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LilToes said:
Her story doesn’t make sense, there was obviously a reason why Dylan felt like he needed to take the children. And Billie is was commenting saying that the kids hate Ree, I don’t believe this at all. The kids look happy and well cared for from what I see on Rees Instagram when they are at her house
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No some men are just bitter and twisted and will do anything they can to control and put down the mother of the children. He knew those kids were not in any danger. He was thinking of himself. Because he treated her like crap then was surprised when she kicked off. Not saying Megan is mother of the year but I do know from what I’ve seen on the show that Dylan was intent on putting her down and making him and reanne look perfect and great. Guilt will do that to people. Reanne was just happy to go along with it because she was insanely jealous of Megan and very bitter about things too.
 
Going back to Dylan of course he has started his own business to avoid paying full CSA. I just hope that fucked it up for him claiming during the pandemic cos that was the downfall for a lot of fiddling dads 🤣
I know it costs more to live down south (plus flats are very common for council tenants) however if my husband and I had that many kids between us there’s no way we would be squeezed into a tiny flat. Especially when one of you has an income. Where’s your ambition to do better instead of seeing what you can be handed? Honestly the mentality of some people these days as sad AF. Stop fiddling and get your kids in a decent home 😤
 
obviously i don't agree with the megans boyfriend situation, but putting that aside for a second and focusing only on this 7 weeks thing, i do actually feel awful for megan...and i'm surprised it's not been talked about the conditions the kids were living in wherever reeane and dylan took them, no proper food, no clothes etc, kids screaming, i understand that megan had a BPD episode and did things she shouldn't have done but my god that must have been a heart breaking thing to go through
 
Why are people all "they shouldn't have kidnapped the kids for 7 weeks 😭"

She rammed her bleeping car into them as far as we know, and she hasn't addressed or denies that. You best believe if somebody knowingly rammed their car into the car our child was sat in, I'd be leaving the continent never mind removing them from their care for 7 weeks. It doesn't matter whether it's mental health. Somebody who will do that is NOT SAFE to care for children. And considering what her family and friends are like, I wouldnt be telling her where they were either!

If Sonny had hit that man a different way, he might be alive. If Megan had hit that car a different way, her kids might be dead.
 
Fishnips said:
Why are people all "they shouldn't have kidnapped the kids for 7 weeks 😭"

She rammed her bleeping car into them as far as we know, and she hasn't addressed or denies that. You best believe if somebody knowingly rammed their car into the car our child was sat in, I'd be leaving the continent never mind removing them from their care for 7 weeks. It doesn't matter whether it's mental health. Somebody who will do that is NOT SAFE to care for children. And considering what her family and friends are like, I wouldnt be telling her where they were either!

If Sonny had hit that man a different way, he might be alive. If Megan had hit that car a different way, her kids might be dead.
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for me it's more the way they went about it. If that's the situation, take the kids, but contact the court, do it through that, don't take them to some random house and ignore all her calls and texts
 
pandanine said:
for me it's more the way they went about it. If that's the situation, take the kids, but contact the court, do it through that, don't take them to some random house and ignore all her calls and texts
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I agree they should've kept in some form of contact and made her seek help but still. I'm also skeptical that the kids had no beds and were neglected in that time. Do we really think a 1 year old and 18ish month old slept on a floor for 5 and 7 weeks? And had no clothes? If you really believed somebody had neglected your child would you agree to contact in that court order there and then?
 
Tbh I don’t believe she did hit their car, pls don’t come for me 😂 I can imagine she’d hit Dylan (but I feel like she didn’t do that either) which is obviously also very wrong, but there’s just something telling me Megan didn’t do that to the car and wouldn’t do that especially with her kids there
 
Everyone assumes they know what did or didn’t go on during the seven weeks in terms of legalities, MH treatments, contact e.t.c. Also I find it very hard to believe that the kids basic needs weren’t been met in that time.

We don’t know what was going on or how they were handling things amongst themselves. There must have been some back and forth contact if Megan was able get Dulcie back from Dylan’s mum.

