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Hann98 said:
I’m surprised he’s allowed to leave his base in the lockdown. Most of my friends are refrained from leaving their camp due to the lockdown and they’re all single men in their rooms whilst on camp regardless if they have a mrs at home.. army must be different to navy I guess.
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I don’t know of any military bases locked down. Army or navy. Both are travelling to and from including flying
 
Angelagirl_86 said:
In my mind its the photos of her new man with Harlow that are the problem... she is totally 100% entitled to move on from Brett and be happy but Brett is still Harlows dad and involved so to my mind I don't see why she can't just refrain from posting photos of the 3 of them together- not saying she should never do it but don't think there's any call to have one a week.

If Brett were to get a new girlfriend and have her taking photos of Harlow I would feel the same way - if the other parent is still involved and a split is relatively new its bound to hurt to see someone else playing your role in your child's life.

Doesn't make her the devil incarnate for doing so but just my opinion there's no need for it. Happy photos of her and Oli all the way but leave Harlow out of them, or at least the ones she's posts.
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I 100% agree with you and I also think the issue is how quick she has introduced Harlow to Oliver. Yes she may have known him longer than Brett but she was still engaged to Brett until November at some point then like 2weeks later she was in a relationship with Oliver (going by SM timelines). So for her to introduce Oliver who has never been in Harlows life previously within 2weeks is too fast! Oliver also left a comment under Charlie’s post last night saying ‘the fam’ but I’m sorry unless you have been in a relationship long enough or married it is not his ‘fam’ especially as he’s only been with her for over a month. I think this is where people are saying it’s being posted to get at Brett etc.
I know everyone is anti Brett but if the shoe was on the other foot everyone would be on Brett like a tonne of bricks for being hurtful towards Charlie. Last weekend was an example of what happened when Brett met up with a cheating hoe (poor Jordan) but Charlie instantly kicked off, all the childish behaviour came out and her friends tried to say Harlow met Meth when in fact she hadn’t because we all remember last weekends tit show with the cot situation and Harlow was with Jane.
 
LilToes said:
I 100% agree with you and I also think the issue is how quick she has introduced Harlow to Oliver. Yes she may have known him longer than Brett but she was still engaged to Brett until November at some point then like 2weeks later she was in a relationship with Oliver (going by SM timelines). So for her to introduce Oliver who has never been in Harlows life previously within 2weeks is too fast! Oliver also left a comment under Charlie’s post last night saying ‘the fam’ but I’m sorry unless you have been in a relationship long enough or married it is not his ‘fam’ especially as he’s only been with her for over a month. I think this is where people are saying it’s being posted to get at Brett etc.
I know everyone is anti Brett but if the shoe was on the other foot everyone would be on Brett like a tonne of bricks for being hurtful towards Charlie. Last weekend was an example of what happened when Brett met up with a cheating hoe (poor Jordan) but Charlie instantly kicked off, all the childish behaviour came out and her friends tried to say Harlow met Meth when in fact she hadn’t because we all remember last weekends tit show with the cot situation and Harlow was with Jane.
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To be honest they are both childish and need to focus in harlow
Yeah she might be happy with oli but why can't she spend some weekends just her and her daughter .
He seems like a nice guy but saying fam and posting photos of harlow on his stories seems a bit too much too soon. But I'm weird with stuff like that from experience
 
