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Being ambitions would be saving and working her ass off to pay for the house she wants. Not pressuring Jordan to signing up to a mortgage when he was the only one working and then having it fully kitted out by friends and family. Apart from the house she’s no different to the other girls she just thinks she is because she’s lucky to have family handouts.
 
Chloe has ambition to get what she wants 😂 I didn’t say she worked hard lol ambition literally means having or showing a strong desire and determination to succeed. (In whatever way you want to succeed and for Chloe that’s having a big house lol)

I don’t personally see succeeding as having your own house , I think succeeding is being a good person, working hard, doing good and being a good parent.
 
Miss.Chanandler.Bong said:
Agree. Ambition to me is someone like Megan who is building a business for her kids future not Chloe who can’t admit how much help she’s got
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I’d have to disagree with this about Megan. She claims she has all this money from her career yet she still living in her little flat that is overfilled with clutter while driving around in a flashy car acting like a boss witch. Someone on here said she only works part time and is barely at the salon she rents a chair from. I wouldn’t be surprised if Megan’s claiming benefits and getting her rent paid for by benefits also. She doesn’t scream ambitious to me, if she was then she would have bought a house with all this money she claims she has instead of making her two kids share a room. Soon the third child will be in with them too, no doubt she will get bigger house soon because of overcrowding
 
stargirl23 said:
Tbf to Megan getting on the property ladder is so hard right now, especially when you’re self employed
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I do get that it’s hard (as I’m struggling to get on the property ladder myself) however she’s been claiming for 2+ years of how much money she has and being a boss witch etc so would have found it easier to buy before now. No doubt she’s spunked all the money into the flashy car (id rather have a house than a flashy car). I remember this all being plastered over instagram after she split with tel and before sonny
 
LilToes said:
I’d have to disagree with this about Megan. She claims she has all this money from her career yet she still living in her little flat that is overfilled with clutter while driving around in a flashy car acting like a boss witch. Someone on here said she only works part time and is barely at the salon she rents a chair from. I wouldn’t be surprised if Megan’s claiming benefits and getting her rent paid for by benefits also. She doesn’t scream ambitious to me, if she was then she would have bought a house with all this money she claims she has instead of making her two kids share a room. Soon the third child will be in with them too, no doubt she will get bigger house soon because of overcrowding
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agreed, she's been in that tiny flat for years now, she'll end up needing to put the new baby in the same bedroom as the 2 older kids, not fair on them. they have her income plus tel's, surely if they're not claiming benefits they could look for a 3 bed flat, especially with all the money she apparently makes? certain areas in essex are very affordable to rent also
 
I do feel for Amber. Even finding somewhere to rent is hard now and her landlord is obviously a cowboy! She needs to be saving and getting out of there. I think she’s got depression and I wouldn’t be shocked living there, that’s probably why she’s in a rut when it comes to cleaning and keeping on top of things because the house probably needs knocking down and starting again.
 
lauren96111 said:
I do feel for Amber. Even finding somewhere to rent is hard now and her landlord is obviously a cowboy! She needs to be saving and getting out of there. I think she’s got depression and I wouldn’t be shocked living there, that’s probably why she’s in a rut when it comes to cleaning and keeping on top of things because the house probably needs knocking down and starting again.
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a fresh start in a new flat/house would probably be really good for her and the boys, hope they're okay
 
icantbelieveitsnotbutter! said:
a fresh start in a new flat/house would probably be really good for her and the boys, hope they're okay
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It defiantly would! I think that’s why she seems to enjoy being outdoors so much. I’d feel the same, she must feel trapped living there and it’s sad. I went through it when I was a child and my mum and dad getting us out was the best thing they did.
 
bubbles?99 said:
Does Amber not live in a council house? (I haven’t watched an episode of this series yet so sorry if she’s said on there, I’ve just seen the previews and read here😅)
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I’m sure she’s said previously that it’s private landlord
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stargirl23 said:
Can’t believe that landlords allowed to put the house on the market in that state tbh!
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My mums old house was basically falling apart,she reported the landlord to environmental health before she left and nothing was done. The state of some I went to view were absolutely vile but the market is so bad now people will pay stupid amount for a tit hole just to have a roof over their head
 
lauren96111 said:
I’m sure she’s said previously that it’s private landlord
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My mums old house was basically falling apart,she reported the landlord to environmental health before she left and nothing was done. The state of some I went to view were absolutely vile but the market is so bad now people will pay stupid amount for a tit hole just to have a roof over their head
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It’s a shame people are so desperate they’ll accept things like that
 
Jennytea said:
I may sound awful but does she try really? She surely does the bare minimum by keeping them alive 😅😂 I don’t see her as the type to have a proper routine, I don’t see her as the type to be feeding her kids healthy meals and cooking the same times everyday. Amber is a very extremely lazy parent I think and that’s why everything is in chaos. That isn’t even digging her out it’s just fact. Whether it’s mental health related or not or her being overwhelmed it is true that she does the bare minimum. It’s not even as if she has a fulltime job and is working all the time she’s home all day when they’re both in fulltime school. She has all the tools to make her life better. Yes all well and good her going on some mountain walks but focusing on getting her home straight and everyday routine with her kids will do all of them a world of good. I just think she needs to be surrounded by better people or someone to give her a reality check in the right way. Even if she hired someone to straighten her house out or started fresh by moving somewhere new. Last season she was so focused on dating etc when it would be more positive for the show to encourage her to sort her house out 🫣
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While I agree with most of what you said the meal times I don’t think is as much as issue personally as my child is await assessment for autism and adhd I kind of leave it up to my kiddo decide when she’s ready for dinner like now she had at 4:30 tomorrow she might have it at 5 due to how school do snack times morning snack, lunch afternoon snack at about 1:30-2:30 . But i think she just yells way too much and if either of the boys have autism I know they’re currently only looking at adhd currently but autistic children tend to hate loud sounds and struggle regulating their emotions. I have to put a weighted blanket around my little one to calm her down.
Routine is definitely key for adhd kids though and I feel she’d deal a lot better if she had routine for herself. My house isn’t spotless but it’s tidied every day even if my kiddo walking into a tidy house she tends to come in calmer. It’s also better for my mental health I like the saying tidy area tidy mind. I think if amber had a routine and even just a small to do list she’d handle things a lot better.

My routine is get kiddo up, have some cuddles, let her have some tablet time while I make breakfast and her lunch, breakfast, brush teeth, wash face, get dressed, do hair and she has a bit more tablet time while I get dressed. Drop her at school and then start my to do list which I have a set list of jobs that I do every single day, so make beds and hoover upstairs, empty/fill dishwasher, wipe sides down, clean cat mess, hoover, mop. Living room straighten up, hoover this massively helps keep on top of everything in the house then I have set days for peoples washing so Monday is bedding and towels, Tuesdays is my partners washing, Wednesday is little ones and Thursday is mine and Friday my partner finishes early so it’s coffee date and my partner does the folding on Saturday and we do a house reset together on Sunday which really it’s just same as I do in the week but he works on the living. Room while I do the kitchen. It was hard to get in a routine but it’s doable. You have to brute force it even on days when you don’t want to.

I feel her feelings and frustrations and stress leak on to the boys because look how they were for ste he was chilled and relaxed.
 
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