Literally lol, we can do both. You do get selfish mums like Ellie who not only don’t do anything with their sons and actually drag them to the appointments but she’s in the minority surelyI don’t agree with filler ruining peoples looks I had filler as soon as I was legal to as I’d always been so self conscious and I’d never go back. And my child definitely doesn’t miss out on anything because I get filler I don’t know anything about her so if that’s the case I agree but I don’t think she should be looked down on for doing what the majority of people are doing now