Teen Mom UK #26

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I don’t think she resents him. I still mourn my lost youth and everything that went with it when I had my daughter at 19. But I wouldn’t change things for the world. She’s 21 now and expecting her own baby and I think she’s mad giving up her freedom so young 🤣
 
Whenever I start to like Manley, I remember he told Mia to her face that Marliya didn’t need her mum

I’m watching old Mia and Manley clips and I find it so cringy Erin had this on her wall just by the front door 😂
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Is it just me that thought Amber looked disappointed in the fact the dr said Brooklyn is good at school? If he’s good at school but naughty at home it may not even be a ADHD problem but a parenting problem. I’m not saying she’s a bad parent but he’s clearly good at school where there is routine and structure? I think she also thought that he would get a diagnosis and she could use that as an excuse for his behaviour. When the dr told her that she needed to go and talk to the school and stuff it seemed like she couldn’t be arsed and it wasn’t the outcome she was expecting. But surely you do it because you want to help your kid?
My son was fine at primary school and although a teacher brought up the possibly of him being on the autistic spectrum around the age of 6/7 school refused to follow it up. High school was a completely different kettle of fish, he was constantly in trouble but he'd get up and go each day without complaining. He was diagnosed last summer at the age of 16 (thanks to covid). Its entirely possible Brooklyn is autistic and needs the structure of school and routine and knowing what is happening next. I wonder if Amber has a routine or if the poor kid doesn't know what's happening from one day to the next and it's what he finds harder at home.
 
I’m playing catch up with the new series and just watched the Valentine’s Day one and I reckon it was Darren who sent those flowers to sassi. Watching the past few episodes I honestly get the impression that Darren still holds a torch for sassi. His mannerisms around her and general behaviour, I dunno, I just get the feeling he’s quite into her still..
 
I’m playing catch up with the new series and just watched the Valentine’s Day one and I reckon it was Darren who sent those flowers to sassi. Watching the past few episodes I honestly get the impression that Darren still holds a torch for sassi. His mannerisms around her and general behaviour, I dunno, I just get the feeling he’s quite into her still..
Really? I think Darren’s completely over it. I think they might have got back together eventually but when she goes on the way she does, he probably thinks he’s had a lucky escape
 
One person (Jordans Mum) asks if there will be another baby before the wedding (and in my opinion, if they didn't plan on getting married for 5 years thats a reasonable assumption no?) And she freaks out, needs to take a breather and go and sit with her friends. Wtf chill Chlo.
I may be unpopular in saying this too, but when people say they didnt want a baby as a teenager and how they felt reallt scared and underprepared, it does make me wonder why nobody considers abortion. Yes there is a lot of emotion and guilt attached to abortion, it's not ideal, but it is an OPTION. Fair enough it isn't for me to be saying people should get abortions, but I do believe Chloe appears very resentful of Marley so I do wonder why she chose to proceed with that pregnancy. The others genuinely seem to enjoy being parents and they're integrated into their lives. Chloes life is very much separate to Marlet, he 'gets in her way' is the impression I get


She mentioned in the "our worlds" series that she almost had an abortion but, just couldn't bring herself to it so continued.

I was in her exact position when I got pregnant in uni, I arranged for an abortion went to the consultation and never returned. It's a huge thing to go through mentally and physically. It took me asking if I could ever forgive myself and move on to come to a decision. Simple answer was no. As much as I am not a fan of chloe as a person on the show, I relate to her massively when it comes to the personal struggles of parenting
 
I’m playing catch up with the new series and just watched the Valentine’s Day one and I reckon it was Darren who sent those flowers to sassi. Watching the past few episodes I honestly get the impression that Darren still holds a torch for sassi. His mannerisms around her and general behaviour, I dunno, I just get the feeling he’s quite into her still..

If he did then that’s some kind of weird reverse psychology f**led up stuff from him. Although I do think that they both don’t know how to move on.
 
The thing that annoys me about Chloe going on about freedom is we all lose freedom when we have children. Regardless of how old you are, you go from being able to do what you want when you want to the complete opposite. Yes okay she maybe missed out on the fun teenage years but that doesn’t always magically stop the minute you turn 20. Some people party hard well into their 30s. I just can’t understand how she wanted to be engaged and she also wanted the house, the dog etc you know the whole family life and now all of a sudden she wants to live her life?? Does she want to settle with her family or be out living her life like she doesn’t have one?

She always finds some excuse to get exactly what she wants and it’s always me me me with her.
 
