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Lilylate said:
Exactly! Suggesting M go there to be brought up is ridiculous!
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She didn’t move into her dad’s to save for a house with Oli?! She moved because she hated the house she’d moved into from the flat and instead of renting another one, she was saving for the deposit to buy instead of wasting on renting. It had nothing to do with Oli.
The Rolex was a gift and that was nothing to do with the house either!
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Let’s be real, it’s not a coincidence this came around when she met him and she said he was also saving for a house. She went to view houses with him and had every intention of doing so from the start. So? Does she have to accept a 6k odd watch when she’s trying to save for a house? It’s ridiculous
 
Sophiadee said:
Let’s be real, it’s not a coincidence this came around when she met him and she said he was also saving for a house. She went to view houses with him and had every intention of doing so from the start. So? Does she have to accept a 6k odd watch when she’s trying to save for a house? It’s ridiculous
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I’d go mad if my partner spend £6k on a gift if we were meant to be saving for a house. Absolutely ridiculous and shows that Oli probably wasn’t that bothered about getting a house together.
 
I don’t think Mia’s an amazing parent by any means and she certainly spends a lot more time out than any other parent, but using the word neglect and saying she shouldn’t be with Mia is going way too far. I’ve worked in Child Protection and kids who are actually neglected don’t have meals or food, they have no bedding on their beds, they might have a filthy mattress if they’re lucky. They get no attention at all from their parent/s and never get taken anywhere. They go to school late or not at all, not in proper uniform and often with no food. They might get left home alone from a very young age.

I’m also a single parent and Mia is so far from how I am as a parent, I put him first and my life takes a back seat, I studied my Masters degree while looking after him and working, and I own a house that we’ve been in for 7 years. But let’s be reasonable in the accusations that are being made, and put it in to perspective. Is she the most amazing mum, no, is she neglecting Marliya by living with family and going out a lot whilst Marliya is in the care of another adult, also no.
 
Defo don’t think Ms neglected at all but Mia is being really selfish atm and looks to focus on nights out and herself more than anyone else. Tbh tho Mia only had a kid because Manley just had or was having a baby with Erin so it’s not really a surprise she’s going thru a selfish stage
 
gmarsh28 said:
Defo don’t think Ms neglected at all but Mia is being really selfish atm and looks to focus on nights out and herself more than anyone else. Tbh tho Mia only had a kid because Manley just had or was having a baby with Erin so it’s not really a surprise she’s going thru a selfish stage
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That’s what I think too. An example of why having a baby purely to keep a man is a stupid idea
 
It’s quite sad to see really as my childhood was a bit like Marliya’s - moving around a lot for various partners one of which was also DV. Also included the long distance school changing, away from family move for a partner that Mia was contemplating. The partner’s were always 1st priority before us. I’m going through therapy now as an adult and realising how much it affected me. I’m sure Mia loves Marliya but she should make her 1st priority and give her stability otherwise it’s so damaging.
 
Motherofpugs said:
It’s quite sad to see really as my childhood was a bit like Marliya’s - moving around a lot for various partners one of which was also DV. Also included the long distance school changing, away from family move for a partner that Mia was contemplating. The partner’s were always 1st priority before us. I’m going through therapy now as an adult and realising how much it affected me. I’m sure Mia loves Marliya but she should make her 1st priority and give her stability otherwise it’s so damaging.
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I think this is what people mean by neglect. Physically M is well looked after as we can see. Emotionally/ psychologically Mia is neglectful and doesn’t prioritise her. Manley also doesn’t and is far worse btw
 
Sophiadee said:
I think this is what people mean by neglect. Physically M is well looked after as we can see. Emotionally/ psychologically Mia is neglectful and doesn’t prioritise her. Manley also doesn’t and is far worse btw
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Even health wise she was neglecting her, her teeth were rotten while Mia was out splashing on veneers and holidays it’s sad but it’s true, there’s a lot more to being a mother than dressing ur kid up in matching outfits and posting tik toks of them
 
