Tashas.journey #7 says shes ditched scabby but tattles suspish. Special specs, granny shoes and still a racist

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lorballs said:
Was it not her bio dad was abusive?
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Both. Her bio dad ripped her sisters ear off which is why they were removed. But then her adoptive dad was physically abusive. She did a live a good while back detailing how he used to hit her etc. it’ll be in a previous thread, we were all really shocked because what she recalled was horrible. But she’s completely denied it since so I’m guessing he got angry she told the internet how horrible he is
 
rainbowdonkey said:
Both. Her bio dad ripped her sisters ear off which is why they were removed. But then her adoptive dad was physically abusive. She did a live a good while back detailing how he used to hit her etc. it’ll be in a previous thread, we were all really shocked because what she recalled was horrible. But she’s completely denied it since so I’m guessing he got angry she told the internet how horrible he is
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Do we really believe everything that comes out of her mouth? Especially when she’s on lives? She gets carried away and if I remember rightly at the time my whole FYP was about survivors of abuse from peoples childhoods. I’m not saying it definitely did not happen however I reckon the chances of her getting carried away and making things up is more likely the case than anything like she said happened actually happened. She is a compulsive liar (how many miscarriages now?) like I say I’ve no idea what actually happened but the fact she back tracked and denied everything instead of having a lot more content to make surrounding it to me seems as if she made it all up.
 
cherrypicker said:
Do we really believe everything that comes out of her mouth? Especially when she’s on lives? She gets carried away and if I remember rightly at the time my whole FYP was about survivors of abuse from peoples childhoods. I’m not saying it definitely did not happen however I reckon the chances of her getting carried away and making things up is more likely the case than anything like she said happened actually happened. She is a compulsive liar (how many miscarriages now?) like I say I’ve no idea what actually happened but the fact she back tracked and denied everything instead of having a lot more content to make surrounding it to me seems as if she made it all up.
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I think what’s she’s told us about her bio dad is probably true, but her adoptive dad? That’s questionable. Why would she want a relationship with him into adulthood if he was abusive, never mind leave him with her baby! Even if I was desperate for childcare I’d never leave my child with someone that had abused or neglected children, even if it was in the past..
 
mamabear012 said:
I think what’s she’s told us about her bio dad is probably true, but her adoptive dad? That’s questionable. Why would she want a relationship with him into adulthood if he was abusive, never mind leave him with her baby! Even if I was desperate for childcare I’d never leave my child with someone that had abused or neglected children, even if it was in the past..
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Yeah I should have made it clearer - I was talking about the adoptive dad as to what I don’t believe. The bio dad - clearly something went on for her to end up in care as to what who knows .
 
cherrypicker said:
Do we really believe everything that comes out of her mouth? Especially when she’s on lives? She gets carried away and if I remember rightly at the time my whole FYP was about survivors of abuse from peoples childhoods. I’m not saying it definitely did not happen however I reckon the chances of her getting carried away and making things up is more likely the case than anything like she said happened actually happened. She is a compulsive liar (how many miscarriages now?) like I say I’ve no idea what actually happened but the fact she back tracked and denied everything instead of having a lot more content to make surrounding it to me seems as if she made it all up.
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See I took it more like she said it and then regretted it because everyone was questioning why she’d want to be around him. It wouldn’t surprise me if he was abusive because she’s drawn to abusive men. She’s textbook ACES. But then if she did make it up she’s vile
 
mamabear012 said:
I think what’s she’s told us about her bio dad is probably true, but her adoptive dad? That’s questionable. Why would she want a relationship with him into adulthood if he was abusive, never mind leave him with her baby! Even if I was desperate for childcare I’d never leave my child with someone that had abused or neglected children, even if it was in the past..
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There’s a pattern for victims of abuse to stay in their abusive relationships so I don’t necessarily agree with your point of why would she stick around.
However, allowing him alone with her child isn’t the best idea if she’s said he’s abusive.
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Was her live ever recorded or written verbatim? Because is it possible what she said was paraphrased or interpreted rather than using her literal words? I don’t think I was on this thread when that happened.
 
cwymmie said:
There’s a pattern for victims of abuse to stay in their abusive relationships so I don’t necessarily agree with your point of why would she stick around.
However, allowing him alone with her child isn’t the best idea if she’s said he’s abusive.
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Was her live ever recorded or written verbatim? Because is it possible what she said was paraphrased or interpreted rather than using her literal words? I don’t think I was on this thread when that happened.
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Sorry if that sounded ignorant, I’ve never been in an abusive relationship so I could never understand. Surely having her own child would be a massive eye opener for her tho? Just plain neglectful leaving him with an abusive old man, but then Tasha doesn’t understand the concept of safeguarding does she xx
 
mamabear012 said:
Sorry if that sounded ignorant, I’ve never been in an abusive relationship so I could never understand. Surely having her own child would be a massive eye opener for her tho? Just plain neglectful leaving him with an abusive old man, but then Tasha doesn’t understand the concept of safeguarding does she xx
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Oh she definitely doesn’t, like letting your random boyfriend of 3 weeks stay in your home with your child overnight 😩😩😩
 
cwymmie said:
There’s a pattern for victims of abuse to stay in their abusive relationships so I don’t necessarily agree with your point of why would she stick around.
However, allowing him alone with her child isn’t the best idea if she’s said he’s abusive.
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Was her live ever recorded or written verbatim? Because is it possible what she said was paraphrased or interpreted rather than using her literal words? I don’t think I was on this thread when that happened.
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I can’t remember now but it’ll be on the thread somewhere, we discussed it at length when it happened
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mamabear012 said:
Sorry if that sounded ignorant, I’ve never been in an abusive relationship so I could never understand. Surely having her own child would be a massive eye opener for her tho? Just plain neglectful leaving him with an abusive old man, but then Tasha doesn’t understand the concept of safeguarding does she xx
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Unfortunately it’s really common for victims of abuse to stay around their abusers. There’s a trauma bond that’s really hard to break. And with Tasha her real dad abandoned her when they were removed from his care, then she was placed with abusive adoptive dad but while he wasn’t nice, he stuck around. Then she’s been abandoned by every boyfriend she’s ever had while abusive adoptive dad is still there.

Plus, Tasha massively minimised his abuse. I can’t remember her exact words but she said he hit her because she was a badly behaved kid and fully justified his actions. It’s sad because in reality she was a child who had been through a massive trauma and upheaval. Nothing she ever did justified her adoptive dad hitting her. But she believes she deserved it, just like I imagine she convinced herself she deserved the abuse she had in her relationships. It’s all the a constant cycle of abuse, trauma bonds and abandonment. What she really needs is some serious therapy to end the generational trauma with her and give her son a better chance in life. But apparently she’d rather spend her money on holidays with man boobs
 
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how could someone be attracted to that thing
 

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