Teen Mum UK #4

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Apart from the rug then I love Marley’s room.
Chloe and Jordan are deffo in the best position out of all the girls house wise and financial position wise.

If you had to change the couples about then who would you put with who? I would have Jordan with Amber as she is more easy going than Chloe and he is more laid back and less argumentative than Ste.

Can you imagine the state of Jordan & Amber’s house 😂
 
Why the hell has Megan put that post up saying sometimes mums have to do both roles Wtf your children have a dad they go to half the week! Grow up and take some responsibility for your children
Does seem odd as Dylan appears to be quite involved in their kids life..unless she is referring to her relative she is tagging?
 
I do agree that Emma wants Nasseh to do family things as opposed to take J for the day but if it came down to it (e.g. Nasseh got with someone else or point blank said no way we'll never be together) I don't personally think she would use Jeremiah as a weapon and I don't think her mum would allow that either. Her mum seems very stable and her bais is to Jeremiah, and it seems like Emma would be the type to respect what her mum says. Could be wrong, obviously, I just feel she was partly being genuine when she was saying he can't just swag out a baby and that.

But there's no way I'd be letting somebody I really barely know take my baby, father or not. Then again my kid's older than J and I've never been apart from her for more than literally 10 minutes (my choice) even though I'm with the father so maybe that's clouding my judgement of the situation. 😂

Agree, Emma doesn’t seem the type to keep a child away from its father.

I have a 5 year old, a 2 year old and a 3 month old and none of them have ever been away from me for any length of time either. No way should Emma feel like she has to give the baby over to Nasseh when he hardly sees him, he’s not proven he’s a good or even adequate father yet.

This is so nit picky but I wish Chloe would get rid of that stupid star rug in little ones room. Can’t be just me that thinks it looks like they cut up some spare bit of carpet that’s actually laid down in his room? Drives me nuts 🤣🤣

I had that rug in my son’s room a few years ago then I looked at it one day and thought what the duck am I doing with this rug and threw it out. It’s stupid and cheap. I think I bought it on a b&m spree.
 
MTV shows us a tiny bit of their lives. We don’t know what happens off camera and how often he does see them

At the end of the day he is the boys father and as long as there is no safeguarding risks he should be allowed to spend any time with him 1:1. She sits in the flat watching him Under he huge eyelashes and clearly doesn’t think he is a huge risk as if that was the case its likely she wouldn’t let him see the baby at all.
I’m sorry but I think if a child’s father wants to have a relationship with their child let them. Having said that it was a twatty comment saying he wanted to take the baby to a festival.
My point was that from what we know Nasseh by the end of series had only seen J every few weeks and people think being related to the kid and seeing him once or twice a month is enough to make him capable and trustworthy. It isn't. And if he really wanted to step up and be a dad, he'd be there turning up when he say he will, and regularly too. There could be a safeguarding risk - she doesn't really know the guy, and if you have kids you'll know you err on the side of caution! But regardless even if he doesn't pose an immediate risk to the kid, doesn't make him capable. Doesn't mean he's going to know how to prepare a feed and how to use a car seat properly, sterilise bottles, how to settle him when he's teething or relieve trapped wind. The everyday stuff that he won't know how to do if he's not there regularly taking part and doing it. Looking after a baby isn't just about keeping them alive.
 
My point was that from what we know Nasseh by the end of series had only seen J every few weeks and people think being related to the kid and seeing him once or twice a month is enough to make him capable and trustworthy. It isn't. And if he really wanted to step up and be a dad, he'd be there turning up when he say he will, and regularly too. There could be a safeguarding risk - she doesn't really know the guy, and if you have kids you'll know you err on the side of caution! But regardless even if he doesn't pose an immediate risk to the kid, doesn't make him capable. Doesn't mean he's going to know how to prepare a feed and how to use a car seat properly, sterilise bottles, how to settle him when he's teething or relieve trapped wind. The everyday stuff that he won't know how to do if he's not there regularly taking part and doing it. Looking after a baby isn't just about keeping them alive.
This. 👌🏻it would be completely irresponsible to leave someone you barely know (regardless of their blood connection) with a newborn baby
 
Also the commenters on that fan page can duck off too with their "Emma should let Nasseh take the baby she needs a break" it's up to Emma to decide if she needs a break not some random childless 15 year old on Instagram. Maybe Emma doesn't need or want a break from her baby.

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Edit: I'm not saying there's anything wrong with having a break I'm just saying there's nothing wrong with not "having a break" either. I constantly get told I "need a break" and it infuriates me.
 
Also the commenters on that fan page can duck off too with their "Emma should let Nasseh take the baby she needs a break" it's up to Emma to decide if she needs a break not some random childless 15 year old on Instagram. Maybe Emma doesn't need or want a break from her baby.

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Edit: I'm not saying there's anything wrong with having a break I'm just saying there's nothing wrong with not "having a break" either. I constantly get told I "need a break" and it infuriates me.
What page has this been said on?

I dont think Emma should let him have the baby on his own yet at all , we might only see
MTV shows us a tiny bit of their lives. We don’t know what happens off camera and how often he does see them

At the end of the day he is the boys father and as long as there is no safeguarding risks he should be allowed to spend any time with him 1:1. She sits in the flat watching him Under he huge eyelashes and clearly doesn’t think he is a huge risk as if that was the case its likely she wouldn’t let him see the baby at all.
I’m sorry but I think if a child’s father wants to have a relationship with their child let them. Having said that it was a twatty comment saying he wanted to take the baby to a festival.
Fair enough they only show a little bit of their lives but she was always saying how he come round like every 3 weeks or something and most episodes he did something to let them down. Nobody is saying he cant build a relationship with his child but he needs to gain that trust and put the effort in. I dont blame Emma at all and I would do the same if it meant ensuring my baby was safe.

Also who does Manley think he is seriously, such a good role model 🙄🙄
 
Jordan cheated because he is a CLOWN, if chloe didn’t want to have sex and he didn’t like that he should of left, sick of excuses been made for these horrible men and women who cheat
Absolutely agreed. You shouldn’t be forced into having sex you don’t want just so your boyfriend won’t cheat on you.
Jordan’s actions are inexcusable, there’s no reason for them, he’s just a selfish lazy wanker. If he wasn’t happy he should’ve left.
 
Not sure if it’s been discussed but Manley shared his snapchat and on it he’s basically just showing loads of weed and edibles 😬

Edit to add that he’s also doing balloons on it and there’s no sign of social distancing again
Darren, Sassi's man or ex is exactly the same however he's in Zenaya's life and seems to be a good dad. He was having his hair cut today.
 
Darren, Sassi's man or ex is exactly the same however he's in Zenaya's life and seems to be a good dad. He was having his hair cut today.
These bleeping ‘gangstas’ 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ With their covid conspiracy theories while high off weed.
actually I’ve been trying to kick start some weight loss (jogging and currently juice fasting) but these guys might be into something. Unemployed and weed keeps them skinny as duck... maybe time for a lifestyle change my end? 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
 
These bleeping ‘gangstas’ 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ With their covid conspiracy theories while high off weed.
actually I’ve been trying to kick start some weight loss (jogging and currently juice fasting) but these guys might be into something. Unemployed and weed keeps them skinny as duck... maybe time for a lifestyle change my end? 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

I do actually think it’s so sad. What’s going to happen to them in 10, 20 or 30 years’ time? They have nothing to show for their lives (except churning out future generations of scroungers). It’s such a waste.
 
Anybody notice this? 🤣🤣 I come here to see if it was posted first
 

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