Yet again on here there seems to be a number of people who think the odd snippet shared on social media, is an accurate representation of the full 24/7 of someone’s life. It’s not.
Mia could spend hours and hours with M and not post it, I mean if I’d have shared everything I did with my daughter when I was a single mum, it would’ve made for very boring content.
Now I’m not saying Mia is, or isn’t parenting M the way some on here believe she should - we don’t actually know, because we aren’t a fly on the wall for her whole life. But her management will be directing her on what she should post, and if they’re wanting her to represent a certain narrative, then sitting colouring, cooking, whatever it is she does with the life she doesn’t post on SM, that may not fit that narrative.
M happens to present, (from what we see), as a well adjusted, happy little girl and certainly looks in no way neglected!
As for the nights out etc, firstly, many of her outings are ‘work’ related, as for the rest, it’s been said before on here that if she doesn’t have M on certain weekends then why shouldn’t she go out? She isn’t necessarily farming her out to anyone who will have her!
And in regards to her living situation, no one actually really knows, it’s all just speculation.
 
Lilylate said:
Yet again on here there seems to be a number of people who think the odd snippet shared on social media, is an accurate representation of the full 24/7 of someone’s life. It’s not.
Mia could spend hours and hours with M and not post it, I mean if I’d have shared everything I did with my daughter when I was a single mum, it would’ve made for very boring content.
Now I’m not saying Mia is, or isn’t parenting M the way some on here believe she should - we don’t actually know, because we aren’t a fly on the wall for her whole life. But her management will be directing her on what she should post, and if they’re wanting her to represent a certain narrative, then sitting colouring, cooking, whatever it is she does with the life she doesn’t post on SM, that may not fit that narrative.
M happens to present, (from what we see), as a well adjusted, happy little girl and certainly looks in no way neglected!
As for the nights out etc, firstly, many of her outings are ‘work’ related, as for the rest, it’s been said before on here that if she doesn’t have M on certain weekends then why shouldn’t she go out? She isn’t necessarily farming her out to anyone who will have her!
And in regards to her living situation, no one actually really knows, it’s all just speculation.
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Yip this whole thread is mainly based on speculation and from what we see it’s not great for Mia atm. And if it’s editing and social media managers that are making her look the way she’s looking lately I’d probably leave TV behind because I couldn’t not post my kid because my manager says it doesn’t fit the narrative no money is worth looking like u prefer a night out to a night in with your kid, also the living conditions aren’t speculation she said herself she left her house because she didn’t like it and chose to move into her dads to save for a house for her and M then had to move from her dads to her mothers for personal reasons none of that is speculation that’s all came directly from her numerous times x
 
Rose94 said:
I think she’s happiest when she’s out with all the Z listers (Sophie and Abbie from geordie shore etc…) it’s like she lives two lives it’s bizzare and so unstable for marliya she needs to just get a normal job and house and be there for her daughter
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Spot on but I’d say she doesn’t even need a normal job. She has a platform and gets brand deals, she earns enough to be independent and provide for her and M but she doesn’t put the effort in to build that family home/unit because she’s stuck in a 21 year olds body wanting to go out and living two separate lives.

Most people would dream of her life, being able to take your daughter away at any given chance, and provide independently but Mia takes it all for granted, wastes her money on materialistic shite and holidays, extravagant gifts for her boyfriends that last 6 months at a time.

She’s waiting for a bloke to buy a house with her, but the problem is her perfect bloke abuses tanning injections, sniff, has turkey teeth, a merc and a new build and probably sells on the side 🤣 GREAT role model like Manley.

I used to like Mia but I’ve noticed over time, she never does anything with M, she can’t even take M away on her own she has to take her mate with her to help out, she’s got serious problems and is incapable of being a good role model/parent, I have never got a maternal vibe from Mia ever.

