you mean you're a single mum without a nanny or a cleaner or a private therapist? who isn't regularly gifted toys and games, and freebie days trips out? who can't afford to spend money buying new clothes hauls on a weekly basis? who isn't currently trying to find a company to pay to have your house professionally decorated for christmas? who doesn't live in a huge house and regularly go out for nights out with friends? you mean you actually take care of and provide for your kids, and don't ignore them because you want to film yourself crying as content for reels, or share vlogs of yourself while simultaneously eating breakfast with your mouth wide open?!
the fact that tash added "solo parenting" to her bio and hashtags all ehr posts with #singlemum and shares vlogs where she shares her expert advice and top tips about divorce and being a single mum doesn't make her "relatable". and by pushing the "single mum" angle and basing the majority of her content on being a struggling and brokenhearted single mother only highlights her extreme privilege - that she seems totally unaware of and fiercely denies whenever someone highlights the fact that her life is not representative of the life of a single mother.
this!!!! That’s it. I’m cook, cleaner, chef the lot. I look after my children I have little to ho help, I’ve had one night out since feb which was last weekend…. I haven’t got any idea when my next child free night would be…. I’m ok with that I’m a mum and kids come first, Christmas is upon us. But don’t keep harping on trying to make yourself relatable you’ve got no idea how lucky you have it tash smh
your life sounds far more representative of the life of a single mother, and incredibly relatable to my childhood, where my mother was the same in how hard she worked to bring up both me and my brother - worked, cooked, cleaned, prioritised her kids above all else, had no free time/social life of her own, always ensured we had a magical christmas despite struggling financially etc etc. you are doing the best for your kids, and they will grow up. with the best memories, because spending time with them and being there for them is so much valuable than taking them on #gifted day trips and giving them huge piles of #gifted toys. you are not exploiting your children's childhoods to create content for SM, and you are putting them first - whcih is something to be damn proud of!
relatable single mum 
She does it all the time, that’s her first though “content” for the gram of how hard my life is now I’m a “single” parentRight so rather than stopping, sitting on the floor and giving her kids a big cuddle and telling them they’ll be ok, she gets her phone out to get a picture for the gram
Part of me wondered if she’d even got them to stage that photo
what did she talk about before her divorce? Whatever it was, James must of took it with him when he left
a generic post which is potentially relatable to the single parent families she is seemingly trying to lure into flowing her - but not at all reflective of Tash's privileged and unrelatable life as a single mum!
content - and the twins birthdays have been no less extravagant in terms of decorations and balloons and parties etc - she even has professional photos of the kids taken each christmas, again for content. 
This is so spot on!a generic post which is potentially relatable to the single parent families she is seemingly trying to lure into flowing her - but not at all reflective of Tash's privileged and unrelatable life as a single mum!
even if she doesn't do christmas eve boxes this year - which she absolutely will, filled totally with #gifted Christmas pyjamas and movies and sweets - she is literally planning to spend an extortionate amount to pay for her house to be professionally decorated for christmas, and the kids will still recieve loads of presents, along with all the #gifted toys and activities and day trips that they get to experience throughout the year. she did halloween crafts with her kids and halloween face-painting - admittedly in a bored, effortless kinda way because she needed content for ads - and took the kids to a pumpkin patch, plus her kids rooms are very recently redecorated and definitely fit the more minimal, pinterest aesthetic - as does her entire house, with even the ball put in Rome's room being all bland tones of greys and whites - with her promising the kids they can have a paw patrol themed bedroom at their dad's new house, with cartoon bedding etc, because she won't allow that in her own perfect home. and as for the kids wearing matching clothes, she literally sells kids clothes, so her children are always immaculately dressed with their clothes always matching in muted earthy tones, and an endless supply of new clothes. she went all out for the kid's first birthdays, with decorations and parties and cake smashes for the photos, because
Tash can reshare posts about not feeling you have to comply to the pressure, and not to feel guilty if you can't afford to do everything she can with her kids - but ultimately, it’s accounts like hers that create the pressure that other parents feel! flaunting her privileged lifestyle while claiming she is representative of a regular single mum is literally part of the problem, as ofc it will encourage comparisons and cause people to feel they are somehow failing. sharing content about the transition to looking after her kids alone for half the time is one thing, but it's totally insensitive to constantly compare her own situation to that of single mothers with no financial support or involvement from the other parent, who don't own a house or are very financially comfortable.
i think the nanny is mainly for Rome, as the twins are at school, and she supposedly can't juggle childcare with her "werk" as an influenza - which seems mainly to comprise of her buying endless hauls of identical beige outfits - to the point she has a whole dressing room filled with identical outfits she never wears - and creating reels of herself trying them on, while responding to Q&As about how tough her life is as a single mother who co-parents her kids with the help of a nanny, while filming herself crying to create "relatable" reels and taking photos of her crying kids before presumably palming them off on the nanny while she focuses on sharing the photos in her stories rather than comforting her kids.
i think the nanny is mainly for Rome, as the twins are at school, and she supposedly can't juggle childcare with her "werk" as an influenza - which seems mainly to comprise of her buying endless hauls of identical beige outfits - to the point she has a whole dressing room filled with identical outfits she never wears - and creating reels of herself trying them on, while responding to Q&As about how tough her life is as a single mother who co-parents her kids with the help of a nanny, while filming herself crying to create "relatable" reels and taking photos of her crying kids before presumably palming them off on the nanny while she focuses on sharing the photos in her stories rather than comforting her kids.
