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Belle679 said:
Really wish I was Charlie I’m really jealous of her to be honest🙈🤦‍♀️. Far from it! I actually work hard rather than sat on my arse begging for freebies! I’m at uni training in a very good job to better my life for me and my child. I’m also a single mum but if I defend Oliver I’m suddenly Charlie? I don’t think Oliver should be posting Harlow on social media, I’m surprised Brett hasn’t said anything however I do think Oliver is good to Harlow!
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If you’re at uni you certainly should not be jealous of a scruff like Charlie girl wtf💀💀💀 hope it was sarcasm
 
lookwhatthecatdraggedin1 said:
It’s always the new members 🙄 hi Oli how does it feel that your pregnant girlfriend labelled you a abuser


Jealous of her for what reason? the girl sits on her ass all day begging for freebies or harassing her ex and his family 🤣
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I was being sarcastic hence the 🙈 emoji. I really don’t like Charlie but I don’t think Oliver is a bad person. I understand that everyone is concerned because Charlie called him abusive and if he actually is then she’s an absolute tw*t for involving that around her girl and then getting pregnant with him. But she also called Brett abusive. Probably just blame shifting?

tftrc said:
If you’re at uni you certainly should not be jealous of a scruff like Charlie girl wtf💀💀💀 hope it was sarcasm
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yea it was I thought the “🙈” and “far from it” would hint so but maybe not😂. I assume everyone’s concerned because Charlie labelled Oli as abusive, but she did that with Brett also. Usually people go back to their abusers because they are so good at manipulating you and you can become addicted to them. But we will never know the truth because all Charlie does is lie. Well all I can say is Charlie doesn’t have a brain cell and I’ve seen people discussing how it could be to do with her childhood, maybe so, but there’s no excuse. You learn to heal yourself, so you can change and grow as a person.

Blondeangel2515 said:
Hi Charlie hun how’s life? Does it rattle you so much that Harlow adores Charlotte? You peeved out you can’t partaaaaaay for several months? How’s buttxns
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I don’t follow Charlotte but I follow Brett, he’s a good dad and they seem to have stability for Harlow so fair play to him. I’m glad they’re actually mature and have their heads screwed on. Hopefully Harlow will grow up knowing that her dad cared because Charlie is very child like and bites at him constantly. I just don’t get how that because Oli is a man it’s weird that he’s involved with Harlow as much as he is, yea I get the posting over socials is over stepping a boundary but he would get tit if he didn’t bother with her.
 
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Belle679 said:
I was being sarcastic hence the 🙈 emoji. I really don’t like Charlie but I don’t think Oliver is a bad person. I understand that everyone is concerned because Charlie called him abusive and if he actually is then she’s an absolute tw*t for involving that around her girl and then getting pregnant with him. But she also called Brett abusive. Probably just blame shifting?



yea it was I thought the “🙈” and “far from it” would hint so but maybe not😂. I assume everyone’s concerned because Charlie labelled Oli as abusive, but she did that with Brett also. Usually people go back to their abusers because they are so good at manipulating you and you can become addicted to them. But we will never know the truth because all Charlie does is lie. Well all I can say is Charlie doesn’t have a brain cell and I’ve seen people discussing how it could be to do with her childhood, maybe so, but there’s no excuse. You learn to heal yourself, so you can change and grow as a person.



I don’t follow Charlotte but I follow Brett, he’s a good dad and they seem to have stability for Harlow so fair play to him. I’m glad they’re actually mature and have their heads screwed on. Hopefully Harlow will grow up knowing that her dad cared because Charlie is very child like and bites at him constantly. I just don’t get how that because Oli is a man it’s weird that he’s involved with Harlow as much as he is, yea I get the posting over socials is over stepping a boundary but he would get tit if he didn’t bother with her.
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Wait wait wait. So you think it’s normal for a lad who isn’t a kids dad to be led in bed topless next door to them?? Bare in mind this is a guy who was “abusive” caught cheating with another woman. Sorry but it don’t sit right with me, cringes me out she’s allowed near him after the abuse accusations. Charlie and oli couldn’t parent a ducking goldfish, let alone another innocent baby being dragged into the relationship that is clearly unstable!
And before people assume; I’m not jealous of Charlie at all, I just feel sorry for kids being raised as a weapon as that’s clearly what harlow is when it comes to Charlie. Anyone who defends her actions needs their head assessed Cus it ain’t right.
 
