to pop up and stay at her mums when she wants. She will struggle to find a job to fit around school hour and won't have anyone to pick up Harlow from the childminder like she does now. She definitely won't have the freedom she enjoys now with random nights off. Ooh did they? Guess Oliver's friends will be his navy colleagues now, they must have old school friends in common. Wonder what they are all saying about it in the group chats 😂
 
Secret123 said:
Just seen on teen mom page, that charie didn't get anything for mothers day, regardless on your feeling s towards the other parent I think brett should have got a card ect from Harlow and vice versa for father's day!
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Not sure why Oliver didn’t since he likes to play dad all the time? 🤣

Blondeangel2515 said:
Does anyone even know if they are still together or are they on annual leave with their relationship with all the exposure TMG gave them last week? 👀
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They’re still together. He commented on her posts on Facebook and stuff just think he is keeping a low profile.
 
Secret123 said:
Just seen on teen mom page, that charie didn't get anything for mothers day, regardless on your feeling s towards the other parent I think brett should have got a card ect from Harlow and vice versa for father's day!
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I suppose it’s slightly different because my child is in nursery so he made me a card and a small little laminated poem with his fingerprinted flowers but I literally stopped my husband dead in his tracks when he was about to go out to get me something with our son. I was more than happy with my homemade gifts and it was made special as my son helped with making me a brew and made me some toast and ran me a bath; would have this anyway over some crap bought from a supermarket!!
 
Thelife&times said:
I’m a bit shocked to be fair at these comments about the twins.

I’m fully expecting you to come at me full force for sticking up for them, but those kids (however they may look) aren’t being asked to be put on SM for the world to judge, whatever you think of the parents/grandparents.
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I agree. It’s not on, comment on her if you want too. But don’t bring two innocent little babies into it.
 
Gemini2020 said:
I don't think Brett should have to get anything now , she I was separated my ex didn't . 🤷‍♀️ As soon as I got a serious boyfriend he got me something . I would of thought Oliver was serious with her considering she's dragging Harlow half way across the country for him lol just goes to show he's not bothered 🤣
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Exactly this. I only know of ex’ getting the other parent anything if they ended on good terms and don’t have a new partner. Brett and Charlie didn’t end on good terms and don’t have a friendly relationship.

I also highly doubt she’d get him anything for Fathers Day.
 
Georgethecat said:
It's so short sighted saying that as well, Harlow will start nursery next year, then school , so she won't just be able to pop up and stay at her mums when she wants. She will struggle to find a job to fit around school hour and won't have anyone to pick up Harlow from the childminder like she does now. She definitely won't have the freedom she enjoys now with random nights off. Ooh did they? Guess Oliver's friends will be his navy colleagues now, they must have old school friends in common. Wonder what they are all saying about it in the group chats 😂
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😂 they will be ripping into him it’s what they do. Looked like lover boy didn’t even come over this weekend on Mother’s Day of all weekends. She has so much to loose if she makes the move and it doesn’t work out. Needing to be re housed new childcare/school to find another Job Oliver has to only move back into camp
 
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