It’s not normal to want to uproot M 300 miles away so badly to take your young daughter there to see if she’d like it? Whilst your dad has a terminal illness too. Doesn't show M or her family is her priority.

How confusing was that for that poor little girl?
 
gmarsh28 said:
Yip this whole thread is mainly based on speculation and from what we see it’s not great for Mia atm. And if it’s editing and social media managers that are making her look the way she’s looking lately I’d probably leave TV behind because I couldn’t not post my kid because my manager says it doesn’t fit the narrative no money is worth looking like u prefer a night out to a night in with your kid, also the living conditions aren’t speculation she said herself she left her house because she didn’t like it and chose to move into her dads to save for a house for her and M then had to move from her dads to her mothers for personal reasons none of that is speculation that’s all came directly from her numerous times x
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Was about to say something along these lines, most of what we’re saying about her is fact and comes from her. Mia is veryyyy open on her personal life, we know far too much which is why we have an opinion on it. And it’s clear as day, as she’s shown us time and time again, that Mia and her dick of the year come before M
 
starsandmoons777 said:
Spot on but I’d say she doesn’t even need a normal job. She has a platform and gets brand deals, she earns enough to be independent and provide for her and M but she doesn’t put the effort in to build that family home/unit because she’s stuck in a 21 year olds body wanting to go out and living two separate lives.

Most people would dream of her life, being able to take your daughter away at any given chance, and provide independently but Mia takes it all for granted, wastes her money on materialistic shite and holidays, extravagant gifts for her boyfriends that last 6 months at a time.

She’s waiting for a bloke to buy a house with her, but the problem is her perfect bloke abuses tanning injections, sniff, has turkey teeth, a merc and a new build and probably sells on the side 🤣 GREAT role model like Manley.

I used to like Mia but I’ve noticed over time, she never does anything with M, she can’t even take M away on her own she has to take her mate with her to help out, she’s got serious problems and is incapable of being a good role model/parent, I have never got a maternal vibe from Mia ever.

It’s not normal to want to uproot M 300 miles away so badly to take your young daughter there to see if she’d like it? Whilst your dad has a terminal illness too. Doesn't show M or her family is her priority.

How confusing was that for that poor little girl?
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Also I just want to add I’ve actually seen Mia out and about with M and her friend, so I’ve seen the way she parents which is non existent
 
starsandmoons777 said:
Spot on but I’d say she doesn’t even need a normal job. She has a platform and gets brand deals, she earns enough to be independent and provide for her and M but she doesn’t put the effort in to build that family home/unit because she’s stuck in a 21 year olds body wanting to go out and living two separate lives.

Most people would dream of her life, being able to take your daughter away at any given chance, and provide independently but Mia takes it all for granted, wastes her money on materialistic shite and holidays, extravagant gifts for her boyfriends that last 6 months at a time.

She’s waiting for a bloke to buy a house with her, but the problem is her perfect bloke abuses tanning injections, sniff, has turkey teeth, a merc and a new build and probably sells on the side 🤣 GREAT role model like Manley.

I used to like Mia but I’ve noticed over time, she never does anything with M, she can’t even take M away on her own she has to take her mate with her to help out, she’s got serious problems and is incapable of being a good role model/parent, I have never got a maternal vibe from Mia ever.

It’s not normal to want to uproot M 300 miles away so badly to take your young daughter there to see if she’d like it? Whilst your dad has a terminal illness too. Doesn't show M or her family is her priority.

How confusing was that for that poor little girl?
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There’s a reason to she never brings up Manley taking drugs or drink driving and just being a genuine scumbag and it’s either because she needs him or his family for a sitter so she doesn’t mind or she’s hanging around the same people or doing the same thing because let me tell you if that alien abused me on tv saying I’ve never got my kid I’d clap straight back with a million facts about him.. there’s a reason she stays quiet
 
Anyway for a bit of light relief, who the f is this 😂 😂 😂

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And is she any relation to this person lol

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