Teen Mom young & pregnant #41

how do they move on so quick???? like do they have a backlog of men just waiting to be the next one? how do you break up and find someone else so fast, esp when you already have 2 kids by 2 diff men?
Literally. Not than I plan on leaving my partner and child dad but I just don’t think I could ever move on that quickly. Because I’d obviously have a lot of feelings for him not only as an ex but as a father to my child and it’s not like a normal break up as they’ll always be in your life due your child so will be harder to move on?
 
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I’m sorry what? His girls? Last time I checked he wasn’t their dad. And how can he say “how fast has that gone” when he has only been around about a year of their lives hahahaha😂. “Not so small anymore” mate you didn’t even know them when they were small. Proper creepy behaviour 🤢
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Also the girls don’t look to have many presents bless them 😞
 
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I’m sorry what? His girls? Last time I checked he wasn’t their dad. And how can he say “how fast has that gone” when he has only been around about a year of their lives hahahaha😂. “Not so small anymore” mate you didn’t even know them when they were small. Proper creepy behaviour 🤢
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Also the girls don’t look to have many presents bless them 😞
Nothing wrong with only a few presents , I'm sure they're happy with what they've got. My kids don't get many, I would rather save my money days out etc or sometimes I can't afford it
 
We don’t see Charlotte splashing her cash on many luxuries. She’s moved into her own home now and the last we saw it didn’t even have flooring. To shame her for not buying the girls many presents is really really harsh. From her stories it looks like the girls have a nice selection of presents that have been laid out, a lovely cake with candles and balloons, that to me looks like she’s done a wonderful job
 
What do they spend their money on if they can’t afford flooring? Does Charlotte or her boyfriend not work? None of them drive either do they so not like they have car insurance etc to pay for. You can pay flooring off monthly from carpet shops and can even get cheap carpets from eBay, just don’t get how they haven’t got any flooring at all? Surely you would both be working to be able to afford it.. also didn’t they get a kitten not long ago or am I making that up? Haven’t seen it since tho
 
What do they spend their money on if they can’t afford flooring? Does Charlotte or her boyfriend not work? None of them drive either do they so not like they have car insurance etc to pay for. You can pay flooring off monthly from carpet shops and can even get cheap carpets from eBay, just don’t get how they haven’t got any flooring at all? Surely you would both be working to be able to afford it.. also didn’t they get a kitten not long ago or am I making that up? Haven’t seen it since tho


Surely you answered your own question there? They aren’t working so can’t afford it?
 
So they both don’t work? So then one of them should get a job and get carpet sorted or even better both of them can get jobs! Ridiculous if none of them are working!
Bro flooring is expensive you don’t know what her expenses look like she has rent,utilities,food,bus fair and 2 twins to look after financially. Flooring is often a luxury especially when you get a council house. My flooring costed me £7000 in my home even monthly that would cripple most people. We are in a cost of living crisis times are hard she’s isn’t flashing her cash on 40000 presents or designer gear she’s clearly just trying to love within her means
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I am not disputing they should look for work btw but for the argument based only on a young family affordability for flooring it’s rather aggravating for you to comment on someone else’s affordability
 
I’ve just got a 2 bed council house, I’m paying £1250 for flooring, which I think is cheap, but that’s not including the kitchen or bathroom. I also wouldn’t even be able to get flooring if it wasn’t for my parents paying for it and me paying them back monthly. I struggled to get it monthly through any shops because I don’t have a job (I have a baby). I’m not sure how they’re getting away with not working?
 
Bro flooring is expensive you don’t know what her expenses look like she has rent,utilities,food,bus fair and 2 twins to look after financially. Flooring is often a luxury especially when you get a council house. My flooring costed me £7000 in my home even monthly that would cripple most people. We are in a cost of living crisis times are hard she’s isn’t flashing her cash on 40000 presents or designer gear she’s clearly just trying to love within her means
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I am not disputing they should look for work btw but for the argument based only on a young family affordability for flooring it’s rather aggravating for you to comment on someone else’s affordability
I know it’s expensive, I personally have to work more hours each week to pay mine off monthly as a solo parent to a 2 year old, there’s 2 of them so I’m just saying you’d expect them to be working to afford it.. god knows how universal credit are letting them get away without working as well, seems people that work what they can are told it’s not enough and yet there’s people that get away with doing nothing to help themselves. I know what you’re saying is true they clearly don’t have the money for extras and luxuries instead of flooring but my point is surely you would get jobs to be able to!
 
UC may of told her she’s ’not fit for work’ due to her saying she’s a carer to her mum. I also know of people who have used their mental health diagnosis and adhd as a reason to UC as to why they can’t work so Charlotte may have said this to them. Unsure about Maliki though he seems capable enough to work from the outside although we obviously don’t know if there’s reasons why he can’t
 
Ah here we go - the benefit shaming. We don’t know if they are looking for work or not, what benefits they are receiving if any. And to be fair to Charlotte we know little about her personal life or her partners to know their capabilities to work or not.

Also it’s really not that easy to just go find a job - as much as the government paint out it is! She is a parent to twins who as she had them at 16 could have left school with no qualifications. She will presumably need flexible working hours due to the girls. As others have said it’s not like she’s flaunting any wealth.
 
UC may of told her she’s ’not fit for work’ due to her saying she’s a carer to her mum. I also know of people who have used their mental health diagnosis and adhd as a reason to UC as to why they can’t work so Charlotte may have said this to them. Unsure about Maliki though he seems capable enough to work from the outside although we obviously don’t know if there’s reasons why he can’t
Didn’t we see somewhere it’s actually Danni who is Donna’s carer
 
Didn’t we see somewhere it’s actually Danni who is Donna’s carer
Oh is it? I don’t follow Charlotte on SM just catch up here so I’ve not seen anything. I just assumed she was the cater as I thought that’s what she said on the show
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Ah here we go - the benefit shaming. We don’t know if they are looking for work or not, what benefits they are receiving if any. And to be fair to Charlotte we know little about her personal life or her partners to know their capabilities to work or not.

Also it’s really not that easy to just go find a job - as much as the government paint out it is! She is a parent to twins who as she had them at 16 could have left school with no qualifications. She will presumably need flexible working hours due to the girls. As others have said it’s not like she’s flaunting any wealth.
To clarify I wasn’t benefit shaming, I was giving a reason as to why she may still be on UC or have low capability to work due to her mum and health conditions. I was a young mum myself and needed Uc temporarily so I would never judge anyone on it
 
But we know very little about her partner and we don’t know if he works or his capabilities. He might have an excuse, he might not but he wasn’t even on the show so how on earth can we have any assumptions or make any judgements on why he is or isn’t working?
 
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