Teen Mom Young & Pregnant #32

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Im I wrong in thinking this is wrong! I get 15/16 year olds shouldnā€™t be in night clubs but itā€™s still P if someoneā€™s taking a 15 year old home like Charlotte is practically victim blaming here itā€™s like that time that 12 year old and the teacher and people were blaming the 12 year old but when the pictures went round she looked 12/13 also Charlotte šŸ™ƒ if your 16 youā€™re legal youā€™re not ruining anyones life because 16 year olds can consent
 

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But the men donā€™t know they are 15.. thatā€™s the point. They think they are 18+ because girls that are underage in clubs make themselves look older. They may also lie. The point is, itā€™s not the manā€™s fault for taking someone home who he thought was of age as they look it and are in a club, they may also be told that they are over 18. Itā€™s also the girls choice to go home with someone, so they shouldnā€™t be prosecuted for something that they were led to believe was legal. Those girls arenā€™t victims, they put themselves in them positions by lying about their age and agreeing to sleep with these men. Victims are underage girls who are targeted, groomed and/or abducted. Thereā€™s a huge difference
 
But the men donā€™t know they are 15.. thatā€™s the point. They think they are 18+ because girls that are underage in clubs make themselves look older. They may also lie. The point is, itā€™s not the manā€™s fault for taking someone home who he thought was of age as they look it and are in a club, they may also be told that they are over 18. Itā€™s also the girls choice to go home with someone, so they shouldnā€™t be prosecuted for something that they were led to believe was legal. Those girls arenā€™t victims, they put themselves in them positions by lying about their age and agreeing to sleep with these men. Victims are underage girls who are targeted, groomed and/or abducted. Thereā€™s a huge difference
Not really like yes now days girls look older when they go out but you can tell someone underage by the way they act and look.
like the girl on my Facebook one of her previous partners got done for taking a 15 year old out of a club and did things but her excuse for him was he didnā€™t know she was 15 and it wasnā€™t full sex but her dad didnā€™t half give him a hiding. Its basically like saying when kids shouldnā€™t be on Facebook or other apps etc but they still do šŸ¤·šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø Iā€™m still seeing it as victim blaming because their brains still not fully developed they still canā€™t consent even if they look older theyā€™re still vulnerable no matter the environment
 
But canā€™t you see that if the men donā€™t know, how is it their fault? They literally go to a club, dance with a girl who looks over 18 and tells them they are over 18.. then they both get talking/cracking on and go home together.. if he isnā€™t to know the truth (that she is purposely hiding) he should not be to blame. Itā€™s an innocent mistake caused by nobody but the girl..
 
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I know Charlotte is spoke about on here and I know sheā€™s made mistakes and comments but you know what fairplay to her. I know some will only see it as crumpets with banana with chic chips but thatā€™s not the point sheā€™s making the effort to clearly give her girls a fun day! Good on her. I feel sheā€™s became so much mature recently and itā€™s nice to see. I personally couldnā€™t handle two toddlers I struggled with one so I do take my hat off to her!!!
 
But canā€™t you see that if the men donā€™t know, how is it their fault? They literally go to a club, dance with a girl who looks over 18 and tells them they are over 18.. then they both get talking/cracking on and go home together.. if he isnā€™t to know the truth (that she is purposely hiding) he should not be to blame. Itā€™s an innocent mistake caused by nobody but the girl..
Girl is still in a vulnerable position, itā€™s similar to the arguments about 17 year old lads having 15 year old girlfriends sleeping together. Its like even saying if she mentioned it to him that sheā€™s 15 once they get home and he carries on he could still throw ā€œwell she was in a club, she lied to meā€ at the end of the day 15 year olds still canā€™t consent to do things like that, they havenā€™t got the mentality and are still vulnerable
 
View attachment 839340I know Charlotte is spoke about on here and I know sheā€™s made mistakes and comments but you know what fairplay to her. I know some will only see it as crumpets with banana with chic chips but thatā€™s not the point sheā€™s making the effort to clearly give her girls a fun day! Good on her. I feel sheā€™s became so much mature recently and itā€™s nice to see. I personally couldnā€™t handle two toddlers I struggled with one so I do take my hat off to her!!!
Agreed, sheā€™s a much better mum than old chodder.
 