They are all so young even the grandparents are young and don’t seem to have much influence over the parenting or decisions. For kids to have a settled life they really need to be parented by someone with a level head. Megan needs to stop bringing her new fellas around the kids so soon and Dylan and Reanne clearly have a volatile relationship and that is not a good environment for little ones.

God love all the kids caught up in these cycles.
 
I am so baffled that people think Dylan shouldn’t have taken his kids away from a dangerous situation. If it had come out she had rammed the car and he handed the kids over everyone would be asking why. He kept the kids safe you’re saying it’s not fair on Megan 🤣🤣🤣 whattttt. Honestly if I had rammed my car into my kids dads car whilst they were in it THE LEAST he would do is take the kids from me til I sorted myself out
 
Sunnydays2 said:
Tbh I don’t believe she did hit their car, pls don’t come for me 😂 I can imagine she’d hit Dylan (but I feel like she didn’t do that either) which is obviously also very wrong, but there’s just something telling me Megan didn’t do that to the car and wouldn’t do that especially with her kids there
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i thought that until she didn’t address it, surely if everyone thought you’d hit a car with your children inside you’d want everyone to know that’s not true she really focused on ‘the kids have designer clothes’ when brought up she doesn’t dress them correctly but never addressed hitting them with a car? Like that’s the first thing I’d want clearing up
 
Can I just ask, if Megan had hit their car with them inside

1) why didn’t Rox-Ane say in all her allegations way back when. There was allegations that Megan turned up shouting at the house asking for her kids back (which would actually fit Megan’s narrative more than Ree’s)

2) would a court honestly give custody to a mother that had deliberately drove her car into her children???? They have a court order for visitation so surely this would have been considered
 
pandanine said:
obviously i don't agree with the megans boyfriend situation, but putting that aside for a second and focusing only on this 7 weeks thing, i do actually feel awful for megan...and i'm surprised it's not been talked about the conditions the kids were living in wherever reeane and dylan took them, no proper food, no clothes etc, kids screaming, i understand that megan had a BPD episode and did things she shouldn't have done but my god that must have been a heart breaking thing to go through
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Often people will kick those who are already down. Especially exes and their jealous new partners. I am not condoning what Megan did and I’m sure if it’s true, which we can’t be sure it is as reanne is a proven liar, I’m sure she regrets her behaviour. It was obviously not proven in court either. What she probably needed most right then was support and help. Being mentally ill and finding out the father of your babies has been cheating and has got with someone you knew is enough to tip anyone over the edge. In a lot of ways Megan and reanne are as bad as each other. They both need to move on with their lives and focus on their kids instead of all this childish crap.
 
I think she hit the car by accident as she was so stressed and put it in the wrong gear. But she didn’t then apologise massively and own it. If her children were standing on the pavement instead of in a car she could have accidentally ran them over.
Who has a bed for a baby and an 18 month old? You have cots? Or travel cots if you are in a temporary accommodation for 7 weeks.... I think they didn’t have proper cots, they had travel cots personally. Although we do know that all 3 of the children sleep in one bunk bed it is only every other weekend. It’s like a sleepover at a friends. Would be crazy to have real beds for all of them in a small flat.
I don’t think it was dirty etc as you get an arranged time for the social worker/Cafcass worker to visit so why would Dylan not have it clean?
The only thing I think is completely true and non-bias either way is that Dylan didn’t know how to look after the babies that great. Megan was their main career and I guess he was at work all day while ReeAne looked after these really small children who were only used to mum. I’m sure a lot of separated dads have to learn how to look after their kids after the separation as they leave it all to mum while they are together!
 
I am EMBARRASSED for Reeann and Meagan, probably more than they are. Both awful women with far too much time on their hands.
If I was Tayla I would be on right move, getting a work transfer and a change of identity so deep would be my shame.
All this started over Dylan-A greasy, unattractive druggy who won’t pay for his own children and cheats on his girlfriends. These women need to raise standards for themselves.
 
Until proven otherwise I think she hit the car (possibly due to her mentally struggling and I’m sure she regrets it) and Dylan and Ree have proof as it was mentioned it was filmed and if Megan denies that happened and they release a video of her doing it then all her stories true or false will look like lies, I can’t believe a mother wouldn’t address hitting a car with her children inside if it never happened but would address the kids clothing..
 
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