Hann98 said:
Wait wait wait. So you think it’s normal for a lad who isn’t a kids dad to be led in bed topless next door to them?? Bare in mind this is a guy who was “abusive” caught cheating with another woman. Sorry but it don’t sit right with me, cringes me out she’s allowed near him after the abuse accusations. Charlie and oli couldn’t parent a ducking goldfish, let alone another innocent baby being dragged into the relationship that is clearly unstable!
And before people assume; I’m not jealous of Charlie at all, I just feel sorry for kids being raised as a weapon as that’s clearly what harlow is when it comes to Charlie. Anyone who defends her actions needs their head assessed Cus it ain’t right.
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Literally this!!!!!🙌🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Belle679 said:
How is that weird? Some people on this thread that keep nit picking at Oliver are starting to wind me up… I personally think Oliver is amazing with Harlow. People would soon complain if he didn’t bother with her. My child used to have snuggles in bed with my ex when we were together so I don’t see the problem?
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Cause he's been around for about 5 minutes. I cant see how you don't think it's weird. Especially using the word "snuggles"🤢🤮😂😂😂😂
 
I agree Olibob is too comfortable with Harlow, I’ve got a stepdaughter and I’ve been in her life since she was 18 months old, she’s 8 now. I wouldn’t dream of putting her in bed with me, having snuggles, I respect the fact she has an active mother in her life and don’t put pictures on social media of her and her siblings (bitter baby mum😂) there are just boundaries you don’t cross!
 
Hann98 said:
Wait wait wait. So you think it’s normal for a lad who isn’t a kids dad to be led in bed topless next door to them?? Bare in mind this is a guy who was “abusive” caught cheating with another woman. Sorry but it don’t sit right with me, cringes me out she’s allowed near him after the abuse accusations. Charlie and oli couldn’t parent a ducking goldfish, let alone another innocent baby being dragged into the relationship that is clearly unstable!
And before people assume; I’m not jealous of Charlie at all, I just feel sorry for kids being raised as a weapon as that’s clearly what harlow is when it comes to Charlie. Anyone who defends her actions needs their head assessed Cus it ain’t right.
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well everyone has different boundaries I guess,
Why would you be with your partner if you don’t trust him with your child?…. I wasn’t on and off with my ex we were in a long term stable relationship. I didn’t say anything about whether Charlie was a good parent or not. I also did mention I understand Charlie made a rod off her own back saying he was abusive… but we don’t know what’s true and what’s not. If Brett wasn’t okay with it, he would take Charlie to court.

anon20 said:
I agree Olibob is too comfortable with Harlow, I’ve got a stepdaughter and I’ve been in her life since she was 18 months old, she’s 8 now. I wouldn’t dream of putting her in bed with me, having snuggles, I respect the fact she has an active mother in her life and don’t put pictures on social media of her and her siblings (bitter baby mum😂) there are just boundaries you don’t cross!
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That’s fair enough! Everyone has different boundaries! And every child is different, if Brett wasn’t okay with it he should take Charlie to court. I previously said that I don’t agree with Oli broadcasting Harlow all over social media!

hello52718273 said:
Literally this!!!!!🙌🏻👏🏻👏🏻


Cause he's been around for about 5 minutes. I cant see how you don't think it's weird. Especially using the word "snuggles"🤢🤮😂😂😂😂
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They’ve been together since 2020 tho? For 6 months then they split up then they’ve been together since October for another 6 months? I agree it may be soon for some and it’s very understandable that everyone has different boundaries. I’m sure no one would say anything if Charlotte was in bed with Harlow! She’s 3 not 13! But because of Charlie’s demeanour I can see why people think like this. But not everyone you split up with is abusive.
 