LilToes said:
I 100% agree with you and I also think the issue is how quick she has introduced Harlow to Oliver. Yes she may have known him longer than Brett but she was still engaged to Brett until November at some point then like 2weeks later she was in a relationship with Oliver (going by SM timelines). So for her to introduce Oliver who has never been in Harlows life previously within 2weeks is too fast! Oliver also left a comment under Charlie’s post last night saying ‘the fam’ but I’m sorry unless you have been in a relationship long enough or married it is not his ‘fam’ especially as he’s only been with her for over a month. I think this is where people are saying it’s being posted to get at Brett etc.
I know everyone is anti Brett but if the shoe was on the other foot everyone would be on Brett like a tonne of bricks for being hurtful towards Charlie. Last weekend was an example of what happened when Brett met up with a cheating hoe (poor Jordan) but Charlie instantly kicked off, all the childish behaviour came out and her friends tried to say Harlow met Meth when in fact she hadn’t because we all remember last weekends tit show with the cot situation and Harlow was with Jane.
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Exactly this. He’s barely been around Harlow either all Christmas period Brett had Harlow and what looked like every weekend too. I still couldn’t post photos of my new piece with my daughter all over social media out of respect for her dad. Whether they get on or not and it’s her page it must still be quite hard for Brett to adjust another bloke with his daughter with the women he loved in the house and bed he once shared with his family.
 
Justcametobenosy said:
To be honest they are both childish and need to focus in harlow
Yeah she might be happy with oli but why can't she spend some weekends just her and her daughter .
He seems like a nice guy but saying fam and posting photos of harlow on his stories seems a bit too much too soon. But I'm weird with stuff like that from experience
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She probably doesn’t see it that way because he’s away during the week. But even if he wasn’t working away he shouldn’t be rushing to move in so quickly either. It seems like last night they were trying to have a ‘family’ outting or something like that which I think is coming across badly. It could be innocent but it’s all rushed. I hope things work out for them for Harlow’s sake as she will start to bond and form an attachment to him so I hope they take Harlow’s feelings into consideration
 
LilToes said:
She probably doesn’t see it that way because he’s away during the week. But even if he wasn’t working away he shouldn’t be rushing to move in so quickly either. It seems like last night they were trying to have a ‘family’ outting or something like that which I think is coming across badly. It could be innocent but it’s all rushed. I hope things work out for them for Harlow’s sake as she will start to bond and form an attachment to him so I hope they take Harlow’s feelings into consideration
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Remember she had that butlins dude around as well. I dint think she likes to be alone and so i hope her and oli do work out otherwise harlow is gonna grow up around different men and then have brett who threatens woman. Feel sorry for that wee girl sometimes.
 
Trace said:
Exactly this. He’s barely been around Harlow either all Christmas period Brett had Harlow and what looked like every weekend too. I still couldn’t post photos of my new piece with my daughter all over social media out of respect for her dad. Whether they get on or not and it’s her page it must still be quite hard for Brett to adjust another bloke with his daughter with the women he loved in the house and bed he once shared with his family.
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It’s definitely down to respect for the other parent. If you take Jac Jossa & Stacey Solomon for example...they have blended family’s but they don’t post selfie’s etc of their partners children like they do with their own children so that they aren’t portraying they are a better suit etc. Yes they have family photos etc which is fair enough but they took time to do stuff like this. It’s only the odd time that Jac has had a few snippets of Dan’s son on her videos etc as it can’t be avoided all the time. But again they have been together longer and are married
 
I miss the old days where char char and donnaaaa kebab would be shouting whilst walking down the street, getting caught out on little lies and of course “wotsitssssss”🤣🥱
FairPlay too aleysha tho she’s the only one I’ve never seen anything bad about on here.. liked her from the start!
 
That's Charlie ' family at the end of the day. Her child and her partner so of course she will post photos of the three of them. She made a judgement call as a parent on the introduction of them both and she knows the true timeline of events, no one else. It's the same with me and my ex, he moved on quickly, and moved on again after that relationship. As one half of the parenting unit, you have to trust the other person's decisions and respect them (unless they are abusive). That's the mature way.
 
Hann98 said:
Why is Charlotte taking her girls to the park in lockdown? Are parks allowed to stay open, mines been locked up!?
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From the gov website outdoor play areas can remain open. I guess it goes hand in hand with common sense though and what each individual wants to risk. So, some play areas will be locked up if the owner thinks the risk is too high, my local is open and a free for all 😬
 
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