See I thought this at first, but watching this season fresh, i just get that impression! Could obviously be way wrong I know!
I get what you mean even when they were reminiscing about old times on the finale you could see there still are some feelings then and he always seems to perk up when she says ‘she doesn’t need a man because she has a baby father’ but I reckon that’s just because her moving on would hurt him as there is still love there; but at the same time he knows they don’t work. He likes the perks of her cooking and caring about him/his birthday etc but without any relationship.

I reckon they did hook up here and there too why Sassi is still so sprung on him, if they cut that side of ages ago she should be slightly more detached than she is. I think when you add sleeping together it complicates things especially females; who still love their baby father because they think ‘we’re doing everything but saying we’re together so eventually we’ll probably get back together’ & then it never happens, or he entertains other girls and says he can because he’s single and then the drama begins from there.

Hopefully by now they’ve cut ties in the emotional regard and if they do family outings it’s really just centred for their daughter.
 
I get what you mean even when they were reminiscing about old times on the finale you could see there still are some feelings then and he always seems to perk up when she says ‘she doesn’t need a man because she has a baby father’ but I reckon that’s just because her moving on would hurt him as there is still love there; but at the same time he knows they don’t work. He likes the perks of her cooking and caring about him/his birthday etc but without any relationship.

I reckon they did hook up here and there too why Sassi is still so sprung on him, if they cut that side of ages ago she should be slightly more detached than she is. I think when you add sleeping together it complicates things especially females; who still love their baby father because they think ‘we’re doing everything but saying we’re together so eventually we’ll probably get back together’ & then it never happens, or he entertains other girls and says he can because he’s single and then the drama begins from there.

Hopefully by now they’ve cut ties in the emotional regard and if they do family outings it’s really just centred for their daughter.

Agree with all this! My daughters father did the same. He would spend time with me and our daughter, come round for takeaways, days out, help me with things, give me a cuddle when he left. I always had it in my head we’d get back together. But he didn’t. And in fact he was seeing someone.

Sassi really needs to put boundaries in place. If they’re not getting back together then they need to live somewhat separate lives. Yes it’s good for Zenaya to see her parents getting along, but wasn’t isnt good for her or them is this confusing situation where they’re not together but acting like they are.
 
I get what you mean even when they were reminiscing about old times on the finale you could see there still are some feelings then and he always seems to perk up when she says ‘she doesn’t need a man because she has a baby father’ but I reckon that’s just because her moving on would hurt him as there is still love there; but at the same time he knows they don’t work. He likes the perks of her cooking and caring about him/his birthday etc but without any relationship.

I reckon they did hook up here and there too why Sassi is still so sprung on him, if they cut that side of ages ago she should be slightly more detached than she is. I think when you add sleeping together it complicates things especially females; who still love their baby father because they think ‘we’re doing everything but saying we’re together so eventually we’ll probably get back together’ & then it never happens, or he entertains other girls and says he can because he’s single and then the drama begins from there.

Hopefully by now they’ve cut ties in the emotional regard and if they do family outings it’s really just centred for their daughter.
I think 100% that they’re shagging when they both need a bit, but Darren puts his trackies back on and leaves as soon as he’s done the deed . As lovely as it is that they’ve got a good parenting relationship, I think they need to set some stronger boundaries until Sassi has dealt with her feelings. It seems like Darren has switched off from her but she’s still arranging birthdays and holidays because she’s really in love with him
 
I think 100% that they’re shagging when they both need a bit, but Darren puts his trackies back on and leaves as soon as he’s done the deed . As lovely as it is that they’ve got a good parenting relationship, I think they need to set some stronger boundaries until Sassi has dealt with her feelings. It seems like Darren has switched off from her but she’s still arranging birthdays and holidays because she’s really in love with him

even I was shocked at the fact they slept in the same bed with zenaya on that trip!
 
Sassi really needs to put boundaries in place. If they’re not getting back together then they need to live somewhat separate lives. Yes it’s good for Zenaya to see her parents getting along, but wasn’t isnt good for her or them is this confusing situation where they’re not together but acting like they are.
It’s going to be horrendous for Zenaya (especially after this picture perfect Co parenting scenario) when Darren inevitably meets someone and gets into a serious relationship. Sassi will absolutely lose her tit, and will be shouting and screaming, will probably use Z as her emotional prop and will make life generally very difficult. I won’t fully blame Sassi but I can fully see her losing the plot. She is head over heels in love with Darren, he is her first love which is a big thing. She is in for a broken heart big time and I do wonder how she will cope. She not imagine this current bubble ever bursting. I think Darren needs to be the one to put boundaries in place because he is the one getting his cake and eating it but could happily give up that cake. Everything suits him very nicely at the moment so even though he knows Sassi will be the one to get hurt he wont put any in place. God help them if Darren goes on to have another child. I’m only just catching up on this series so am pretty behind.
 
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