Charlie is the one who accused him of being abusive not anyone else, she hasn’t confirmed it was lies so that’s the real problem that she has allowed someone she publicly accused of being abusive around her daughter. We all know she’s a liar because she says every week Harlow doesn’t need Brett anymore but here we are with Harlow at Bretts most of the time. It is not normal to have your child around someone if you have branded them abusive and he’s just as bleeping deluded for going back to her after she done that.
 
lookwhatthecatdraggedin1 said:
Charlie is the one who accused him of being abusive not anyone else, she hasn’t confirmed it was lies so that’s the real problem that she has allowed someone she publicly accused of being abusive around her daughter. We all know she’s a liar because she says every week Harlow doesn’t need Brett anymore but here we are with Harlow at Bretts most of the time. It is not normal to have your child around someone if you have branded them abusive and he’s just as bleeping deluded for going back to her after she done that.
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I did agree saying she has made a rod off her own back but usually abusers are so good at manipulating you. None of it should've been broadcasted all over social media at all because her child(ren) will grow up to read that. Whatever you post on the internet is there forever. I will say it again though. Oliver should NOT be posting Harlow on social media. I did think the swimming thing was odd as well but I don’t think he realises what boundaries are, and if Charlie allows it, then how is he to know?🤦‍♀️Brett is such a good dad, Harlow is always chatting on his story, and he dresses her in cute clothes, with Charlie she always looks so zoned out or in Victorian dresses to be honest.

You physically cannot compare two completely different situations, so yea I do think Oliver doesn’t understand boundaries but I don’t think anything is wrong with a step dad caring for the child if they’ve been in a LONG TERM STABLE RELATIONSHIP , because Charlotte also posts Harlow, Brett shares her stories sometimes. But he seems to usually have Harlow on his own as he should. Charlie is absolutely stuck to Oliver.
 
The thing I like about Charlotte is she knows her limits, you never see her posting pictures of her and Harlow that looks like she’s trying to take over the mum role whereas Oli posts pictures acting like he helped make Harlow never mind that bleeping tattoo 🤣 plus Harlow looks 100 times happier with Brett, Charlotte and his family compared to that fake forced posed smile she does with Charlie and Oli
 
Charlie is the epitome of the boy that cried wolf

lookwhatthecatdraggedin1 said:
The thing I like about Charlotte is she knows her limits, you never see her posting pictures of her and Harlow that looks like she’s trying to take over the mum role whereas Oli posts pictures acting like he helped make Harlow never mind that bleeping tattoo 🤣 plus Harlow looks 100 times happier with Brett, Charlotte and his family compared to that fake forced posed smile she does with Charlie and Oli
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yea true, Charlotte has also said before she’s more of a friend to Harlow where as Charlie calls oli step dad and before that she kept sharing things on fb interpreting he was a dad (before she fell pregnant) Charlie is probably jealous that Brett has made a decent life for himself. But fair play to him he’s matured so much.

I keep forgetting about the tattoo to be honest. And swimming. Both of them are way over the mark especially the tattoo! Mental, but treating her as his own is nice! I guess my comment before was about my situation not Charlie’s. I actually know what stability is🤣Charlie couldn’t even talk about the definition.
anyone know where I can get stability from and anyone have a code?xx
 
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I find it really sad Charlie like other girls I’ve seen on social media who have been cheated on seem to do the same thing if they take them back/stay with them. Just constantly post trying to be couple goals having it all staged for validation on social media that the relationship is good, that they made the right decision that people on the outside can’t see the damage there is on the inside as well as in her mind she’s point scoring against Brett. Like has anyone notices he doesn’t barely post anyway? So according to Charlie she probably thinks that’s a sign it’s not honkie dory with Brett and Charlotte when in reality it just shows they don’t need that validation
 
I usually find the people who constantly post how happy they are as a couple for validation on SM are the ones who are usually having relationship problems…usually a few months down the line it’s plastered all over SM how crappy it actually is. I know a few who are like this and it’s usually the talk amongst family and friends at how awful things are
 
LilToes said:
I usually find the people who constantly post how happy they are as a couple for validation on SM are the ones who are usually having relationship problems…usually a few months down the line it’s plastered all over SM how crappy it actually is. I know a few who are like this and it’s usually the talk amongst family and friends at how awful things are
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Yeah, there’s this one girl on my Facebook came out she was in a long distance relationship and her boyfriend was sexting some some other girl closer to him during lockdown and some guy him and his girlfriend worked with m. Barely anything of them before it all came to light on Facebook now suddenly every week she’s posting pictures of her and the boyfriend who cheated and they go away every weekend 😂 like it’s coincidence all of it but like even the pictures are different to Charlie’s but I get the same vibes off them it’s so forced even the cheating boyfriend looks fed up of the amount of pictures getting took
 
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