Teen Mum Young and Pregnant UK #26

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LilToes said:
There’s probably more to this, did you see the message he sent her ‘your literally lying your sick in the head’...he obvs isn’t reacting like that for no reason, it seems as though she’s told him something and he’s trying to get through to her to discuss it (it could be something serious) and then she doesn’t answer and says she’s sorting H out instead 🤨 well that’s what I’m taking from that
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either way, that is not a normal reaction, that many calls is never a normal reaction
 
LilToes said:
There’s probably more to this, did you see the message he sent her ‘your literally lying your sick in the head’...he obvs isn’t reacting like that for no reason, it seems as though she’s told him something and he’s trying to get through to her to discuss it (it could be something serious) and then she doesn’t answer and says she’s sorting H out instead 🤨 well that’s what I’m taking from that
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I don’t think this is necessary the case at all although I do agree with you that’s it’s a possibility that that could be what it is.
However I think this is textbook how abuses speak to you. I have been in an abusive-controlling relationship and I would get these type of messages for not answering as I was driving somewhere, not answering as I was at the doctors/school, literally genuine normal things. Abusive people tend to also be paranoid.
 
LilToes said:
There’s probably more to this, did you see the message he sent her ‘your literally lying your sick in the head’...he obvs isn’t reacting like that for no reason, it seems as though she’s told him something and he’s trying to get through to her to discuss it (it could be something serious) and then she doesn’t answer and says she’s sorting H out instead 🤨 well that’s what I’m taking from that
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I wonder if that’s when she told him she’s pregnant 🤰🏻 and he didn’t believe her. Would explain the reaction from Oliver, most young lads tit their pants
 
WilmaHun said:
These two need their heads knocking together, might knock some sense into them. If it's this toxic, this early on, it will only get worse as the months go by. Moving near each other won't make a difference either.
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Absolutely not, it'll just mean Charlie is cut off from friends and family. She really needs to sort herself out, be a single mum for a while and get some boundaries. Put yourself first and don't introduce the next one to Harlow so fast and certainly don't get matching xmas pjs 2 weeks into a relationship when you've been split with your baby daddy the same amount of time. If she's struggling with her mental health then it's time to take a step back and decide what is actually best for you and your child.
 
ItsTeaTime2020 said:
Does anyone come from a military background and can say if there's any additional things needed to get married to a military man? Like being together for an amount of time before the marriage is deemed legit?

I hope so, if not she'll be bagging everything she can get her hands on
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No there’s nothing like that! Military wife here x
 
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LOOOOL SHE ADMITS ITS TOXIC BUT IS STILL GUNNA MARRY HIM

Also Charlie it’s you’re*
 
I’ve got mixed feelings about that screenshot... we know how toxic Charlie is, who knows what she had been saying or not saying to Oliver, why is wanting to phone and say goodnight a problem? Especially with a long distance relationship, me and my husband got together when he was in the army and we would always be on the phone and especially to say goodnight. Just feel like Charlie knows how to show what she wants to show and make her look the better person 🤷🏼‍♀️
 
Sunnydays2 said:
I’ve got mixed feelings about that screenshot... we know how toxic Charlie is, who knows what she had been saying or not saying to Oliver, why is wanting to phone and say goodnight a problem? Especially with a long distance relationship, me and my husband got together when he was in the army and we would always be on the phone and especially to say goodnight. Just feel like Charlie knows how to show what she wants to show and make her look the better person 🤷🏼‍♀️
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As much as I do agree with what you're saying here, we don't know the full story. What we do know from the very little we have seen is that it clearly IS a very toxic situation most probably on both sides. Charlie is not an angel but I think some of the messages in the very least raise serious questions about Saint Ollie and his intentions.

Why does he want Charlie and her 1 year old daughter to move to the other end of the country for HIM? Leave behind the very strong support network that Charlie frequently relies upon to help her raise Harlow (which is fine, it takes a village, as they say) to be stuck on her own with a child she often sometimes, from her own admission, struggles to cope with for hours or days on end with no one to turn to and no support network to fall back on.

The only thing Charlie stands to gain from it is physical closeness to Oliver is the girl really that desperate for a bit of dick. She has got a lot to lose and Harlow even more so. For a man she has been in a relationship with since the 8th December, literally 3 months?

I seriously hope Brett is on speed dial with a solicitor because for his faults, he seems a great dad who prioritises his daughters needs and wellbeing and right now he needs to go save her from this shitshow, fingers crossed Janes foot is up his arse RN.
 
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