But thatā€™s not the manā€™s fault. He had no idea. Itā€™s for the clubs to manage, they need better security to not allow underage girls slip through the net. Men shouldnā€™t be prosecuted for sleeping with someone who they were led to believe were of age. They sleep with them believing they are over 18. If they went to a youth club and actively seeked an underage girl, yes thatā€™s an issue.. they want to sleep with underage girls which is wrong. But going to a club for over 18s and hooking up with someone who looks over 18 and has id, they arenā€™t paedos, they thought they were sleeping with someone over 18.. not their fault.
Girl is still in a vulnerable position, itā€™s similar to the arguments about 17 year old lads having 15 year old girlfriends sleeping together. Its like even saying if she mentioned it to him that sheā€™s 15 once they get home and he carries on he could still throw ā€œwell she was in a club, she lied to meā€ at the end of the day 15 year olds still canā€™t consent to do things like that, they havenā€™t got the mentality and are still vulnerable
 
But thatā€™s not the manā€™s fault. He had no idea. Itā€™s for the clubs to manage, they need better security to not allow underage girls slip through the net. Men shouldnā€™t be prosecuted for sleeping with someone who they were led to believe were of age. They sleep with them believing they are over 18. If they went to a youth club and actively seeked an underage girl, yes thatā€™s an issue.. they want to sleep with underage girls which is wrong. But going to a club for over 18s and hooking up with someone who looks over 18 and has id, they arenā€™t paedos, they thought they were sleeping with someone over 18.. not their fault.
100% agree. Night clubs are for over 18s simple! So the men are going to presume everyone in that club is just that, over 18!!! If they take that ā€œover 18ā€ girl home thatā€™s down to them both but no way should he get into trouble for that.
 
View attachment 839340I know Charlotte is spoke about on here and I know sheā€™s made mistakes and comments but you know what fairplay to her. I know some will only see it as crumpets with banana with chic chips but thatā€™s not the point sheā€™s making the effort to clearly give her girls a fun day! Good on her. I feel sheā€™s became so much mature recently and itā€™s nice to see. I personally couldnā€™t handle two toddlers I struggled with one so I do take my hat off to her!!!
The thing with charlottte though is that she seems to be in insta mum.. itā€™s all for the gram, every now and then sheā€™ll post herself cleaning her house. Her house is grotty as anything and you can tell the only times it gets cleaned is when sheā€™s posting it on Instagram. Same as when she cooks anything for the girls, you can tell itā€™s only once in a while when she posts it on the gram šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø
 
View attachment 839340I know Charlotte is spoke about on here and I know sheā€™s made mistakes and comments but you know what fairplay to her. I know some will only see it as crumpets with banana with chic chips but thatā€™s not the point sheā€™s making the effort to clearly give her girls a fun day! Good on her. I feel sheā€™s became so much mature recently and itā€™s nice to see. I personally couldnā€™t handle two toddlers I struggled with one so I do take my hat off to her!!!
Suppose she does A LOT more than Charlie! Spends all her time with the twins
 
The thing with charlottte though is that she seems to be in insta mum.. itā€™s all for the gram, every now and then sheā€™ll post herself cleaning her house. Her house is grotty as anything and you can tell the only times it gets cleaned is when sheā€™s posting it on Instagram. Same as when she cooks anything for the girls, you can tell itā€™s only once in a while when she posts it on the gram šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø
My point being she clearly spends more time with her girls doing things such as baking, decorating etc. Not the constant posts of ā€œmy priorityā€. Who cares if itā€™s for the gram at least sheā€™s making memories with her girls instead of fobbing them off to go and drink.
 
My point being she clearly spends more time with her girls doing things such as baking, decorating etc. Not the constant posts of ā€œmy priorityā€. Who cares if itā€™s for the gram at least sheā€™s making memories with her girls instead of fobbing them off to go and drink.
Probs only because sheā€™s got no one to palm them off onšŸ˜‚. Yes itā€™s great that she spends time with once a month so she can post it on Instagram so everyone can gush at what a great mum she is šŸ„“
 
I agree that Charlotte only does more with the twins because she doesn't have many friends and her family mostly has their own kids too so she can't dump them on relatives. However, she obviously does make more effort than Charlie and the twins are often dressed appropriately and doing age-appropriate activities rather than attending hospital/job centre every week
 
The bar is literally so low at this pointšŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚ Charlotte constantly lets people smoke around the girls, dresses them in clothes far too small for them and does a Charlie and was letting apparently abusive men in and out of the girls lives, but because she buttered some crumpets and put some choc chips on a banana sheā€™s suddenly an amazing mum
 
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