Yeah totally agree I have a friend who is really loud but underneath it all she's so vulnerable and such a caring friend, I think women like that don't fulfil the 'nice quiet ladylike girl' stereotype so get misunderstood a lot.
I agree Sassi was a major grafter, when she used to take Zen'aya to nursery and get into Manchester for work for 7.30
most of the girls on this show don't work at all which I don't know how they get away with!
I respect that Chloe works and is wanting a career/ to get some qualifications.
The way that girls like Megan and Shannon live annoys me - I think they're both nice girls and I do like them don't get me wrong - but from what we can see they've never worked, have council houses and two kids, what makes you think you're entitled to that? I get that accidents happen etc but the second kid is so unreasonable and it just makes me think their aspirations and their aspirations for their kids are so low/ non existent.
Like I'm expecting my first and hoping to breastfeed and was thinking the other day (I'm rewatching old series) would I carry on breastfeeding as long as Shannon? Then realised I don't have a bloody choice as I'll be going back to work (part time) when the baby is 1!
I guess Amber comes into that category too as she doesn't seem to have worked for a long time but I have such a soft spot for her